I HAD MY BEST MAN AT MY WEDDING
I CHEATED on my brand new husband on our wedding day.
And now I’m having sex with both my hubby and my bit on the side.
My husband and I had just cut the cake when the best man – his best mate – grabbed my hand and said he had something to show me outside.
My new hubby was busy talking to his aunties so I slipped outside and was led to the best man’s Transit van. Five seconds later we were on a mattress in the back having sex.
He tore off my blue thong with his teeth and gave me the best wedding present ever.
He whispered that he was deter- mined to be the first man to make love to me after I’d taken my vows and he confessed that he’d set the whole thing up.
Since then we have met for sex several times behind my hus- band’s back. I know I should feel thoroughly ashamed of myself but I’m just loving it.
Sex with my husband is no- where near as exciting or raunchy as with his best man so as far as I’m concerned I’m get- ting the best of both worlds.
Now my saucy lover has sug- gested that we see each other more regularly. At the moment it’s about twice a month but he even wants us to go away for a weekend together.
My husband will be off on a football tour with his mates to France in a few weeks and my lover reckons that would be aperfect time for us. I know I wouldn’t want to be with my lover full-time, but I want to have excit- ment before I’m past it.
JANE SAYS: Then what on earth were you doing getting married?
You are being a complete idiot. Surely you must realise this is a ridiculous situation to be in.
The simple fact is you can’t have your cake and eat it. If you want your marriage to be more than an empty sham, then you can’t possibly think of spending time on a jaunt with your lover while your husband is away.
Before you do anything else you must make a decision about whether to stay with your husband or to leave him for your lover.
It sounds to me like your marriage was a massive mistake in the first place.
Why else would you even con- sider having sex with the best man at your wedding if you were in love with your husband?
You haven’t given your marriage much of a chance of succeeding yet you are risking everything for someone you say you wouldn’t want to be with full-time.
I suggest you get rid of your lover and concentrate on getting your marriage to work.
At least if it doesn’t, you can say you’ve tried. But at the moment it’s really dead in the water.