DEAR DEIDRE

I no longer feel close to my cousin after her husband told me she was a swinger – how do I get past this?

Whenever I see her, I find myself remembering those intimate photos her husband showed me and imagining the lifestyle he described

Sally Land , The Sun's Agony Aunt
Published: 21:00, 3 Jul 2026
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A blonde woman under a white duvet with her hands covering her mouth, with a couple kissing behind her.
Cheeky young woman in a threesome or the cheating partner in an affair peeking out of the bottom of the bedclothes with a saucy expression as a young couple at the top of the bed share a loving kiss Credit: Getty – Contributor

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