The Double Life We’re All Living

Ok, this has been weeks in the planning. Let me tell you what happens when you become that person who can’t stop asking women about their sex lives. Yes, that’s me. I’m obsessed with making people’s sex lives more, more fulfilling, more fun, more fucks, more everything.

I interviewed over 150 women about their bedroom habits. Friends, lovers, friends of friends, random women who filled out my survey form that I shamelessly shared everywhere. Why? Because I want to know what goes on behind closed curtains and between rumpled sheets. I want to pull back the veil on the secret universe we all pretend doesn’t exist while we’re discussing quarterly reports and whether oat milk is actually sustainable.

We’re All Living Double Lives (And That’s Not Even the Wild Part)

Here’s the thing that won’t shock you, we all have two personas.

• Our outer self the one we parade around in business casual, the one who says “sounds good!” in emails and remembers to ask about your mother’s hip replacement.
• And then there’s our inner self, where the secrets live, where desires lurk, where fantasies bloom like forbidden flowers in a garden we tend alone.