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Hello fashionable fellas! I am looking for a recommendation of boots for my boyfriend’s 28th birthday. He isn’t very fashionable but I am slowly changing that (or at least trying too lol). He said he wants some nice looking boots he can wear to church during the winter or for a fancy outing. He is kind of hard to shop for because he prefers flat shoes, has wide feet, and is a size 12/13 depending on the brand. I’ve been looking at a few brands but quickly get overwhelmed, I am willing to spend 100-200 dollars on them. Anyone got any recommendations? I would really appreciate it!
Hello fashionable fellas! I am looking for a recommendation of boots for my boyfriend’s 28th birthday. He isn’t very fashionable but I am slowly changing that (or at least trying too lol). He said he wants some nice looking boots he can wear to church during the winter or for a fancy outing. He is kind of hard to shop for because he prefers flat shoes, has wide feet, and is a size 12/13 depending on the brand. I’ve been looking at a few brands but quickly get overwhelmed, I am willing to spend 100-200 dollars on them. Anyone got any recommendations? I would really appreciate it!
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Hello fashionable fellas! I am looking for a recommendation of boots for my boyfriend’s 28th birthday. He isn’t very fashionable but I am slowly changing that (or at least trying too lol). He said he wants some nice looking boots he can wear to church during the winter or for a fancy outing. He is kind of hard to shop for because he prefers flat shoes, has wide feet, and is a size 12/13 depending on the brand. I’ve been looking at a few brands but quickly get overwhelmed, I am willing to spend 100-200 dollars on them. Anyone got any recommendations? I would really appreciate it!
You are cute girl! Let your eyebrows grow out though!!! Thick eyebrows are definitely in and they would frame your face so well. If I were you I’d also stick to make up that would naturally enhance your beauty instead of distract from it, the eye makeup looks good in photos but in real life it may look a bit trashy. Just my two cents though, I know you didn’t ask for advice so sorry if I crossed any boundaries 🫶
Could be a variety of factors effecting her sex drive- is she on birth control? Is she taking any new meds? Has her mental health tanked? It could be stress or anxiety. Does she smoke or use any recreational drugs? It could be she’s feeling things subconsciously about the relationship that she has been suppressing or that she hasn’t realized. There’s so many factors for a dead bedroom. Try to talk to her about it, she may be going through stuff that she herself might not even be aware of or she is aware of it and is struggling. It could be resentment built up in the relationship or she’s insecure about herself. Hormones play a big factor and that’s why I ask about any meds or drugs that could be throwing her hormones out of wack, at that age she at least should be feeling some kind of drive when she is ovulating.
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Find your self confidence! Yes marriage is hard, but once you realize your self worth and how there are so many other suitors who would appreciate you, properly communicate with you, and want to make you feel wanted and make special memories with you, that you don’t have to put up with this but I understand the complicated emotions that come along with that as well. The comfortableness, the love that still resides in your heart from when your relationship brought you happiness, but thinking long term about what you really want will help you in realizing you deserve happiness and that you do not have to settle for anything less. It’s gonna be hard, really hard, really really fucking hard, but it will be worth it if you’ve already realized all of this.
I definitely understand falling into temptation.. old habits always live in the back of your head unless you actively fight them back. Everyone has weak moments. I finally tapered completely off my methadone in April after being in the clinic and clean for 4 years and I have never felt better than I do now. It’s weird how we grow to love being sober, being clean, healing inside and out. You can fight those temptations! Just think about the regret and guilt you’ll feel for the person you were when you first started this journey of getting clean, but also feel proud of yourself for getting where you are now.
Girl you are so gorgeous. You have sharp and sexy eyes and a stunning smile. Please don’t hate me but I think you would look more feminine without the piercing(PLEASE DONT HATE ME) I definitely think it looks good on you and I know it’s all about personal preference. You definitely rock the bangs and I think you would look SUPER cute with longer curtain bangs as well. I know you didn’t ask for advice so sorry if I crossed a line!
I know hair is a personal preference and a lot of women do like long hair but you gotta have the features to pull it off. Like how some women can’t pull off pixie cuts but others look amazing with them while still looking feminine. All about face shape and facial features. Weight happens to all of us and there’s a lot of factors that play into it, not everyone is genetically blessed, don’t worry about it too much just work towards your goals!
So you have potential for sure. I know you didn’t ask for advice but if you lost some weight your face would look sharper and more masculine. I think you should cut your hair because it would suit you better and make you look more put together (maybe get some bangs) and women like men who look like they care about their appearance and take care of themselves. Also moisturize your face/lips, definitely a favor to your skin and I know your skin would appreciate it!
You are not ugly- I know you didn’t ask for advise but if I were you I’d grow my hair out a bit and maybe get some bangs and I think rounder more modern glasses would suit you better. If you lost a bit of weight your jawline would look sharper and more attractive for sure. I also think you have a cute nose
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Not ugly, you just don’t look like you care about your appearance very much. Everyone looks better when they look like they take care of themselves and their appearance. Cutting hair is apart of that, some men look better with long hair and some look better with shorter hair. I personally don’t think this hair length suits you. You would look a lot better with it shorter, maybe some length on top and shorter on the sides. But that’s completely your choice to cut your hair. Just my two cents on it! Also, if I were you I would get a new pair of glasses. Maybe bigger frames that look a bit more modern.
Try Elf’s Salicylic Acid Cleanser!! Great for oily skin, if you dries you out too much try and use a light moisturizer after using it. Very budget friendly as well. I also use Bliss’s BHA/AHA/PHA liquid exfoliation and it’s great for dark spots, clogged pores, and evening your skin tone, also very budget friendly. I always use a moisturizing sunscreen after I apply that product though.
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Proud of you, keep it up! I just got off methadone last month after being in the clinic for 3 years. Stay clean and you will eventually get take-homes so you don’t have to go in everyday. I don’t know how it is at your clinic, the policy at my old clinic is after first getting in and staying clean for 3 months you’ll start with a few days of take-homes, then every month they will give you more and more. If you pissed dirty then you would have to pass the drug tests for a month before getting them back. I pray you stay strong and healthy, and keep your eye on your goals! You can do this.
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I felt like I was ready, I just want to be over and done with this part of my life. I want to function without having to rely on medication. I know i can do it, I dont have mental cravings anymore, but the physical cravings have started to kick in. Ive been avoiding the withdrawal for years and I feel like I just need to face them head on even though Im scared
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Your dad should not of been in there. I did therapy when i was underage (16) and it was just me and the therapist. Your dad CHOSE to be in there with you and did not tell you. He wants to have control over your healing and wants to hear everything you possibly have to say to your therapist and that is NOT okay. I would talk to your therapist about that if you can. Its not normal, you deserve privacy with your therapist. If I were you I would tell your dad or therapist that you are not ready or comfortable talking about your inner thoughts and trauma with your dad in the room with you, that if they really want you to start healing from within you need PRIVACY with the therapist. It takes time to become comfortable enough to speak your real truth and emotions, theres no way someone is having a breakthrough from the first few appointments especially if there parent is in the same room. Im sorry you have to deal with that. I know you have anxiety, but I know you have the strength within you to tell your dad or therapist you want to start your healing journey alone.
WBTAO. BUT, please do not let the gf move in. She is not your responsibility, she is your sons responsibility. All you have to worry about is your own son, and all your son has to worry about is his gf and their baby. They need to figure it out and come up with a plan that does not involve leeching off of you.
Your mother needs to reassess her priorities. She should be prioritizing your overall mental health and physical well being over keeping a bunch of animals that create a pernicious living situation. I understand being an empath and animal lover all too well- BUT if her actions and decisions are creating this reality for you, she needs a reality check and you probably have to speak up and make your feelings known.
