Skip to main content Is it just me or are the rules for the discord server way too strict? : r/MelodyNosurname

Is it just me or are the rules for the discord server way too strict?

Most of them are reasonable but not being allowed to talk about anything the owner doesn't support feels a bit too restricting imo


I feel you there. All I said was “sup fellas” and was banned immediately. Then weeks later, a mod tells me in the comments of another post I was banned for something completely different.

So yeah, I can agree with the sentiment.

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Have you considered you were banned for something completely different?

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Elaborate please?

If you’re insinuating transphobia, I can tell you I didn’t know sup fellas was used by transphobes to put down transfem people at the time of joining (and I only found that out asking on another subreddit)

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It’s her server I think it’s fair to ban triggering topics for her

It’s not “I don’t like this so you can’t talk about it” it’s “I have had numerous people harass me because of this and I would like it if we could not discuss it here”

I believe she even says it’s fine to be a fan of them just that it was a personal thing for her

In one of my servers I had a temporary “No Sonic the Hedgehog” rule because I was coming off a very intense breakup with someone who was beyond obsessed with it, I did eventually get over that but it took me several years and I can imagine in a worse situation it would take longer if it could happen at all

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ik what you mean, but some of them feel a bit unreasonable. like one of them says "no talking abt deltarune because melody hasn't played it yet"

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That’s more about spoilers than literally just talking about ir

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The one that I find kinda stupid/hurtful is the whole no femboy stuff (especially the wording)

I am not denying the reasons/problems given but the wording is just not it.

I am a femboy, I am not a minor nor a fucking weirdo or a nazi. Why can't I just be myself?

Also that whole no boykisser stuff seems to be based on just personal prefferences (which is completely fine) but aslong as people don't spam it I don't see the issue.

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yeah that one came off as weird to me as well

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It seem generalizing

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