DEAR DEIDRE

I haven’t had sex with my wife in over six years – has the menopause turned her gay?

What’s been playing on my mind lately is her close friendship with a woman she used to work with

Sally Land
Published: 21:00, 17 Apr 2026
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Updated: 21:01, 17 Apr 2026
A couple lying in bed with their backs to each other, indicating conflict.
Couple having problems in bed Credit: Getty

DEAR DEIDRE: IF I try to get intimate with my wife, she jokes and says: “Not with you.”

But it’s not funny. We haven’t had sex for more than six years.

I’m starting to wonder if the menopause has turned her gay as she has become close friends with a woman.

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