I’ve always considered myself a risk-averse person. Whenever I assess the pros and cons of a situation, the fear of the negative outcome pushes me to play it safe. For most of my adult life, I’ve let that fear guide me—until my junior year of college.
Despite the many unknowns, I decided to study abroad in France. I had no idea how I would support myself financially, no friends or family in the area, and a limited (but growing) knowledge of the culture, customs, and language. Still, with my education winding down, I was determined to have a new experience. I worked hard to secure a scholarship and overcame every obstacle to make it happen. All of it made me think: Maybe I’m capable of more than I used to imagine.
While I’ll never be a reckless risk-taker, I’m starting to take more calculated risks. When I do, I gain a better understanding of myself and walk away more resilient. The more I practice stepping outside of my comfort zone, the more comfortable I get doing it—and research promises that this will be an asset throughout my education and career.
Next year, I’m taking another risk. I’m spending my last full semester in California. I may have to delay my graduation. I may accumulate debt. I may feel lonely until I make friends. But I’m also going to fulfill a goal I’ve been working towards since freshman year—an internship in a competitive field that I want to pursue. I’ve learned that most times, the biggest risks reap the greatest rewards.
If you need a little help finding the courage to take your first risk, here’s some advice from our authors that I’ve found encouraging.
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