I’m not a professional but it seems to me like in Japan they must everyone into the whole “Okama” thing (some sort of confused mishmash of homosexuality, cross dressing, and transsexual). At least in anime they seem to regard Okama the same way the United States used to regard clowns in the early days of the circus before the whole creepy clown fad emerged; With a measure of genuine affection but nothing resembling respect, as though they were good natured whimsical jokes here for our entertainment.
Which at least was true for clowns but is insulting as hell to gay people.
Also anime has probably misled me at least somewhat, it the idea that being homosexual would be low-key derided and not outright met with as much direct hatred feels very Japan to me....
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