headspace-hotelthe syllabus for my weaving class legit said "don't have sex in the weaving studio" 74901,321
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headspace-hotelReblogged decentsaplingbeemovieeroticaFollowok this is insanely coolbeemovieeroticathe organization that runs it is called Helping Hands, here's their website and how to join tutoring sessions in their world!https://helpinghands.ggaquilacalvitiumOmfg they made a whole language for this#language#linguistics#amazing6712,19022,078
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headspace-hotelsharpofteeth asked:Given what i know of your situation, i think the one bit of advice i have that might be both doable and helpful is sensory regulation. Everyone's different, but some things that have helped me include
cutting down on light (this was huge for me but everyone's different)In my own place i keep the curtains closed in the day (sometimes open for a maximum a couple hours on sunny mornings) and light it with string lights at night. You could instead use one of those positional desk lamps with a 40w incandescent bulb and aim it angled toward a wall.outside of your own space you could wear sunglasses (you can get lenses that clip onto prescription glasses). Polarised lenses will cut down the bright spots of overhead lights, however they make some screens hard to see. Otherwise if you need to see screens in class, you can wear a hat like a cap to cut out the overhead lights.People who have longterm concussion symptoms (also causes sensory issues) are often advised to do something called "palming" which is just spending 5min a few times throughout the day with hands over eyes. You could probably feasibly do this every time you go toilet tbh, just stay on the seat for a few minutes. Bluelight filters on screens. I have my phone's shitty, limited "eye comfort care" thing on at all times, and redmoon (very flexible & optionally intense tint colour & darkness options) in the evenings. You may also be able to sort a stronger filter depending on your laptop OS (i use KDE on linux and can make the screen actively pink-tinged and it's not even on fully).hearing / noises:or instead of palming, block your ears with your hands and shut your eyes.i've never tried loop earplugs but they come highly recommended to cut down on a few very uncomfortable frequencies while still hearing what you need to hear.otherwise, there's a few different styles of earplugs with different costs & amounts of noise reduction. You can put an earplug in one ear instead of both to help hear the stuff you need to, just make sure you spend about equal amounts of time in each ear.it's also possible to wear NC headphones over earplugs, comfort will vary based on earplug type. This is very effective at cutting out basically All Sound. I used to listen to music loudly in headphones with earplugs in, so all i could hear was music and no background noise like vehicles.
Tactile:i don't think i need to talk about texture because i know you know what works for you (natural fabrics & no sunscreen iirc)you may find it beneficial to do things like scrub your skin with a (wet or dry) boars-hair brush or something, however you may find it unpleasant or overwhelming. you might benefit from pressure. Weighted blankets are usually recommended for this (i also have some made with glass beads & the case of a body pillow (2 layers), so they're dense, suprisingly portable but heavy ofc, and work super well for whole body, lap-only, or round the shoulders.)Other pressure options when out & about with no equipment includes things like wearing a heavy backpack or putting it on your lap, contracting muscles (i usually do this for only a few seconds at a time, usually alternating sides), or squeezing or pressing on body parts (eg. Often when sitting i'll run my hands firmly along my thighs.)Some people also benefit from intentionally increasing taste, oral motor (chewing), smells (often carrying a little scented vial on them), and vestibular input (rocking, swings, spinning, or even just putting your head between your knees. Some people struggle with too many smells, using unscented products is good but doesn't help with other people. Masking is a way to cut that down but that puts texture on your face which some people don't deal with well.Sidenote: idk how you're socialising but i (currently doing well) have noticed i have about a 3hr limit depending on person. You might find limiting social time to 1-2 hour blocks (or even half an hour) helpful to not crash after. I also find one-on-one much easier than groups, though one of my friends i find his attention a bit intense somehow? So with him i can handle best with a third person.Best of luck on getting through allthe college shit. Hopefully tumblr doesn't fuck the formatting of this so it's actually reasonably legible.Hi there sorry this was a while back but this is a great resource for managing sensory issues, its got some things i worked out on my own and some things new to me. Really great stuff thanks for writing this out 394203
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headspace-hotelwas looking through visual novels on itch.io earlier and like, it's not that I'm not horny or anything, it's just that if you happen to like men that are big and hairy youre shit out of luck 215100
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headspace-hotelReblogged lakesandquarriesmiiilowoFollowin the minecraft world do youthink people would use "they dug straight down" as code for someone dyingmiiilowointhe minectraft world they would say someone spawned with a diamond hoe insteadof saying they were born with a silver spoonchekhovs-slinkyIn minecrsft world they say “what the nether” insead of “what the hell” and alex is a butch lesbian miiilowoand alex is a butch lesbian yeahrapidlydecayingcorpseehelooproto5827,95935,885
headspace-hotelReblogged skele-boobsqueer-as-city-folkFollowHope for the democratic party?#hahahaha#funny17553,16469,767
headspace-hotelRebloggedheadspace-hotelFollowthis is so embarrassing headspace-hotelhe's the guy of all time headspace-hotelMy God, Sharon Carter was defanged in the MCU headspace-hotelSo, a lot of the tropes that are staples in Buckyfic originate from things in these comics that didn't carry over to the MCU. E.g. Bucky's speech patterns in dialogue in fanfic are very much comics!bucky rather than MCU!Bucky. The idea that Bucky was intended to function as Cap's partner who does the dirty work that Cap couldn't be seen doing onscreen in propaganda films (killing people) appears in a lot of fics and that comes from here. MCU did a couple of things that lit the fuse for this story to be truly explosive in the Collective Sicko Consciousness, though: for one, exchanging the domino mask for a mask that covers the Winter Soldier's mouth and nose, evoking the idea of a muzzle, paired with some sick ass eyeliner. Whereas comics!winter soldier does some snarking and bantering when he's fighting, and engages in dialogue with other characters, MCU!winter soldier hardly talks at all; iirc it's not quite clear if he can while he's masked. He's not a Darker and Edgier, evil iteration of the same person (as in the comics) he's a black hole. The other thing the MCU did... okay, two closely related things. One, it made Bucky and Steve roughly the same age and eliminated the hero-sidekick dynamic. Two, it completely failed to sell the idea that Steve is in any way attracted to women. In the comic version of this storyline, Sharon is a major secondary character whose relationship to and history with Cap is a major source of tension, conflict and uncertainty; in the same storyline in the movies, she is completely sidelined and Steve shows zero signs of genuine attraction to or interest in any female character. Seriously, MCU!Steve is shown being kissed three times by women, twice non-consensually and causing him clear discomfort, once with dubious consent (iirc, he didn't seem distressed when Peggy kissed him, but he didn't really reciprocate). The conversation he had with Peggy about dancing with her was when he was psyching himself up to face death so I don't think that reads as an expression of romantic interest? Compared with comics!Steve, MCU!Steve easily reads as a gay man, and I've said it before that this is a really interesting take on his character considering the relationship the concept of Captain America has to Eugenics and the Nazis, and it's a crying shame that it couldn't be explored headspace-hotelall y'all tagging this like "I'm not really into marvel but this is interesting"As though I wasn't just like any of you, mere months ago, before Blorbo grabbed me by the ankles and dragged me in like the fuckin sarlacc pit #the bucky#bucky barnes#category 5 the character incident14148446
headspace-hotelRebloggedheadspace-hotelFollowthis is so embarrassing headspace-hotelhe's the guy of all time headspace-hotelMy God, Sharon Carter was defanged in the MCU headspace-hotelSo, a lot of the tropes that are staples in Buckyfic originate from things in these comics that didn't carry over to the MCU. E.g. Bucky's speech patterns in dialogue in fanfic are very much comics!bucky rather than MCU!Bucky. The idea that Bucky was intended to function as Cap's partner who does the dirty work that Cap couldn't be seen doing onscreen in propaganda films (killing people) appears in a lot of fics and that comes from here. MCU did a couple of things that lit the fuse for this story to be truly explosive in the Collective Sicko Consciousness, though: for one, exchanging the domino mask for a mask that covers the Winter Soldier's mouth and nose, evoking the idea of a muzzle, paired with some sick ass eyeliner. Whereas comics!winter soldier does some snarking and bantering when he's fighting, and engages in dialogue with other characters, MCU!winter soldier hardly talks at all; iirc it's not quite clear if he can while he's masked. He's not a Darker and Edgier, evil iteration of the same person (as in the comics) he's a black hole. The other thing the MCU did... okay, two closely related things. One, it made Bucky and Steve roughly the same age and eliminated the hero-sidekick dynamic. Two, it completely failed to sell the idea that Steve is in any way attracted to women. In the comic version of this storyline, Sharon is a major secondary character whose relationship to and history with Cap is a major source of tension, conflict and uncertainty; in the same storyline in the movies, she is completely sidelined and Steve shows zero signs of genuine attraction to or interest in any female character. Seriously, MCU!Steve is shown being kissed three times by women, twice non-consensually and causing him clear discomfort, once with dubious consent (iirc, he didn't seem distressed when Peggy kissed him, but he didn't really reciprocate). The conversation he had with Peggy about dancing with her was when he was psyching himself up to face death so I don't think that reads as an expression of romantic interest? Compared with comics!Steve, MCU!Steve easily reads as a gay man, and I've said it before that this is a really interesting take on his character considering the relationship the concept of Captain America has to Eugenics and the Nazis, and it's a crying shame that it couldn't be explored 14148446
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headspace-hotelReblogged velociraptrixsnekdoodFollowbut have you ever even heard of the fynbos biome ?!!?!?!?!a biome so unique in south africa that it's earned an entirely new biome classification for itself. so many plants are endemic to this area, and ofc it's under threat of extinction.wiley-treehouse-gardensIt's a wonderful place! I had the privilege of visiting the fynbos last year and it was as amazing as these photos show and more! 15,36519,807
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headspace-hotelReblogged velociraptrixcertainly-aprilFollowRagebaiting my fat dog? More like master baiting my fat hog!!!!!!!!grimoiremanifest❗️Great Hog is displeased by this.The kingly pig looks taken aback by this statement. "You claim to be 'baiting' our kind?.. A master of it, no less - after all the trust we hsve placed in you?"- Your relationship with the Hog Society 🐖 is now Unfavourable.certainly-april3520,96627,414
headspace-hotelreally conflicted these days cause i am very against sharing screenshots of social media posts as "sources" for whats happening in the world but in USA major news media is barely reporting much of whats going on so its like. i guess i wont know anything #usa#us politics356247
headspace-hotelReblogged the-mango-ninjapassionpeachyFollowDo you know how weird it feels to casually make future plushie plans and feel like I’m thriving with my art career while ICE is threatening to go door to door for “immigrants” and “criminals” (visibly brown people) and I have to carry proof I’m American with me every time I go out? I say this specifically here because I know it’s a majority white American website. Like I already thought of who I would call and go stay with if I were to be deported lol. I’ve soothed myself with “maybe it wouldn’t be so bad as long as I don’t get shot at or disappear”. And it’s just annoying because my white peers do not have shit like this weighing on their mind, they can choose to just fucking drawpassionpeachyI cannot emphasize how much I’m literally a US citizen who speaks good english (with an accent, but it’s something) and these are the thoughts I’m having. Imagine how it feels when you’re actually an immigrant and you can barely parse what the masked trigger-happy asshole with a gun is screaming at you. #i am so sorry#it is a terrifying time and everybody should be able to feel safe703,2426,658
headspace-hotelRebloggedpleasespellchimericalFollowMy resolution for 2024?Check the sources.Make it a habit to check the sources.Don't spread things that aren't sourced or can't be confirmed.Check the legitimacy of the sources.Make it a habit to check the legitimacy of the sources.Don't spread things that come from bad sources.pleasespellchimerical@the-widgets-stash-of-shinies adding some very excellent tags thank you!#bad sources are not “sources from people you think are bad” #Bad sources (depending on the context) are things such as blog posts; advertisements; sensationalised articles; and articles with no author #Whilst each of these can be a good source if used to get a specific piece of information #(ie individuals opinion on a game; a company's own claims about a product; media reaction to an event; ect) #but this requires you to still make sure that the source is good for what you need. #If I need to see if motion sickness is a major issue in a certain gaming community; a forum will be a good source #But if I want facts about how cameras in games work; a forum is a bad source #There are a lot of good sources that are “worst person you know made the best legitimate academic paper you need” #And that's OK. #You need to ask questions: Is this a primary or secondary source? #If it is a published source: is it's publisher biased in any way? #There is no one catch-all answer; there is no definitive list of “these sources are always good and these are always bad”. #You need to take initiative #get literate #and make the judgement calls yourselfpleasespellchimericalJust wanna put up a note (especially with this post going around again, yay I'm glad it's going around) -With a lot of world events happening, and info being difficult to verify at times, I'm trying to be very deliberate about what I reblog. I'm not a guy who is formally trained in verifying information. If I'm not talking about a thing, or not reblogging on the thing, it's because I do not trust myself to be able to verify the information about it. It's not a statement of my politics. It's me being careful.Because misinformation and disinformation are a plague! And I'm doing my part not to spread the stuff.This new year's resolution was from 2024, but it remains evergreen, and it's never going to be fulfilled, because there is always more information to try and verify.527719
headspace-hotelReblogged bedlamsbardfloratropicsFollowi'm super curious to see what the responses to this arefeel free to put why you do/don't shave your legs, or any other nuances in the tags! reblogs for reach are appreciated :) #The last time was in 2019#decided not to do it anymore6,1353,661
headspace-hotelReblogged maj0rmayhemnatalieironsideFollowGenerally in favor of coyotes. Wolves, as well. Bobcats. That sort of thing.6,2057,539
headspace-hotelthis is so embarrassing #the bucky#my semester off to a dreadful start#but fear not#blorbo14148446
headspace-hotellets see. I'm too overloaded to listen to music or eat so I'm in a bad way probably. but I haven't even gone anywhere today. 3360
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headspace-hotelFUUUUUUUUCK I HATE BEING IN COLLEGE LIFE IS FUCKING PAIN 125157
headspace-hotelReblogged necruwumancydumbpuppyfagFollowsmitten is such a great word :) omg he's so cute it feels like i'm being killed by god3223,75435,089
headspace-hotelReblogged lizardlickstoastyglowFollowI think one of the best things I learned from my last therapist was the idea that when there's a box in your mind you need to open, you don't have to open it all the way on the first try.what I mean is that she said "you didn't deserve <bad thing that happened to you>" and I said, "I feel like I know that intellectually, but I don't really believe it deep down". and she said, "do you think you can try to believe it just a little bit, as an experiment?" and I started crying lmaotrying to change a core belief entirely all at once is scary, especially when it exists as a protective measure. try giving yourself a cheeky bit of plausible deniability! you're just dipping your toes in the water of self-esteem, you're just having a little wade! you don't have to go swimming right away, and you can always step out if you want. (but the longer you spend in the water, the more you start to understand you're actually safe there...hm, who could have predicted this...)so that's my advice: if there's something real and true you can't seem to believe, take some time to try and really believe it just a little bit, even if you're only pretending at first. climb the staircase one step at a time instead of trying to put one foot all the way at the top!379,15114,748
headspace-hotelReblogged venomshotasssetuloseFollowThis is a staunchly pro-bug zone. I may have contentious relationships with the ones that enjoy eating me or my food but that's life baby. The great web...3,1343,862
headspace-hotelRebloggedheadspace-hotelFollowAutism won The moment you've all been waiting for... my Bucky Barnes fanfiction debut. i am an exit - Chapter 1 - spacey_librarian - Marvel Cinematic Universe [Archive of Our Own]An Archive of Our Own, a project of the Organization for Transformative Worksarchiveofourown.orgYeah. I didn't know this was gonna happen either. Summary: A broken, disillusioned Steve Rogers is afflicted by a delusion that the mysterious assassin who nearly killed him is actually his best friend, who died 70 years ago. SHIELD wants to lock him up and return him to being a perfect, sparkling nationalist symbol as quickly as possible. Sam Wilson, who has wrestled with his own disillusionment and his own ghosts, knows that Steve needs compassion and the support of a true friend, not a forced regime of recovery that takes away what is left of his shattered autonomy.
Meanwhile, as Natasha tries to track down the Winter Soldier, her discoveries get more and more disturbing. She uncovers footage of the Soldier being subjected to, and forced to commit, horrific acts to maintain Hydra's cruel hierarchy. What's more, his resemblance to Steve's dead friend is too close to be coincidence.
Sam and Natasha grow determined to stop the Soldier from being recaptured by his abusers, but how will Steve react when he learns the true extent of the Soldier's torture, and the true horror of what he was twisted into?
Is the Winter Soldier Bucky Barnes? Or is he something wearing Bucky Barnes's face?
Which of those things is worse?I have content warnings in place as beginning notes for chapter 2 because that's where all the concerning stuff is. It's not detailed but I'll warn you anyway. I'll add more notes and stuff pretty soon. and i'll try to tweak the formatting a little better headspace-hotelBecause I can't control myself, I am giving you chapter 3. Bucky's POV! Finally! i am an exit - Chapter 3 - spacey_librarian - Marvel Cinematic Universe [Archive of Our Own]An Archive of Our Own, a project of the Organization for Transformative Worksarchiveofourown.orgI wasn't lying about the roadkill, by the way. headspace-hoteli overslept my first class because i was so hype after posting this I had to take myself for walkies after midnight 18145605
headspace-hotelReblogged lakesandquarriesnonexistentnullFollowi really wish people could make characters with scars and just be normal about it. scars are just a feature, like brown hair or freckles, all it means is that you got an injury in the past. Scars are not gross or ugly or tragic or intimidating or scary or gorey or body horror, they are just a normal trait that a lot of people have. if i’m allowed to be picky, i also wish people could be more thoughtful/realistic when deciding on scars. like do some research and think ‘how did this injury happen’. if someone got attacked by wolves, how does that give them a straight cut scar across their face? and where are the other effects of these injuries? nerve damage, contractures, amputations, brain damage, PTSD, chronic pain, speech issues, sun sensitivity, blindness, etc? and please do research on these too, its good, its not that difficult. i want to see characters have scars, and still be able to be normal, and cute/pretty/beautiful/sexy, and loved, and happy. this includes people with extensive burn scars, with skin grafts, with tons of reconstructive surgeries, who are missing eyes or noses or ears or limbs. this includes people with keloid scars, who don’t look normal, who have “gross” symptoms from their injuries. this includes people who have scars from elective or cosmetic surgeries, and surgeries that were botched. this includes people who have scars from self harm or suicide attempts. please give more characters scars, and be normal about it. i am (politely) begging you. (sorry if this comes off as aggressive/accusatory, i struggle with tone)nonexistentnulldefinitly! i should of mentioned those more. if people want to give their characters scars (which i highly encourage), just having had surgery is a great idea. surgery can definitely be traumatic and life changing, and it does need research, but it can also be a pretty mundane and casual thing too. i had a major surgery and i have a large scar from it, and it’s one of my favorite features and fun-facts about myself. in the tags people are also mentioning acne and dermatillomania scars, and those are cool to see too :) (smiley face) 412,3733,792
