TransFem Space

TransFem Space: A safe space for TransFem individuals and allies. Together, we build a stronger community!

Everyone is welcome as long as a signup reason is given. It should be a minimum of 1-2 sentences about you and why you're interested in our instance. An example: "I'm queer and I'd like to try out sharkey".

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Boosted by Kylie Neko :v_trans: :v_ace: :v_lesbian:
@pastelfluffyfox
- urgent donations also needed for hotel payment and groceries. ideal goal is $0/$350. please help me and my family. -

okay so - putting aside the big relocation goal, we do need more immediate donations. i am down to less than $40 for food, and mom only has $18 in cash left.

in two days another payment to this hotel is due, and unfortunately we do have to stay here and safe while i work on getting us out of here.

i really need help with that, and i especially need help with buying food because by tomorrow what i have left now will be gone. (or almost gone)

please as always help us.

goal: $0/$350

https://www.paypal.me/hazelnutflavorcoffee

#mutualaid #helpfolkslive2026 #begpost #MutualAid #urgentmutualaid #emergencymutualaid

@mutualaid@fedigroups.social
@mutualaid@ovo.st
@pastelfluffyfox
half tempted to switch instances if nothing is done about that blatantly transphobic post
Boosted by Tay
@ellesaurus@toot.lgbt
toot.lgbt
Authors need a direct donate button so I can just hand them money then go grab a copy off Anna's Archive instead of the very annoying hoops of finding a local bookseller that has what I want when want I want is a DM-free ebook.
Boosted by Tay
Boosted by Kylie Neko :v_trans: :v_ace: :v_lesbian:
Some advice for fediverse newcomers, particularly those coming here from corporate social media:

1) Follow and boost! Following is how you find posts you like, and boosting is how you let others find posts you like.

2) Alt text! Many fediverse users are blind. They cannot see images. Hence, if you make a post with an an image, it's good to include a text description of the image. This can be an "alt text," which screenreaders can read instead of the image, or it can just be text under the image. Some people are unwilling to boost posts that contain description-free images.

3) Content warnings! When you make a post about a heavy topic, you can choose to "hide" it behind a warning which mentions the kind of content. Anyone who sees the post can decide if they are in the right headspace to open it. For example, if you are going to talk about what a transphobic politician is doing, you can use the content warning transphobia, politics. Some users will only boost posts with heavy topics if they have content warnings, so using a CW can expand the reach your posts have.

If you're talking about a heavy topic, you should not try to hide it with "algo-speak." For example, if you're talking about suicide, do not say "su*cide* or "unalive myself:" type out the actual word you mean, and use a CW.

This also means if you see a post with a warning like "transphobia," it does not mean it's actually a transphobic post: it's likely made by a trans person critiquing transphobia. If you see actual transphobia, you should report it immediately. Speaking of which....

4) Reports! All moderation on the fediverse is done by actual living, breathing people! There's no AI scanning all your posts to decide who to ban or whose posts to hide. If you see a post containing bigotry or spam, press the report button (usually located near the reply or boost buttons) and write a report: the real people who run your instance will read the report and respond! I talk more about reports in the quoted post.

Also, if you receive a DM claiming to be a mod bot which tells you your account has been automatically disabled, it is a scam, and you should report it.

5) Money: Your instance is run by a single person or small group of people doing it for fun, in their free time, at their own expense. There is no company running your instance. There are no investors. There is no premium memership. There are no ads. You should keep in mind that the people running your instance are doing it for fun, and not to extract profits from you.

Your instance admins might accept donations, or they might not (it's their choice). If they do, and you can afford it, then it's good to donate to support your instance, but you will not unlock any additional features by donating. And if you can't donate, you should not feel bad about it.


#FediTips #Welcome
2something
@2something
Quick message to all fediverse newcomers:

Moderation in the fediverse is done by humans. There are no bots that shadowban you based on detecting certain keywords. This has some important consequences:

1) If you see a rule-breaking post, click the "report" button and write a report. The actual living, breathing creatures who run your instance will review the report.

The location of the report button varies depending on your client/app software: it's usually near "reply" or "boost."

2) The text you write in a report matters, because it will be read by an actual person. The mods are not just counting the number of reports.

3) If you're talking about a sensitive topic like suicide, you should not bleep it out like "sui-de". You won't be banned for typing the actual word out. You should instead use a content warning for your post to warn your readers. Some users who don't wish to see certain topics can voluntarily apply word filters to their own timelines, and bleeping words is rude because it bypasses their filters.

4) If you get a DM saying something like
Your account has been automatically disabled due to suspicious activity. Please click hear to verify your identity
it is a scam! There is no AI to automatically disable your account! You should report the scam message.

#FediTips
Boosted by :neodog_floof_angel: :heart_trans: Quinn :therian:
Bard :genderqueer_flag: :rat_pan:
@Bard
Oh yeah, that's why I stopped reading manga during my afternoon break. People talking constantly in the canteen so I can't concentrate on it :gura_bonk:
Oh yeah, that's why I stopped reading manga during my afternoon break. People talking constantly in the canteen so I can't concentrate on it :gura_bonk:
Some advice for fediverse newcomers, particularly those coming here from corporate social media:

1) Follow and boost! Following is how you find posts you like, and boosting is how you let others find posts you like.

2) Alt text! Many fediverse users are blind. They cannot see images. Hence, if you make a post with an an image, it's good to include a text description of the image. This can be an "alt text," which screenreaders can read instead of the image, or it can just be text under the image. Some people are unwilling to boost posts that contain description-free images.

3) Content warnings! When you make a post about a heavy topic, you can choose to "hide" it behind a warning which mentions the kind of content. Anyone who sees the post can decide if they are in the right headspace to open it. For example, if you are going to talk about what a transphobic politician is doing, you can use the content warning transphobia, politics. Some users will only boost posts with heavy topics if they have content warnings, so using a CW can expand the reach your posts have.

If you're talking about a heavy topic, you should not try to hide it with "algo-speak." For example, if you're talking about suicide, do not say "su*cide* or "unalive myself:" type out the actual word you mean, and use a CW.

This also means if you see a post with a warning like "transphobia," it does not mean it's actually a transphobic post: it's likely made by a trans person critiquing transphobia. If you see actual transphobia, you should report it immediately. Speaking of which....

4) Reports! All moderation on the fediverse is done by actual living, breathing people! There's no AI scanning all your posts to decide who to ban or whose posts to hide. If you see a post containing bigotry or spam, press the report button (usually located near the reply or boost buttons) and write a report: the real people who run your instance will read the report and respond! I talk more about reports in the quoted post.

Also, if you receive a DM claiming to be a mod bot which tells you your account has been automatically disabled, it is a scam, and you should report it.

5) Money: Your instance is run by a single person or small group of people doing it for fun, in their free time, at their own expense. There is no company running your instance. There are no investors. There is no premium memership. There are no ads. You should keep in mind that the people running your instance are doing it for fun, and not to extract profits from you.

Your instance admins might accept donations, or they might not (it's their choice). If they do, and you can afford it, then it's good to donate to support your instance, but you will not unlock any additional features by donating. And if you can't donate, you should not feel bad about it.


#FediTips #Welcome
2something
@2something
Quick message to all fediverse newcomers:

Moderation in the fediverse is done by humans. There are no bots that shadowban you based on detecting certain keywords. This has some important consequences:

1) If you see a rule-breaking post, click the "report" button and write a report. The actual living, breathing creatures who run your instance will review the report.

The location of the report button varies depending on your client/app software: it's usually near "reply" or "boost."

2) The text you write in a report matters, because it will be read by an actual person. The mods are not just counting the number of reports.

3) If you're talking about a sensitive topic like suicide, you should not bleep it out like "sui-de". You won't be banned for typing the actual word out. You should instead use a content warning for your post to warn your readers. Some users who don't wish to see certain topics can voluntarily apply word filters to their own timelines, and bleeping words is rude because it bypasses their filters.

4) If you get a DM saying something like
Your account has been automatically disabled due to suspicious activity. Please click hear to verify your identity
it is a scam! There is no AI to automatically disable your account! You should report the scam message.

#FediTips
Boosted by Gwen the Loitering Fox :therian:
@arch@floofy.tech
Floofy.tech - Where the fluffy beans run around
born to yap force to open another jira ticket
Boosted by :neodog_floof_angel: :heart_trans: Quinn :therian:
Boosted by Gwen the Loitering Fox :therian:

kink?, pickup line

Hey, cutie, are you into CNC?
Cause I wanna play some RA multiplayer.
Boosted by Amber :neodog_box:
Boosted by :heart_trans: fluffy fox girl :heart_trans:
if you get mad at transmascs talking about their experiences with transphobia: die
Boosted by Tzimisce Flesh
@aral@mastodon.ar.al
Aralโ€™s fediverse server
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Boosted by Tzimisce Flesh
@catsalad@infosec.exchange
Infosec Exchange
Even the absence of all light enjoys a good nap :3
Photo of a black cat sleeping while curled up in a ball on a fluffy comforter folded on a bed. For max comfort, the void kitty absorbs all nearby light and heat while occasionally emitting Pawking Radiation in the form of purrs.
ALT
Bard :genderqueer_flag: :rat_pan:
@Bard
Oh; it does add almost ยฃ100 to the price of the console just with interest though. Maybe not then.
I just really want to play Pokopia; it looks so fucking cute :silvervale_gimmes:
Bard :genderqueer_flag: :rat_pan:
@Bard
Not me sat here on the Argos website, thinking that maybe ยฃ40/month over 12 months isn't a bad way to pay for a Switch 2... :silvervale_lurks:
Oh; it does add almost ยฃ100 to the price of the console just with interest though. Maybe not then.
Boosted by Veronica
@thermia@sk.girlthi.ng
girlthi.ng
that's right! it goes in the DOWNLOADS folder
More!
Not me sat here on the Argos website, thinking that maybe ยฃ40/month over 12 months isn't a bad way to pay for a Switch 2... :silvervale_lurks:
Schrรถdiษฒger's Enby :neocat_trans::neocat_flag_nb:
@goowose@mk.absturztau.be

Lewd, ๐Ÿ”ง

@tay fucking a person who is by definition queer is by definition an act of queerness
Boosted by Tay
Tay
@tay

Lewd, ๐Ÿ”ง

Is is straight for me to have sex with femboys
Boosted by Tay
@goowose@mk.absturztau.be
ใทใซใ™ใใƒผ

Lewd, ๐Ÿ”ง

@tay fucking a person who is by definition queer is by definition an act of queerness
Boosted by Tay
The single greatest moment in Western comics as far as I'm concerned is still the bit in the original Civil War where Peter Parker comes out as Spider-Man on live TV, and J. Jonah Jameson passes out from shock over the course of three completely silent panels.
@pastelfluffyfox
anyways if you make jokes about transphobia towards transmascs you're a piece of shit
ุฅู…ูŠ โ„๏ธ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€โšง๏ธ๐Ÿ‡ต๐Ÿ‡ธ
@emmy
Who up hollowing they knight rn
Hollow Knight feels very... slow... and lonely.

I'm guessing this is intentional, but I don't really dig it.
Boosted by Tzimisce Flesh
@LukaTheMouse@gamedev.lgbt
๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ Gamedev โค๏ธ LGBTQIA+
The only gdc I recommend going to:

- free attendance
- free sunflower seeds for everyone
- you can meet rodents
- squeak
image of the GDC, Game Developper Conference, logo surrouned by a gerbil and a degu holding a mic, at the bottom there is a pile of sunflower seeds and another gerbil
ALT
:heart_trans: fluffy fox girl :heart_trans:
@pastelfluffyfox
- urgent donations also needed for hotel payment and groceries. ideal goal is $0/$350. please help me and my family. -

okay so - putting aside the big relocation goal, we do need more immediate donations. i am down to less than $40 for food, and mom only has $18 in cash left.

in two days another payment to this hotel is due, and unfortunately we do have to stay here and safe while i work on getting us out of here.

i really need help with that, and i especially need help with buying food because by tomorrow what i have left now will be gone. (or almost gone)

please as always help us.

goal: $0/$350

https://www.paypal.me/hazelnutflavorcoffee

#mutualaid #helpfolkslive2026 #begpost #MutualAid #urgentmutualaid #emergencymutualaid

@mutualaid@fedigroups.social
@mutualaid@ovo.st
@pastelfluffyfox

#miceco

ellis has written 3 Notes yesterday (Tue 10-03-2026), meowed more than 2 times and used a total of 2 Emojis.โ€‹โ€‹โ€‹

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And used 1 reactions:

โ•‘ 1x :neocat_pat: โ•‘

Looks like all reactions actually got received!
I've been considering making a blog or something similar about how to navigate different places like airports and restaurants and give some tips and recommendations based on personal experinece.
The way I envision it I will write it with a primary focus on giving information and scripts for autistic individuals, but I'd also like to add information relevant to as many disabled people as I can.
I'm making this post as a way to gague the interest for such a thing and some feedback on what formfactor to use. Is this best served as a blog or wiki I write myself when I find the inspiration/executive function or is this maybe something that would be better served as an open forum with an attached wiki? I'm really hesitant to open it up for anyone to contribute due to concerns over moderation and accuracy of information.
Any input and boosts are appreciated :neobot_heart_cyan:
0x4d6165 (Julie)
@0x4d6165
sometimes i kinda regret being so into open source and explaining it to people over the years because the second they got any power they became as evil as the corpos they railed against. and now they love corpos!!

GNU is annoying but at least it's not....this
like oh fuck me for actually believing in this apparently so many people didn't and were blowing smoke
sometimes i kinda regret being so into open source and explaining it to people over the years because the second they got any power they became as evil as the corpos they railed against. and now they love corpos!!

GNU is annoying but at least it's not....this
Boosted by Gwen the Loitering Fox :therian:
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