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I was abandoned twice as a baby - children in care deserve more

Teleri Glyn-Jones - Politics Wales
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Sarah Cooper-Lesadd - pictured with her birth mother - was in care before her first birthday [Sarah Cooper-Lesadd]

When Sarah Cooper-Lesadd was just a tiny baby, she lost her mum to postpartum psychosis.

At six months, her dad gave her up and she was put into care.

"Before I was old enough to understand the world, I'd already been let go of twice," said Cooper-Lesadd, who went on to be adopted when she was seven and is now a Reform MS.

In a speech in the Senedd last week, Cooper-Lesadd said she had grieved her mum for her entire life despite never knowing her.

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"I have two photographs, and never once heard her voice," she said.

On Wednesday the Senedd backed her calls, without objection, for a new law so looked-after children in Wales will have the same protections as in England.

Welsh government minister Delyth Jewell said she was not ruling out new legislation.

Cooper-Lesadd said her mum "fell through every gap the system had, and the highest price was paid by her and by a three-week-old baby, me, who entered care because the mother who loved her could not be saved".

Cooper-Lessad fell behind at school while in care, but was adopted aged seven.

"I grew up housed in a family yet always somehow a guest in it, tolerated more than wanted, my place forever something I had to earn and feared I could lose," said the MS for Pen-y-bont Bro Morgannwg.

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"Adoption did not end my trauma, it gave it a new shape."

She acknowledged many people helped her to become the person she is today, saying: "I do not stand here as someone who has failed, because others did not fail me."

She grew up in Newport and went on to study at Cambridge University and worked in the civil service before being elected for Reform UK.

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Sarah Cooper-Lesadd was elected as a Reform MS in the most recent Senedd election [Sarah Cooper-Lesadd]

"Along the way there were people, a family friend, teachers, others who simply took the time to listen, who saw past the file to the person and showed me that the world was wider than the one I'd been given," Cooper-Lesadd told BBC Politics Wales ahead of her debate motion calling for laws protecting children in care to be strengthened.

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"We have a moral obligation in society to tell care leavers we care about them enough to give them those iron-clad protections that someone who would be living with their birth family would get right through their lives."

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Sarah Cooper-Lesadd was adopted but never felt she fitted in [Sarah Cooper-Lesadd]

Who is responsible for children in care?

In England the Children's Wellbeing and Schools Act 2026 strengthened the obligations on public bodies to consider the needs of care-experienced children.

In Wales, only local authorities are legally considered "corporate parents" to those children, and the motion calls for more bodies, such as health boards, to take on that responsibility.

There is a voluntary charter that public bodies can sign up to, but there are no legal protections for young people if they fall short of that charter.

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"Although 70 organisations have signed up and that's brilliant, actually there is nothing statutory embodied in law to actually say that this is this is what care leavers expect to receive when they leave care and when they're living in care," said Cooper-Lesadd.

Her proposals would mean, she said, that if a child in care turned up at A&E, the health board would be "obligated to have due regard to mitigating their disadvantage" and it would have to be "at the forefront of their mind" when considering ongoing treatment.

Crucially, she says, the child would have legal protections "if the health board doesn't live up to expectations".

"It's all very well and good having this voluntary charter, and that's amazing, but it leaves care leavers absolutely without any recourse to hold that body to account if they don't do the right thing," she said.

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Sarah Cooper-Lesadd told Politics Wales opposition parties did not wish to be associated with a Reform motion [BBC]

A spokesperson for the Welsh government said: "Government, key agencies and communities have a vital role in supporting care-experienced children navigate childhood and the transition to adulthood.

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"We have a collective responsibility to ensure everyone is given a fair chance at life.

""The Corporate Parenting Charter in Wales has been developed with care-experienced young people. Unlike the legislation in England, it goes further - covering not just public sector bodies, but private and third sector organisations too."

Prior to the debate, Cooper-Lesadd claimed members of the opposition signed in support of her motion but then withdrew their signatures - and she suspected it was because it was from a Reform member.

"I found it absolutely astounding that the government didn't want to debate this idea," she said.

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"This should transcend party politics but it's just been reduced to such a zero sum game and people can't get together on issues that would make the most vulnerable children in our society better off."

In the end, the Reform MS' non-binding motion calling for a new law on extending corporate parenting responsibilities in Wales was passed by the Senedd without a vote on Wednesday.

Delyth Jewell, Welsh government deputy minister for social care, said she was "willing to consider" new legislation but said there were "very positive aspects to the Welsh setup we have too".

"I do not intend for this to be the end of this conversation. We are in no way ruling out possible statutory options. I'm keen to make sure that we get this right," she said.

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  • Christian parents Daniel and Bianca Samson have been separated from their daughters, Sara and Tiana, by the Swedish government for more than three years following a false abuse allegation made by Sara, then 11, which was later admitted to be a lie.

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WASHINGTON, D.C. — Christian parents whose two daughters were seized by the Swedish government more than three years ago brought their custody battle to Washington, D.C., on Friday.

A crowd of Romanian Americans gathered outside the Swedish Embassy in Washington on Friday morning to show their support for Daniel and Bianca Samson, Christian parents who have been separated from their daughters, Sara and Tiana, since December 2022.

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The years-long battle began after Sara, then 11, made a false abuse allegation against her parents, stemming from an argument over not being allowed to wear makeup or have a smartphone. Despite Sara quickly admitting she had lied, Swedish social services removed the girls from the home.

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Prosecutors found no evidence of abuse, but the state refused to return the girls, citing the family's habit of attending church three times a week and media choices as evidence of "religious extremism."

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In court, Daniel Samson said officials labeled the parents "religious extremists" to justify their separation. He said lawyers used their parenting choices against them, such as the girls not being allowed to paint their nails, the lack of a television in the home and the reading of Bible stories, which he said authorities called "violent."

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The case has drawn international outrage and support from the Romanian government. Romanian Sen. Titus Corlatean and Chicago Pastor Cristian Ionescu traveled to speak at the D.C. rally, which coincides with similar demonstrations planned this week in Brisbane, Stockholm, London and Copenhagen.

Ionescu, the senior pastor of Elim Romanian Pentecostal Church and president of the Romanian Pentecostal Churches' Union in the United States, told Fox News Digital he hopes the same sort of government overreach won't come to the U.S. But after fleeing communism in Romania 40 years ago, he says he's alarmed by the rise of socialism in political races across the country.

"I see a surge of socialist and communist politicians and this is always associated with a totalitarian society," Ionescu said. "In Romania, they didn't confiscate the children from the families, but they were trying to educate them in a worldview and in a system contrary to Christian values, and parents that did not cooperate were persecuted."

"I hope I will never see this in America," he continued. "This is why I left Romania almost 40 years ago. America used to be a cradle of true civilization, Christianity. Now it's changing and not for the better, but I hope we will still hold the front line."

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In June, the Romanian Senate unanimously approved a declaration demanding Sweden immediately return the Samson girls to their family. Romanian Sen. Corlatean, who raised the proposal, said Sweden has ignored their demands.

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"There was no reciprocity in this relationship, no positive answer. It was a simulation of cooperation," Corlatean told Fox News Digital.

He said the girls are Romanian citizens and accused Sweden of violating the two nations' diplomatic relationship as well as international law.

"They are not Swedish citizens, so Sweden is keeping [the girls] abusively in their custody against the will of the state of citizenship of our own citizens," he added.

The separation has taken a severe toll on the children. Samson said both girls have attempted suicide six or seven times while in state custody, and his eldest daughter has since been placed in an adult psychiatric facility.

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"It's horrible, and it's a desperate situation," Corlatean added. "The girls are asking all the time to be given back to their parents and to Romania, and the social services are lying constantly saying the daughters are refusing to go back to their parents."

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Since taking their story public, Daniel Samson says the Swedish government has entirely barred the family from seeing the girls and expressed intent to change their names — a move he fears is a precursor to forced adoption.

Over the past three years, Samson said his family has lost 14 times in Swedish courts. In March, the Samsons lost their final appeal to regain custody, after the European Court of Human Rights ruled their case inadmissible.

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Corlatean hopes the U.S. will lend their support and show "solidarity" for the Romanian family, citing the two nations' "shared Christian values."

He added that there is precedent for the U.S. helping in cases like this, citing the 2015 case of the Bodnarius, a Christian Romanian Norwegian couple whose five children, including a nursing baby, were placed in foster care by Norway for seven months on allegations they spanked their children.

"There were a number of congressmen, members of the Senate, and also through the State Department that signing letters, [asking] questions and putting pressure on the Norwegian case at the time," Corlatean explained. "It was very helpful. So there is already a precedent of good cooperation."

Swedish social services previously told Fox News Digital it could not comment on individual cases and did not immediately respond to a request for comment. 

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The Swedish Embassy said it cannot comment on or intervene in individual cases. 

"Sweden greatly values its excellent relations with Romania, including as NATO Allies and EU Member States," the embassy said.

"In Sweden, everyone has the same constitutional rights and freedoms, regardless of 'race, skin colour, sex, language, religion, political or other opinion, national or social origin, property, birth or other status' as is stated in the Universal Declaration of Human Rights," it continued.

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"Swedish social services employ social workers with specialized knowledge about children's needs," the embassy added. "The social welfare committee in the municipality where the child resides is responsible for ensuring that children grow up in a safe environment."

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'I'm sickened my son's killers could be out early'

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Andrew Flamson died in hospital three days after been mowed down in a hit and run [Janice Lees]

A mother whose son was murdered in a hit-and-run crash says she is sickened two of his killers may be released early under government reforms.

Janice Lees, from Blackpool, spoke out after Andrew Flamson died after being hit by a car in Coventry in July 2022 in revenge for a £400 drugs debt.

Driver Ashley Donald was jailed for life in 2023 for murder. Three passengers, including Carl Tomlinson and Callum Ayre, were also jailed, but could now be considered for release halfway through their sentences.

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The Ministry of Justice did not provide updates on individuals, but said the most dangerous offenders were blocked from early release and anyone who was released faced tough restrictions.

However, Lees said a notification Tomlinson and Ayre could be released early was "a bloody insult to me and all the other mothers whose children have been murdered".

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Callum Ayre and Carl Tomlinson were jailed for 12 and 13 years respectively for manslaughter in 2023 [West Midlands Police]

Flamson, who used and dealt drugs, was fatally injured in an act of retaliation following a row over money he owed for cannabis.

Tomlinson and Ayre, from Coventry, were jailed for 13 years and 12 years respectively, while Donald was told he would serve a minimum term of 23 years.

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A fourth passenger, Samuel Henneberry, died in prison in 2025. All three were convicted of Flamson's manslaughter.

Lees said she was stunned to receive an email two weeks ago from her Probation Service victim liaison officer to say Tomlinson and Ayre were eligible to have their terms reduced.

She believes this means they would only have to serve "50% instead of two thirds of the sentence", under the terms of the Sentencing Act, which was passed in January.

"She said, that the two men who was still serving sentences for the manslaughter of my boy, would be released early, possibly within the next two years."

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Lees was told that Tomlinson and Ayre could be released in the next two years [Janice Lees]

The act includes a wide-ranging package of measures and, as a result, thousands of offenders are to be released early from September, in an effort to relieve overcrowding.

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Reports suggest killers, rapists and sex offenders could be among those let out, but the move has led to widespread criticism of the government.

Under The Progression Model, a new measure introduced in the act, those serving standard determinate sentences with an automatic release point of two thirds will now have an earliest possible release date of one half.

These are the most common type of sentence, denoting the maximum time the offender could spend in custody, although the whole time might not necessarily be spent in prison.

Labour MP for Blackpool North and Fleetwood Lorraine Beavers said her thoughts were "with all victims of crime and their families, but with Janice especially given the information she has received".

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The MP added: "She is right to be angry. Any prospect of early release is worrying for those still living with the consequences of these offences.

"All victims should be kept fully informed and treated with compassion and respect, and dangerous criminals such as those responsible for Andrew's death should not be released."

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Flamson in a family photo as a child, with his mum and her husband, Dave [Family]

In the email to Lees, seen by the BBC, the officer writes the two prisoners can have their custodial terms reduced as they are serving a standard determinate sentence.

"The changes are being applied to all offenders already sentenced and those who are being sentenced from now onwards," it read, adding the officer would let her know when the prison had confirmed their release dates.

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Lees said she disagreed with the government's reforms being applied retrospectively.

'A fair trial'

"It's an injustice for all victims... and it has sickened me that the government passed this law," she said.

In court, she had sat through the CCTV footage of her son's killing.

"They had a fair trial. They dragged me through a trial and showed me what they'd done to my child. I sat and I saw that," she said.

"Judge Lockhart was firm and fair. He gave them what they deserved, and they should sit there and come out when the sentence is served.

"I do get emotional. I try and be rational, but it's not a rational thing to have your child murdered."

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Lees plans to remember her son on the anniversary of his death in the memorial garden she has planted in her home [Janice Lees]

Lees said she had contacted Beavers to try to take the matter further.

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"I'm going to push this as far as I'm able to push it," she added.

On the fourth anniversary of her son's death, on Wednesday, she plans to place an new ornament in his memorial garden at her home, where she likes to sit and chat with him.

"You know, I talk to him a lot," she said.

'Tough rules'

A Ministry of Justice spokesperson said the government was "fixing the prison crisis it inherited" and that public safety and victim safety was its "top priority".

"Without this decisive action, prisons will run out of space entirely as early as November and we will be unable to lock up serious offenders at all," they said.

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"Offenders who a judge has deemed the most dangerous are automatically blocked from early release, and prisoners who behave badly while behind bars face being locked up for longer.

"Anyone who is released faces tough rules such as restrictions on their movements, tagging, being banned from attending public events, pubs and clubs, backed by our record £700m investment into probation and 1,300 extra probation officers."

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“I never felt like I didn’t have a dad because I did have a dad — ‘Daddy Dave’” Lauren Cannefax tells PEOPLE

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At just 9 months old, Lauren Cannefax's life changed in a way she was too young to understand, but would spend years trying to make sense of.

Cannefax's biological father, who struggled with addiction, decided to leave her mother shortly after they became parents, forcing her mom to rebuild from the ground up with an infant in her arms.

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"I saw him twice after that, all before the age of 2, then after the age of 2, he came back to serve my mom papers, and when she asked him if he wanted to see me again, he said 'no,'" Cannefax, 29, tells PEOPLE exclusively.

Although she has no meaningful memories of her biological father, his absence lingered in ways she couldn't explain as a child. "As a little girl, I remember closing my eyes and seeing this handsome Korean man in my head, but I couldn't quite piece [together] where he was from or who he was," she reveals. 

What followed, however, was not a story defined by abandonment, but one about a man who chose to step into fatherhood and love a little girl as his own. Decades later, as her life has unfolded, Cannefax has learned that the strongest families are built by unwavering commitment, not just biology.

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Krista Erdmann and Lauren Cannefax.
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While her mother, Krista Erdmann, adjusted to life as a single parent, she enrolled in a divorce recovery class at church, where she met Dave Erdmann — a man 15 years her senior who was also navigating his own divorce at the time.

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"In the divorce recovery class, they rarely interacted, and my mom said she actually had no interest in dating or marrying again because she was okay if the rest of her life was just she and I," Cannefax says. "However, my dad thought she was really beautiful and tried to ask her out."

Eventually, Dave's cheerful greetings to Krista each week softened her mother's reservations enough to give him a chance, and from there, their relationship blossomed quickly.

After building a house he thought would be his "bachelor pad," Dave instead moved Cannefax and her mother into it, staying with his own parents until the wedding.

"He always made sure we felt safe and never intruded," Cannefax recalls. "Within eight months from their first date, they were married."

Lauren Cannefax with parents Dave and Krista Erdmann.
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Though Cannefax knew Dave wasn't her biological father from a young age, he quietly became the father who showed up for her every day.

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"He would drive me to and from preschool, he would take me for McDonald's apple pie dates on Thursdays," she reveals. "Little things that started to erase this question of 'Dad' in my mind."

And by age 4, the relationship that had already been built in practice became official in every sense when Dave legally adopted Cannefax.

"I got my first little bible with my new name on it, and I remember feeling a sense of belonging to have the same name as my parents," she says.

Lauren Cannefax with stepfather Dave Erdmann.
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But even after the adoption, Cannefax still wrestled with questions that surfaced whenever she noticed how different she looked from the people raising her.

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"I was a Korean little girl, and neither of my parents looked anything like me," she admits. "When I would lie my head down at night, I would see the Korean man's face in my head, but I couldn't place where he was from. I kept telling my mom, and she wouldn't know what to say."

When her parents finally explained who her biological father was and why he was gone, the conversation brought both heartbreak and unexpected relief.

"The moment they told me, I felt grief and sadness, even as a little girl," Cannefax recalls. "But I also felt peace because after that night, I never saw [my biological father's] face again in my mind."

Lauren Cannefax with parents Dave and Krista Erdmann.
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Years later, while Cannefax was in seventh grade, her parents sat her down with another difficult conversation: her biological father had died from a drug overdose. This time, she mourned not only the relationship she had lost, but the one she would never have the chance to know.

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"The grief was and still is deep. Not because I knew him. But because I didn't. I always imagined that someday I would go find him, or maybe he would show up for my 16th birthday, high school graduation, college graduation, something," she says. "There was no scenario in my mind where I didn't get the opportunity to know him."

Still, throughout it all, Dave remained exactly where he had always been — by her side.

Together, he and Cannefax attended her biological father's funeral, despite being surrounded by unfamiliar relatives filled with stories about the man she barely knew.

"Every time I'd get overwhelmed, I'd look up, and I'd see my 'Daddy Dave,' and my Uncle Robbie — my mom's brother," she recalls. "They didn't leave my side once."

Lauren Cannefax after giving birth
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Cannefax says Dave's steadfast presence never changed over the years.

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"Every single day since I was 4 years old, my dad has told me that he loves me, and that he's proud of me," she tells PEOPLE. "Every single day."

He attended every milestone, from swim meets and piano recitals to college graduation and the birth of her first son.

"There wasn't a date he missed. I never felt like I didn't have a dad because I did have a dad — 'Daddy Dave,'" Cannefax says. "If I had to describe my dad to people who didn't know him, I would say he is so warm. He is a big hug wrapped in deep feelings."

Lauren Cannefax parents Dave and Krista Erdmann with one of their grandchildren.
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When asked about a moment she will remember with Dave forever, Cannefax immediately thinks back to when she was 20 years old and called off her wedding just 27 days before walking down the aisle.

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Heartbroken and convinced her future had fallen apart, she found herself in the basement playing a game of pool with the man who had always taught her to earn every win. Dave — known to never bend the rules, believing there is value in learning life's hard lessons — on that day, decided to go easy on her.

"That particular day, we were playing together, and I remember scratching on the 8-ball. He looked at me, quietly pulled the ball out of the corner pocket, and said, 'Sometimes, we get do-overs,'" Cannefax recalls. "And it stuck with me forever. My 20-year-old self knew that I was going to get a do-over in life because my dad said so."

Lauren Cannefax and family.
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That do-over became reality when, two years later, Cannefax married her dream man, later welcoming two children. In June 2026, she moved into a multigenerational home with her husband, children, her mother and Dave — a reflection of the close-knit family they have built over decades.

Looking back, Cannefax hopes other single mothers facing seemingly impossible circumstances can see that their future is not defined by the people who leave, but by those who choose to stay. 

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"I want every single mom in the world to know that your story isn't over. I can't imagine a life without my Daddy Dave," she says. "Blood never made him my dad; him showing up did."

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