| Artist's Block: Forgive and forget? |
[Oct. 28th, 2009 ·· 11:48 am]
Nell O'Breslin
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Do you tend to forgive and forget or hold grudges? What is the longest you've ever stayed angry with someone? Is there anything the other person could say or do to win back your friendship and trust?
Something from lady_laguna 's journal that I've been meaning to answer, but never got off my lazy butt to do until now~
I have to let go, really. I know what happens when you hold grudges, as I've seen in my dear ex-girlfriend. Seeing her in retrospect sort of changed the way I carry myself emotionally. It's pointless to hold grudges....what's the point of staying angry over something that happened days, or weeks, or hell, months ago? In the end, I'm just angry, and nothing has changed. Or I could choose to move on and worry about my own life and enjoy the things I do, so I don't accelerate any stress or anger related issues....hair loss, ulcers, what have you. The most I stay angry is maybe...oh, 4 hours at the VERY most....then I get on Youtube and watch something like, "Cats Falling Off of Balconies into Pudding" and I'm happy again~ :>
But when it all comes down to resolution...a heart-felt apology and a smile is usually all that does it for me~
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