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What would you say Is the main thing turning people away from my profile?
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Your first two (maybe even three) photos showing barely anything. Can’t really see your face or even your body.
As much as you look really cool, can’t really see you until I scroll past the first few photos.
Second this. As a Human who lives on planet Earth, I demand skin. It's just who I am.
Exactly that!
The first pic for sure, but I disagree on the second one. It's totally cute and I would definitely hit you up. However, I would definitely put that as your last pictures
You look really cool, but this is a tinder/hinge worthy profile set up. We all know what Grindr is for. Throw in 1 or 2 of your cool pics included with some more sexual ones (shirtless mirror, swimsuit, etc)
Ugh I hate grindr
But that's what Grindr is. It's like saying, "ugh I hate greasy Mike's Burger Shack. Can never get a decent fois gras no matter how much I ask"
Like, Grindr is for one thing, Hinge/Tinder is for another
Honestly I didn’t even notice you are trans. It’s hard to see your face until the last two pictures. On Tinder this is probably fine, but on the Grindr grid it’s easy to pass by. Rearrange the order and see if that helps.
these were my pics right before updating to what you see in my post ^
but thank you for the feedback on my current lineup of photos. I will rearrange again.
You look really good in the pic with the beanie. Ik you didn't ask, but i think you look best with a 5 o'clock shadow like there (or maybe shaved?).
I agree I’d ask the guy in the benie on a date
The last two pictures (is that an owl?) would keep me away. I still don't like the one with the stick 😄
I like the pic with the beanie a lot
I don't think too much beard looks good on you 😘
I second this. The neck beard with rest of shaved face is not attractive. Neither is the stick one. Need more beanie type pics
i appreciate the feedback
the wooden sculptures are trolls- part of my travels include visiting them around the world
Please, please, pleeeeaaasseeee 🙏🙏🙏, delete the dog photo. I don't think you want that attention
Hate that this is a thing but yes, listen to this guy. Have gotten pretty messed up messages out of the blue about my dog. And it just dawned on me that somebody's probably accepted some of those propositions 😭.
oh geez
Unfortunately a lot of men on grindr only want smooth twinks if you're a trans man. They struggle to understand that we're regular dudes just like they are, and not just a porn category. Your profile also doesn't come off as "sexy" but more so as relationship seeking (not to say it couldn't be sexy if you desired). I'd show more skin if your interest is hook ups.
yeah, that’s the thing- i’m not seeking hookups. i wouldn’t mind the occasional if it felt right, but i prefer to focus on other types of relationships like friendships/dating
it feels a bit misleading if i come across as more open to sex than i actually am, but it definitely does attract more attention when I make it more sexy
I think you would have more success on a different app then
It's the Amish beard for me
Your photos are not sexy at all
Prob that last pic with the stick lol. I like the rest.
Also, though, grindr is for hookup and you're looking for friends or dates. So you're already not gonna find many people.
Maybe we need a r/rateMyGrindrAccount sub or something? Just an idea...
This may just be a *me* turn off, but the literal neckbeard isn’t it man. Beards *ARE* a turn on me for me, but I think you’d look much more attractive and handsome in general if you were to shave regularly.
You def are a contender for a clean shaved look, I say this as someone whose facial hair grows similarly, but mines (starting) to come in on my cheeks a bit more… only took me to almost 30, lols.
Since Grindr is primarily a hookup app, you’d want to have more photos with your full body in them, since we’re talking about mere sexual attraction… people are much harsher when it comes to their interests in hookup partners.
You don’t necessarily need to only have photos of you in briefs or anything kink related, but people are going to be more choosy.
I know it’s not what you want to hear but it’s purely based on your looks…
You literally munching a stick ???
Your first picture is cool for instagram but is not helpful for making someone want to click on your profile in a hookup app. It basically looks like one of those random scenery photos that DL guys have.
Have you filled out the Preferences and Health sections? For me they are the most important sections for establishing if I want to message someone.
Without knowing if you filled inthe Preferences/Health sections, your bio has some useless or conflicting information:
- EN: doesn't really need to be stated for California or the trips you have on your profile.
- Friends or Dates: not going to appeal to a lot of people on a hookup app.
- Ask before sending nudes: this makes it sound like you're sometimes looking to hookup. If so, it doesn't sound like it'll be as easy an experience as the next person on the grid who does want nudes, and also goes against the idea of "Friends and Dates"
- Traveling if not in California: okay. Travellers have an icon on their profile anyway.
For me(I can only speak for myself) it’s the fact that you’re not a twink. For some reason I can’t expand my tastes as I age. Anyway… you look really cool, interesting, fun, and I would absolutely go on any adventure with you based solely on your pictures. I wish I knew you in real life. Good luck, friend.
This pic got my attention I'd say maybe lead with it (sorry for screenshotting)
The first picture is very vague and doesn’t show much, maybe use one of the other pics first
I personally think that your profile reflects what you want to attract and should be left as is. You'll have less interactions sure but the ones you'll have will mostly be the ones you're lookin for. Now if you want more interactions, put something slutty upfront. Men are vile creatures and grindr brings out the worst in them and that can be delightful if that's what you want.
So brother! U look super handsome and sexy. I only say this as it minimized my responses in the past. But it could be just as simple as u having lo bf hair. I had long hair for a while and it turned people off on me. But u are perfect as u are today and if u were on my grid i would hit u up based on ur current profile
Its definitely the bubblebutt tag people are very scared of double cheeked up individuals
Name being in fancy unicode can appear unfriendly to some