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[–]JustTheTA 62 points63 points  (1 child)

It sounds so simple when put into words like this.

It’s a shame most women these days find being a good wife “degrading.”

+1

[–]420KUSHBUSH 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Ah yes but taking four cocks on the side while weasling a way for it to not be considered "cheating", cucking someone, and using Tinder and shit isn't "degrading". I was blind but now I see

[–]uwey 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Japanese had it explained the best:

Best woman is the one who would love you like a mother when you wake up, respect and take care of you as your sister during the day, and please you in bed like a lustful whore in the night.

I know lots of career woman, some of them do have both, but is rare.

Most woman crash and burn before even reach mid management level.

[–]KingGoy 49 points50 points  (1 child)

Share some of the angry PMs

[–]StickguyMB 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd like to see them too hehe

[–]ComelyCockCrow 20 points21 points  (6 children)

The healer tank dynamic is REAL. I remember back when I played Overwatch (before I stopped gaming) that the minority of female Overwatch players were extremely likely to pick the character 'Mercy.' Mercy is a female doctor angel type character that heals the Tanks and the Damage Per Second or 'DPS' characters (both of which require more skill to be great at as opposed to Mercy).

Overwatch released stats on the subject that showed that even though you can play any character that you want in any game, many females would ONLY PLAY MERCY EVER. The female Mercy 'main' became common enough to be an in-game cliche. I believe that it is no coincidence that a support role to the men, combined with the low skill cieling, combined with the fact that Mercy is a sexy nurse (just take one look at the gamer porn) draws women to take thier evolutionary place as a support to the large number of highly skilled men in-game on DPS that have practically negative reaction time, better skill, etc.

[–]anonswede 4 points5 points  (0 children)

From my (way too extensive) experience of WoW I agree, most women played exclusively healers or a class that COULD heal (like Shadow Priests or Feral Druids).

[–]AceofRains 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even in league of legends it’s like this- hell most role playing that you could get a girl to play she’ll likely pick a support. She wants to be useful to you while you play the game, so sometimes they are guided to that decision. Even lesbians I know prefer to play support or female champions. I notice men have no preference toward any champion. If they are powerful and strategize properly for a team composition than that’s what we tend to play. It could be the girliest champion and it would not matter if they carry the team well. When I was younger I would constantly look at the world through the lens of RPGs and analyzed the play styles of my friends, assigning them a job/class. League of Legends it what taught me that that though every one has a class, the best way to climb the ladder is to build efficiantly for your role type. If you’re a champ that’s designed to carry but you lock in as support (and try to play as a support), you hurt your self and your team. When I looked at my own life, I had always excelled and archers and mages- carry style jobs but back line jobs at that. I was very conflict avoidant unless I could complete destroy my world problems and if I couldn’t they’d destroy me. My brother was always my frontline. He’d be the one who would take the brunt of the problems and be my protector so it wasn’t until he moved away and I moved on my own that I had to learn to be a frontline combatant my self. The analogy he wrote above where women take care of household support so you the man has time to effeciantly run other things that matter is perfect. Being on my own (and being gay) I have no back up in that regard. I’m like a heavy DPS with minor support skills that’s trying not to die in a mine field of agressive enemies- my only chance its to one shot everything and move as fast as I can. I do well in that regard, but if I had back up I could move exponentially faster. I did move back in with my mom for a year and that allowed me the freedom to enroll in school and get into a real career among many of the other changes I need to make to solo my game at a better pace. Your parent is like a power lever, take advantage of it while you can and keep on good terms with them.

[–]megamanxtc 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Women are born with high inherent value, which depreciates over time, men build theirs from nothing as they age.

I will teach this to my kids - both sons / daughters - they can both learn the important lesson this simple line teaches.

[–]gunx00 10 points11 points  (5 children)

Very well written, as a Chinese I can say that the traditional ways are still expected from us so it helps out quite a lot.

However, I've been seeing more and more Chinese girls becoming Westernized and develop grandeur images of a career life. Most Chinese guys my age have stopped dating Chinese girls and started dating other races that adhere to more feminine traits.

I have seen most Chinese girls my age having trouble already looking for guys.

[–]CursingWhileNursing 9 points10 points  (4 children)

I remember a documentation about chinese women in their 30s already being called "leftover women". And I can understand why that is, most of their misery is self-made.

There was a woman in her early 30s in Shanghai who was one of those leftover women. Quite attractive (it was mentioned that this was true with chinese beauty standards in mind as well), successful business woman, but no husband or boyfriend. Because no one could meet her standards.

There was an arranged meeting with a potential husband. Also good looking, he had his own small company and he seemed to be a nice person. And she treated him like a piece of garbage.

But I guess this is true everywhere in the world. As a nurse, I have seen lots and lots of female nurses marrying male doctors. Now nowadays the number of female physicians skyrocketed, in my hospital there are more female than male doctors by now. And I have not seen a female doctor dating a male nurse even once. Because as a male nurse, I would be clearly below their dignity, no bloody way this would happen. Maybe another doctor in a leading position, but a nurse? What's next, the bloody garbage man?

[–]Endorsed ContributorHeathcliff--[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

A lot of smart, attractive, redpilled women actually hit the career ladder hard for a while purely with the knowledge she will eventually have access to high value males at the top. You won't find older alpha bucks at a nightclub after all.

Easy and effective way to not only get their attention but also to prove their worth. They're almost always married off before they begin to hit the wall.

Props to these girls, they'de maneaters but at least they play the game well.

[–]gunx00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This would assume that there are a lot of Alphas in the market. But you have to remember that most Chinese guys are being bred today to become Betas.

We are pressured to mix with our own race because of our customs but with the increase in BP males and RP females, most Chinese are marrying outside of the race.

This is alarming because one of the customs that is important for the Chinese is actually the Healer-Tank dynamic. With the continuous decrease in these relationships, the east is becoming more like the west an alarming rate.

[–]gunx00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too true, my own cousin (female) is the first doctor in our family, she's 28 already and our grandparents are scrambling to find her a BF before her 30s. She's a very strong woman I can say, doesn't take shit from anyone.

Everyone of the older generations are wondering why she can't get a decent Chinese Alpha BF. She ended up getting a Non-Chinese BF, which devastated her parents. They ended up accepting him but our grandparents and other elders still don't know about him. I haven't met him but I'm 99% sure he's a Beta, knowing ny cousin.

Shit's gonna hit the fan when the others find out.

[–]Nocryingok 5 points6 points  (3 children)

Isn't mythocondrial DNA passed just from the mother?

[–]Chaddeus_Rex 2 points3 points  (2 children)

Yes. But by comparing genetic variance of men between mitochondrial DNA and that of the 'Y' chromosome, it is possible to determine the amount of ancestors that the genes 'passed' through. What such a comparison shows is that there is a far larger variance in genes (more changes) in mitochondrial DNA than in Y Chromosomes.

[–]daffy_duck233 0 points1 point  (1 child)

What such a comparison shows is that there is a far larger >variance in genes (more changes) in mitochondrial DNA than in Y >Chromosomes.

Under the Results section of that particular paper, if you look at Table 1, the less-than-zero ratio of pairwise difference in genetic diversity between Y chromosome and mtDNA is only significant for Africa, Central Asia, and America.

But if you look at Figure 6 they ran simulations to estimate the number of effective females and effective males (the ones who reproduced) and nominally these numbers are larger for female. I'm confused as to how they arrive at this conclusion given the genetic diversity in mtDNA is only larger for the 3 above mentioned regions.

[–]Chaddeus_Rex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats because cucked fucks like yourself need to "sources" for anything but can't interpret them themselves.

The mtDNA is larger for ALL regions its just that its more pronounced in those regions as there has been a greater amount of sex biased migrations.

[–]JerkNClean 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Remind me a foreigner interviewing a Japanese lady why Japanese women are content been housewife and lack of career ambition. "Work life's hard" so simply put.

[–]ar4s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they are also seeking just as much sex on the side (80-90% if male Japanese colleagues are to be taken at face value. I for one see this as the only hole in this argument of life-long marriage/child rearing. The chemical bond that causes us to LTR and procreate, but then fades with the duress of time is as empirical/scientifically verifiable as it gets. It seems to me that while EVERYONE who executes this software when they get married strives for these ideals, there are bugs in the system because it doesn't match the hardware its fundamentally built on.

There is also some logical fallacy going on here in TRP. 1. It's masculine and acceptable to arrange a FMF threesome while in a committed relationship or otherwise. It's heretic and you're a cuck if you let another man lay hands on your woman. 2. It's generally fine for a guy have multiple plates, and one shouldn't care if their plates are fucking other guys. Why does this change after marriage? (My guess is paternity responsibilities).

Call me a cuck, but I plan on having an open-marriage because I myself know that I'm going to desire more pussy down the road. It would be ignorant for me to not believe that will not also be my partners desire. If/when this happens, it will be orchestrated as adults who are a team. I'm open to discussion on the topic so long as it isn't dogmatic rhetoric. I'd legitimately like to know why this is a bad idea, if it is.

[–]Immune2DNP 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Most men and women are brainwashed nowadays. Men are brainwashed into thinking it's sexist to not have women working at their level (merit, work ethic, past experience, education) DOES NOT MATTER. Men can be more qualified than girls for the job, but it would be sexist not to hire the girl. Women have been brainwashed into thinking that they need to be "strong, independent women", and make themselves miserable climbing the corporate ladder.

Look at it from an evolutionary standpoint:

  • Men are fighters, warriors, builders, conquerers-they seek power, resources, glory, and a submissive, fertile, loving woman.

  • Women are the home makers, nurturers, provide comfort and love-they seek a strong, high SMV man who they can give themselves to completely and support his life.

This post made sense from an evolutionary, primal perspective. Thanks for phrasing it so articulately.

[–]Ezaar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the RPG analogies and different perspective.

[–]RisingTogether 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To me, this is definitely true. Good post

[–]Eclectiqque 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so how do you let your girl know this? I suppose it wouldn't be a wise idea linking her to this post, would it?

[–]RedGunnera 1 point2 points  (4 children)

Interesting to see a post on TRP from a female perspective - it makes me wonder what % of the sub is female.

I liked the idea of how the womb is the females most important asset, if she is clever in her life goals she will find the best way to maximise this asset and satisfy her biological imperative - thereby gaining the satisfaction and fulfilment of a successful family.

For myself personally I can see how this would be very lucrative as a ‘re-roll’ on the sex lottery to come back as a female... that is of course unless you end up an ugly duckling, then you’re really fucked (what is the highest SMV an ugly female can achieve? HB 6 at best?)

[–]Endorsed ContributorHeathcliff--[S] 1 point2 points  (3 children)

The ugly girl has it worse than the incel. At least the incel, as hideous as he is, has the opportunity to earn his sex through money, fame and power, other games he can play. Most do not, the path is not easy, but it exists, and so any failure is entirely on the fault of the incel himself.

At worst, the incel can have his primal needs for sex and intimacy fulfilled by prostitutes, being aspergic enough to enjoy it even though it's a fabricated dream.

The ugly girl however, only gets to play in one arena, and this is a coinflip game she lost, and has little control of. She hasn't an alternative to this position, and so must accept her place, always the loser, always having to settle, never able to properly experience the fantastical adoration of a boy with one-itis.

The incel has given up, the ugly girl never even got the chance to play.

[–]jimmyboy113 0 points1 point  (1 child)

The ugly woman would be wise to play in the men's arena. Try to earn a living and work 9-5, basically be an "independent woman".

[–]Endorsed ContributorHeathcliff--[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and a lot do, and achieve a lot as a result. a lot of great female scientists come from this pool

[–]Half-biT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well another heathcliff post anddddd I’ve lost 30 minutes of studying. Great work as always.

[–]ar4s 1 point2 points  (0 children)

/u/Heathcliff-- The Onset and eventual "entropy" of male/female relationships seems to be one that is chemical. You point out a wonderfully idealized version a LTR/Marriage here. While it may be attained with the vigilance and integrity of both parties, I'm of the opinion that there is a lifetime for sexual attraction. I say there is a vector that allows for all of this, with sexual freedom once a relationship hits a point, and this integrity is openly and honestly maintained. What say you to that?

[–]VickVaseline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heathcliff, I have been reading your posts voraciously.

This one is really refreshing and different. One would think that a post geared toward girls would be too off-topic for this sub, but you managed to do it in such a RP way that it fits right in! Damn, it should be on the sidebar.

Oh, but asking for nudes is just plain thirsty in my opinion lol

[–]Chaddeus_Rex 0 points1 point  (1 child)

/u/Heathcliff--

Two questions if you will:

  1. In order to get your attention as a man, do I send you nudes too? I can do that you know.

  2. I am confused between the assertion that TRP makes that making alot of money/being overly successful will make you viewed as a BB by a woman. So why has there been a recent trend in men saying to 'get your shit together' and become a BB rather than an AF?

[–]Endorsed ContributorHeathcliff--[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

  1. Only if you're hung

  2. Regardless of the women, it is your duty to make buck for yourself. Money is the numerical quantifier of how much power you wield in the world. There is no shame in seeking fortune, and no excuse for being poor. Just never let a woman use you as a meal ticket.

[–]ChadTheWaiter100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heath cliff bar your posts are always good; that’s something I’ve quickly realized. I wish we could widely spread this message somehow.

Do you believe that there are women who can realize this on a subconscious level? Everything you’ve mentioned makes perfect sense. My wife always says things like “I feel safe around you”.

When I was younger, I was handsome but really had little going for me. As a kid I used to have to almost beg for a bj. As I got older women began to treat it more as a privilege and my wife progressed to literally asking me if she can suck my dick; sometimes even trying to pull it out and suck it on the spot (in the house or while we’re in the car)

In short, I’m teally grateful for all I’ve learned in trp. I don’t abuse these powers; I don’t use it for evil. It’s transformed me from a handsome half beta to a valuable male. I’ve graduated college and got a nice starting career, I’m in decent shape and I got good dick to throw.

[–]mytrillosophy 0 points1 point  (1 child)

I agree with your post, but I’d never wanna be a woman. Maybe I’m a masochist, but I’ve always enjoyed the grind/struggle of manhood

[–]Endorsed ContributorHeathcliff--[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our strength as men is that we have more control of our climbing power than women do: their ladder speed is determined solely on their looks, which is a lottery. Men have more control of their trajectory.

This is why you should have mixture of daughters and sons as a father. The girls are the guaranteed lineage, the safe option, a confirmed place in the next generation, albeit possibly only on the current rung. Your sons are for climbing, aiming to take the family line up to the next ceiling, grinding to a better position on the socio-economic ladder. Risky climbing lives for the sons, safe lives for the daughters. It's a tried and tested strategy.

[–]colzod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post is awesome. My favourite from the RP so far. The nudes bit was the perfect closer - just what was needed after a long serious article. Excellent writing.

[–]Snowiceolated 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good post, sounds really nice. I think deep down we all still wish this sort of relationship was possible. That one sexy and caring woman willing to support you through thick and thin and stay loyal no matter what? I wish man...I wish.

There was this one guy I'm familiar with who let and wanted his girlfriend to stay home. He has a good job and bought a house for the two of them, and was preparing to propose. She would make dinner for him everyday, do all the laundry, clean, etc. How do I know all this? Why I would go over and fuck her before he came home. I got to taste test the food she was making him too.

But it sounds nice. Maybe on my journey I'll run into one of these unicorns. But we'll see how long the illusion lasts, and I realize she's a horse with a party hat on.

[–]CashMeOnRedditDD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a neighbor whose 44F married and 2 kids with 28M. She pays the bills and she’s a total milf.

[–]yomo86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

[marriage 1.0] We don't really have it anymore, and it's hard to find a woman to achieve it with, but it is still, definitely possible.

No. This is wrong per se. Some people will say, marriage was not so bad. Yup, that's right. But the main caveat is, marriage as a deal, a bi-party trade-off is gone. Legally, morally and least we forget financially. We can academically discuss whether or not marriage makes sense but as it is right now, it doesn't come close being a viable option for a man even with the best woman.

Second

As a woman, you have been born with the most important piece of human machinery in existence: the womb. As such, you have a huge responsibility to further the existence of humanity/your race by producing the next generation. You are the only ones that are able to do this, so your life and purpose are already defined for you from birth.

I dissent that the prime programming of a man is to have offspring. To have sex is a prime directive, how it is achieved is irrelevant. It does not even have to serve the female imperative AF/BB is a testimony to this. Easy girls, sluts, hookers, escorts, basically the womb as you describe it is up for the highest bidder or we should say leasee, may your currency be either alphaness or provisioning. This does not change the fact, that men feel attached to their spawn, or that they might like raising the children but mingling biological necessities (sex, provisioning) with personal feelings (child raising, family union) is, in my opinion, not very wise as it is close to the hamster's wheel.

[–]PirateAri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another girl here. :D

I agree with you on most of the post. I agree we are the caretakers, the healers, the mums. I also agree women can be real backstabbers.

However, I don't really get why we're less inteligent compared to men by default? I'm studying a not-so-easy university, doing quite a bit of scientist work and I don't really feel less inteligent compared to the guys.

Also, I don't see why you think it's a bad thing for a woman to want to educate herself. I'll finish my studies in a few years, maybe work for a bit and I plan to have the first baby with my boyfriend way before 30. Don't see how that age isn't fertile.

Of course, I don't mean to be a "career woman" either. I just want to have a job that will make me happy and will challenge me a little, and for that, the university is necessary. I wouldn't wanna be a housewife - you guys can hate me for that but I know for sure it wouldn't satisfy me. I hope you can understand, or that you'll at least try to see it from this point of view. :)

Edit: Forgot to mention, I appreciate your view of women as actual human beings, not just baby factories or sex toys like some other contributors here. :D

[–]Layback 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of the better posts I've seen here in a long time

[–]miomayorga 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow so true! Amazing post! I wish more people had the traditional mindset that RP has.

[–]Adamn27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dear Sire, I've never ever read such good post here in TRP.

I could quote any of your lines but each and every one of them is too good so I could not copy here just one.

Thank you very much for writing this. TRP needs more posts like this. I especially liked that, that you are speaking about both sexes.

These facts that you wrote could heal the wounds that third wave feminism made to the western world. It's straightforward, simple, and true.

This should be publicated to other parts of the internet.

Thank you very much, really.

[–]Swaaylaa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I got to “weaker, less driven, and less intelligent” and you lost me. Tried to finish out the piece getting to “bitchiness” being a ~skill~ and realized that’s when you really lost me.

Maybe if you treated women like people and not commodities marriages would be successful?

[–]KookyDonut 0 points1 point  (7 children)

Hey I have imgur blocked on my laptop (I blocked all forms of social media except for Reddit and YouTube). Any way for me to see the questions?

[–]placental 8 points9 points  (4 children)

Yeah, temporarily unblock imgur.

Go to the public library.

Borrow someone else’s laptop for 20 seconds.

Wipe your OS and buy new Windows key full MSRP and reinstall browser, check this before you reinstall social media blocker.

Pay me 100 schmeckles to upload them into a YouTube video.

[–]Odins-left-eye 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Pay me 100 schmeckles

I don't know how much that is. Is that a lot? Is it a little?

[–]TheRealJesusChristus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Use another browser that doesnt controll this kind of stuff. I am not sure which would do such a thing, but there are plenty of browsers out there.

[–]sharp7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Buy a windows key at full msrp price hahahah

[–]CptainJellyfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her questions in the screenshot are in the post.

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[–]JustTheTA 62 points63 points  (1 child)

It sounds so simple when put into words like this.

It’s a shame most women these days find being a good wife “degrading.”

+1

[–]420KUSHBUSH 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Ah yes but taking four cocks on the side while weasling a way for it to not be considered "cheating", cucking someone, and using Tinder and shit isn't "degrading". I was blind but now I see

[–]uwey 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Japanese had it explained the best:

Best woman is the one who would love you like a mother when you wake up, respect and take care of you as your sister during the day, and please you in bed like a lustful whore in the night.

I know lots of career woman, some of them do have both, but is rare.

Most woman crash and burn before even reach mid management level.

[–]KingGoy 49 points50 points  (1 child)

Share some of the angry PMs

[–]StickguyMB 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd like to see them too hehe

[–]ComelyCockCrow 20 points21 points  (6 children)

The healer tank dynamic is REAL. I remember back when I played Overwatch (before I stopped gaming) that the minority of female Overwatch players were extremely likely to pick the character 'Mercy.' Mercy is a female doctor angel type character that heals the Tanks and the Damage Per Second or 'DPS' characters (both of which require more skill to be great at as opposed to Mercy).

Overwatch released stats on the subject that showed that even though you can play any character that you want in any game, many females would ONLY PLAY MERCY EVER. The female Mercy 'main' became common enough to be an in-game cliche. I believe that it is no coincidence that a support role to the men, combined with the low skill cieling, combined with the fact that Mercy is a sexy nurse (just take one look at the gamer porn) draws women to take thier evolutionary place as a support to the large number of highly skilled men in-game on DPS that have practically negative reaction time, better skill, etc.

[–]anonswede 4 points5 points  (0 children)

From my (way too extensive) experience of WoW I agree, most women played exclusively healers or a class that COULD heal (like Shadow Priests or Feral Druids).

[–]AceofRains 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even in league of legends it’s like this- hell most role playing that you could get a girl to play she’ll likely pick a support. She wants to be useful to you while you play the game, so sometimes they are guided to that decision. Even lesbians I know prefer to play support or female champions. I notice men have no preference toward any champion. If they are powerful and strategize properly for a team composition than that’s what we tend to play. It could be the girliest champion and it would not matter if they carry the team well. When I was younger I would constantly look at the world through the lens of RPGs and analyzed the play styles of my friends, assigning them a job/class. League of Legends it what taught me that that though every one has a class, the best way to climb the ladder is to build efficiantly for your role type. If you’re a champ that’s designed to carry but you lock in as support (and try to play as a support), you hurt your self and your team. When I looked at my own life, I had always excelled and archers and mages- carry style jobs but back line jobs at that. I was very conflict avoidant unless I could complete destroy my world problems and if I couldn’t they’d destroy me. My brother was always my frontline. He’d be the one who would take the brunt of the problems and be my protector so it wasn’t until he moved away and I moved on my own that I had to learn to be a frontline combatant my self. The analogy he wrote above where women take care of household support so you the man has time to effeciantly run other things that matter is perfect. Being on my own (and being gay) I have no back up in that regard. I’m like a heavy DPS with minor support skills that’s trying not to die in a mine field of agressive enemies- my only chance its to one shot everything and move as fast as I can. I do well in that regard, but if I had back up I could move exponentially faster. I did move back in with my mom for a year and that allowed me the freedom to enroll in school and get into a real career among many of the other changes I need to make to solo my game at a better pace. Your parent is like a power lever, take advantage of it while you can and keep on good terms with them.

[–]megamanxtc 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Women are born with high inherent value, which depreciates over time, men build theirs from nothing as they age.

I will teach this to my kids - both sons / daughters - they can both learn the important lesson this simple line teaches.

[–]gunx00 10 points11 points  (5 children)

Very well written, as a Chinese I can say that the traditional ways are still expected from us so it helps out quite a lot.

However, I've been seeing more and more Chinese girls becoming Westernized and develop grandeur images of a career life. Most Chinese guys my age have stopped dating Chinese girls and started dating other races that adhere to more feminine traits.

I have seen most Chinese girls my age having trouble already looking for guys.

[–]CursingWhileNursing 9 points10 points  (4 children)

I remember a documentation about chinese women in their 30s already being called "leftover women". And I can understand why that is, most of their misery is self-made.

There was a woman in her early 30s in Shanghai who was one of those leftover women. Quite attractive (it was mentioned that this was true with chinese beauty standards in mind as well), successful business woman, but no husband or boyfriend. Because no one could meet her standards.

There was an arranged meeting with a potential husband. Also good looking, he had his own small company and he seemed to be a nice person. And she treated him like a piece of garbage.

But I guess this is true everywhere in the world. As a nurse, I have seen lots and lots of female nurses marrying male doctors. Now nowadays the number of female physicians skyrocketed, in my hospital there are more female than male doctors by now. And I have not seen a female doctor dating a male nurse even once. Because as a male nurse, I would be clearly below their dignity, no bloody way this would happen. Maybe another doctor in a leading position, but a nurse? What's next, the bloody garbage man?

[–]Endorsed ContributorHeathcliff--[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

A lot of smart, attractive, redpilled women actually hit the career ladder hard for a while purely with the knowledge she will eventually have access to high value males at the top. You won't find older alpha bucks at a nightclub after all.

Easy and effective way to not only get their attention but also to prove their worth. They're almost always married off before they begin to hit the wall.

Props to these girls, they'de maneaters but at least they play the game well.

[–]gunx00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This would assume that there are a lot of Alphas in the market. But you have to remember that most Chinese guys are being bred today to become Betas.

We are pressured to mix with our own race because of our customs but with the increase in BP males and RP females, most Chinese are marrying outside of the race.

This is alarming because one of the customs that is important for the Chinese is actually the Healer-Tank dynamic. With the continuous decrease in these relationships, the east is becoming more like the west an alarming rate.

[–]gunx00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too true, my own cousin (female) is the first doctor in our family, she's 28 already and our grandparents are scrambling to find her a BF before her 30s. She's a very strong woman I can say, doesn't take shit from anyone.

Everyone of the older generations are wondering why she can't get a decent Chinese Alpha BF. She ended up getting a Non-Chinese BF, which devastated her parents. They ended up accepting him but our grandparents and other elders still don't know about him. I haven't met him but I'm 99% sure he's a Beta, knowing ny cousin.

Shit's gonna hit the fan when the others find out.

[–]Nocryingok 5 points6 points  (3 children)

Isn't mythocondrial DNA passed just from the mother?

[–]Chaddeus_Rex 2 points3 points  (2 children)

Yes. But by comparing genetic variance of men between mitochondrial DNA and that of the 'Y' chromosome, it is possible to determine the amount of ancestors that the genes 'passed' through. What such a comparison shows is that there is a far larger variance in genes (more changes) in mitochondrial DNA than in Y Chromosomes.

[–]daffy_duck233 0 points1 point  (1 child)

What such a comparison shows is that there is a far larger >variance in genes (more changes) in mitochondrial DNA than in Y >Chromosomes.

Under the Results section of that particular paper, if you look at Table 1, the less-than-zero ratio of pairwise difference in genetic diversity between Y chromosome and mtDNA is only significant for Africa, Central Asia, and America.

But if you look at Figure 6 they ran simulations to estimate the number of effective females and effective males (the ones who reproduced) and nominally these numbers are larger for female. I'm confused as to how they arrive at this conclusion given the genetic diversity in mtDNA is only larger for the 3 above mentioned regions.

[–]Chaddeus_Rex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats because cucked fucks like yourself need to "sources" for anything but can't interpret them themselves.

The mtDNA is larger for ALL regions its just that its more pronounced in those regions as there has been a greater amount of sex biased migrations.

[–]JerkNClean 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Remind me a foreigner interviewing a Japanese lady why Japanese women are content been housewife and lack of career ambition. "Work life's hard" so simply put.

[–]ar4s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they are also seeking just as much sex on the side (80-90% if male Japanese colleagues are to be taken at face value. I for one see this as the only hole in this argument of life-long marriage/child rearing. The chemical bond that causes us to LTR and procreate, but then fades with the duress of time is as empirical/scientifically verifiable as it gets. It seems to me that while EVERYONE who executes this software when they get married strives for these ideals, there are bugs in the system because it doesn't match the hardware its fundamentally built on.

There is also some logical fallacy going on here in TRP. 1. It's masculine and acceptable to arrange a FMF threesome while in a committed relationship or otherwise. It's heretic and you're a cuck if you let another man lay hands on your woman. 2. It's generally fine for a guy have multiple plates, and one shouldn't care if their plates are fucking other guys. Why does this change after marriage? (My guess is paternity responsibilities).

Call me a cuck, but I plan on having an open-marriage because I myself know that I'm going to desire more pussy down the road. It would be ignorant for me to not believe that will not also be my partners desire. If/when this happens, it will be orchestrated as adults who are a team. I'm open to discussion on the topic so long as it isn't dogmatic rhetoric. I'd legitimately like to know why this is a bad idea, if it is.

[–]Immune2DNP 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Most men and women are brainwashed nowadays. Men are brainwashed into thinking it's sexist to not have women working at their level (merit, work ethic, past experience, education) DOES NOT MATTER. Men can be more qualified than girls for the job, but it would be sexist not to hire the girl. Women have been brainwashed into thinking that they need to be "strong, independent women", and make themselves miserable climbing the corporate ladder.

Look at it from an evolutionary standpoint:

  • Men are fighters, warriors, builders, conquerers-they seek power, resources, glory, and a submissive, fertile, loving woman.

  • Women are the home makers, nurturers, provide comfort and love-they seek a strong, high SMV man who they can give themselves to completely and support his life.

This post made sense from an evolutionary, primal perspective. Thanks for phrasing it so articulately.

[–]Ezaar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the RPG analogies and different perspective.

[–]RisingTogether 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To me, this is definitely true. Good post

[–]Eclectiqque 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so how do you let your girl know this? I suppose it wouldn't be a wise idea linking her to this post, would it?

[–]RedGunnera 1 point2 points  (4 children)

Interesting to see a post on TRP from a female perspective - it makes me wonder what % of the sub is female.

I liked the idea of how the womb is the females most important asset, if she is clever in her life goals she will find the best way to maximise this asset and satisfy her biological imperative - thereby gaining the satisfaction and fulfilment of a successful family.

For myself personally I can see how this would be very lucrative as a ‘re-roll’ on the sex lottery to come back as a female... that is of course unless you end up an ugly duckling, then you’re really fucked (what is the highest SMV an ugly female can achieve? HB 6 at best?)

[–]Endorsed ContributorHeathcliff--[S] 1 point2 points  (3 children)

The ugly girl has it worse than the incel. At least the incel, as hideous as he is, has the opportunity to earn his sex through money, fame and power, other games he can play. Most do not, the path is not easy, but it exists, and so any failure is entirely on the fault of the incel himself.

At worst, the incel can have his primal needs for sex and intimacy fulfilled by prostitutes, being aspergic enough to enjoy it even though it's a fabricated dream.

The ugly girl however, only gets to play in one arena, and this is a coinflip game she lost, and has little control of. She hasn't an alternative to this position, and so must accept her place, always the loser, always having to settle, never able to properly experience the fantastical adoration of a boy with one-itis.

The incel has given up, the ugly girl never even got the chance to play.

[–]jimmyboy113 0 points1 point  (1 child)

The ugly woman would be wise to play in the men's arena. Try to earn a living and work 9-5, basically be an "independent woman".

[–]Endorsed ContributorHeathcliff--[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and a lot do, and achieve a lot as a result. a lot of great female scientists come from this pool

[–]Half-biT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well another heathcliff post anddddd I’ve lost 30 minutes of studying. Great work as always.

[–]ar4s 1 point2 points  (0 children)

/u/Heathcliff-- The Onset and eventual "entropy" of male/female relationships seems to be one that is chemical. You point out a wonderfully idealized version a LTR/Marriage here. While it may be attained with the vigilance and integrity of both parties, I'm of the opinion that there is a lifetime for sexual attraction. I say there is a vector that allows for all of this, with sexual freedom once a relationship hits a point, and this integrity is openly and honestly maintained. What say you to that?

[–]VickVaseline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heathcliff, I have been reading your posts voraciously.

This one is really refreshing and different. One would think that a post geared toward girls would be too off-topic for this sub, but you managed to do it in such a RP way that it fits right in! Damn, it should be on the sidebar.

Oh, but asking for nudes is just plain thirsty in my opinion lol

[–]Chaddeus_Rex 0 points1 point  (1 child)

/u/Heathcliff--

Two questions if you will:

  1. In order to get your attention as a man, do I send you nudes too? I can do that you know.

  2. I am confused between the assertion that TRP makes that making alot of money/being overly successful will make you viewed as a BB by a woman. So why has there been a recent trend in men saying to 'get your shit together' and become a BB rather than an AF?

[–]Endorsed ContributorHeathcliff--[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

  1. Only if you're hung

  2. Regardless of the women, it is your duty to make buck for yourself. Money is the numerical quantifier of how much power you wield in the world. There is no shame in seeking fortune, and no excuse for being poor. Just never let a woman use you as a meal ticket.

[–]ChadTheWaiter100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heath cliff bar your posts are always good; that’s something I’ve quickly realized. I wish we could widely spread this message somehow.

Do you believe that there are women who can realize this on a subconscious level? Everything you’ve mentioned makes perfect sense. My wife always says things like “I feel safe around you”.

When I was younger, I was handsome but really had little going for me. As a kid I used to have to almost beg for a bj. As I got older women began to treat it more as a privilege and my wife progressed to literally asking me if she can suck my dick; sometimes even trying to pull it out and suck it on the spot (in the house or while we’re in the car)

In short, I’m teally grateful for all I’ve learned in trp. I don’t abuse these powers; I don’t use it for evil. It’s transformed me from a handsome half beta to a valuable male. I’ve graduated college and got a nice starting career, I’m in decent shape and I got good dick to throw.

[–]mytrillosophy 0 points1 point  (1 child)

I agree with your post, but I’d never wanna be a woman. Maybe I’m a masochist, but I’ve always enjoyed the grind/struggle of manhood

[–]Endorsed ContributorHeathcliff--[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our strength as men is that we have more control of our climbing power than women do: their ladder speed is determined solely on their looks, which is a lottery. Men have more control of their trajectory.

This is why you should have mixture of daughters and sons as a father. The girls are the guaranteed lineage, the safe option, a confirmed place in the next generation, albeit possibly only on the current rung. Your sons are for climbing, aiming to take the family line up to the next ceiling, grinding to a better position on the socio-economic ladder. Risky climbing lives for the sons, safe lives for the daughters. It's a tried and tested strategy.

[–]colzod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post is awesome. My favourite from the RP so far. The nudes bit was the perfect closer - just what was needed after a long serious article. Excellent writing.

[–]Snowiceolated 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good post, sounds really nice. I think deep down we all still wish this sort of relationship was possible. That one sexy and caring woman willing to support you through thick and thin and stay loyal no matter what? I wish man...I wish.

There was this one guy I'm familiar with who let and wanted his girlfriend to stay home. He has a good job and bought a house for the two of them, and was preparing to propose. She would make dinner for him everyday, do all the laundry, clean, etc. How do I know all this? Why I would go over and fuck her before he came home. I got to taste test the food she was making him too.

But it sounds nice. Maybe on my journey I'll run into one of these unicorns. But we'll see how long the illusion lasts, and I realize she's a horse with a party hat on.

[–]CashMeOnRedditDD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a neighbor whose 44F married and 2 kids with 28M. She pays the bills and she’s a total milf.

[–]yomo86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

[marriage 1.0] We don't really have it anymore, and it's hard to find a woman to achieve it with, but it is still, definitely possible.

No. This is wrong per se. Some people will say, marriage was not so bad. Yup, that's right. But the main caveat is, marriage as a deal, a bi-party trade-off is gone. Legally, morally and least we forget financially. We can academically discuss whether or not marriage makes sense but as it is right now, it doesn't come close being a viable option for a man even with the best woman.

Second

As a woman, you have been born with the most important piece of human machinery in existence: the womb. As such, you have a huge responsibility to further the existence of humanity/your race by producing the next generation. You are the only ones that are able to do this, so your life and purpose are already defined for you from birth.

I dissent that the prime programming of a man is to have offspring. To have sex is a prime directive, how it is achieved is irrelevant. It does not even have to serve the female imperative AF/BB is a testimony to this. Easy girls, sluts, hookers, escorts, basically the womb as you describe it is up for the highest bidder or we should say leasee, may your currency be either alphaness or provisioning. This does not change the fact, that men feel attached to their spawn, or that they might like raising the children but mingling biological necessities (sex, provisioning) with personal feelings (child raising, family union) is, in my opinion, not very wise as it is close to the hamster's wheel.

[–]PirateAri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another girl here. :D

I agree with you on most of the post. I agree we are the caretakers, the healers, the mums. I also agree women can be real backstabbers.

However, I don't really get why we're less inteligent compared to men by default? I'm studying a not-so-easy university, doing quite a bit of scientist work and I don't really feel less inteligent compared to the guys.

Also, I don't see why you think it's a bad thing for a woman to want to educate herself. I'll finish my studies in a few years, maybe work for a bit and I plan to have the first baby with my boyfriend way before 30. Don't see how that age isn't fertile.

Of course, I don't mean to be a "career woman" either. I just want to have a job that will make me happy and will challenge me a little, and for that, the university is necessary. I wouldn't wanna be a housewife - you guys can hate me for that but I know for sure it wouldn't satisfy me. I hope you can understand, or that you'll at least try to see it from this point of view. :)

Edit: Forgot to mention, I appreciate your view of women as actual human beings, not just baby factories or sex toys like some other contributors here. :D

[–]Layback 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of the better posts I've seen here in a long time

[–]miomayorga 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow so true! Amazing post! I wish more people had the traditional mindset that RP has.

[–]Adamn27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dear Sire, I've never ever read such good post here in TRP.

I could quote any of your lines but each and every one of them is too good so I could not copy here just one.

Thank you very much for writing this. TRP needs more posts like this. I especially liked that, that you are speaking about both sexes.

These facts that you wrote could heal the wounds that third wave feminism made to the western world. It's straightforward, simple, and true.

This should be publicated to other parts of the internet.

Thank you very much, really.

[–]Swaaylaa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I got to “weaker, less driven, and less intelligent” and you lost me. Tried to finish out the piece getting to “bitchiness” being a ~skill~ and realized that’s when you really lost me.

Maybe if you treated women like people and not commodities marriages would be successful?

[–]KookyDonut 0 points1 point  (7 children)

Hey I have imgur blocked on my laptop (I blocked all forms of social media except for Reddit and YouTube). Any way for me to see the questions?

[–]placental 8 points9 points  (4 children)

Yeah, temporarily unblock imgur.

Go to the public library.

Borrow someone else’s laptop for 20 seconds.

Wipe your OS and buy new Windows key full MSRP and reinstall browser, check this before you reinstall social media blocker.

Pay me 100 schmeckles to upload them into a YouTube video.

[–]Odins-left-eye 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Pay me 100 schmeckles

I don't know how much that is. Is that a lot? Is it a little?

[–]TheRealJesusChristus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Use another browser that doesnt controll this kind of stuff. I am not sure which would do such a thing, but there are plenty of browsers out there.

[–]sharp7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Buy a windows key at full msrp price hahahah

[–]CptainJellyfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her questions in the screenshot are in the post.

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