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Thanks for asking this question. I’ll do my best to simplify the answer. Everyone manifests. You don’t have to believe in it or actively practice manifestation to do it. Everyone actively participates in the creation of their reality. Manifestation or LOA is all about energy. Energy has no emotion. There is no such thing as good or bad energy. It’s the thoughts we attribute/attach to it that are good or bad. Energy responds to the greater pull. I know this may sound counterintuitive, but you can say something “positive”, and have a “negative” outcome because the underlying energy carrying that thought is negative.

Example: you get a new car and you’re happy about it. You say, I’m happy I got a new car”. Then your next sentence is, I don’t have to worry about getting new tires, or fixing the transmission, and the leather seats are perfect, and the paint isn’t all scratched up”. When you add all the reasons why you love the new car, you aren’t actually saying good things, you’re saying all the bad things with strong energy attached, and now the energy you’ve put out is related to all the bad things you just said. The energetic push for the “bad things” was magnified because you were happy. So the next day you drive your car to the store and a shopping cart hits the car and it gets scratched. While driving back from the store you run over a nail and now you need a new tire. Your friend gets in the car to go with you to get the tire and they have keys in their back pocket and sit down in a way that their key punches a hole in your new leather seat.

You get where this is going?

So you are actually, and going by what you said your consistent experience is, an incredible manifestor. Your manifestation ability is very strong.

Now, how you change this to an actual positive you want or at the least to cancel out what you don’t want is to shift your mindset when thinking about the good things, or things you like when they are working for you. Like the hair thing. Still love a good hair day. But now when you think my hair is great, leave it at that thought. My hair is great… Period. Not my hair is great because I don’t see my split ends. Just my hair is great. Stay with the “great” feeling alone. Do this with everything you feel is good for you. Don’t add the negative to the positive thoughts. Keep the thoughts positive only.

Because you are so good at calling in the opposite, I bet when you make this shift to the positive only, more good is going to explode in your life.

If you think this is going to be hard, start with small things. Catch small thoughts or things first. Get comfortable with shifting your thoughts to eliminate negative attachments to good things. You’ll see the change right away.

Best to you!