How do I stop feeling guilty for ruining my life as a nihilist?: I have determined with utmost certainty that passive nihilism is the only logical conclusion of nihilism, however I am still incapable of overcoming guilt which I feel due to the passivity and the self-destruction that follows from it. I wish to accept that it does not matter whether I destroy my life or not but my feeble human mind is incapable of accepting this as the truth, as it still thinks my life is worth something. How do I convince myself that I am as worthless as an insect and that I am fully permitted to destroy my life for as long as I wish?

Swore at my neighbour repeatedly because my dad abandoned me. Now he's pissed off because he's taken it personally because he's retarded. Trying to ignore it but he clearly wants to "get even" which idk, to him is probably some ridiculous fairytale about how I have abused him repeatedly for months or something. Yet I have repeatedly in the past given him free shit, written notes to him to explain my situation, nah he doesn't fucking care because he is some foreigner retard who can barely speak english. What do? Why is he such a cunt?

Is it normal to have these sexual fantasies?: My cousin is 30 and told me that he doesn't tell people he's attracted to underage girls because he's scared they won't like him. When people ask him what type of girls he likes, he gets nervous and tells him he's only attracted to women his age. However, he told me that he's fantasized about fucking underage girls several times before, girls as young as 12. He says he fantasizes about having a little sister (like age 12) and fucking her. He fantasizes about being in a position of authority (like being a high school teacher) and having sex with his female student. He feels attracted to teenage girls, especially if they're virgins. Is this normal to have these sexual fantasies? He says he doesn't have them all the time, maybe only 20% of his fantasies involve this, he mostly feels attracted to adult women.

Lost my virginity to girl in pic rel (yes she was pregnant at the time) and now she wants a relationship. She is kind of crazy as you might be able to tell, but otherwise we have a ton in common, she's fun to be around, and it's a little weird but I do enjoy the sex. Do I go for it?

Im weirdly attracted to my cousins ass and i dont know what to do. We spent the last summer on our grandma house on italy together. In a few occassions i gave her massagges and i think she knows she is blueballing me. I dont know what to do. On one side i want to ask her to show me her ass once. On the other, i really want to forget this feelings towards her. What can i do?

Am I a creepy stalker?: Recently, I developed a crush on this barista at a local coffee shop. I have a weekend job so I see her every weekend to the point she knows my order and starts making it when she sees me. Since, I'm not very good with interactions I just ask her how her week went, thank her for making my drink and tip her $20! That's as far as I go, however, I don't want to be seen as the creepy stalker, since some of her coworkers have seen me walk by and if she's not there, turn around and come back later when she's there. So, is this creepy behavior? Should I stop , because I really don't want to make her feel uncomfortable. Pic unrelated

I have a unique problem I could use help with. Does anyone else deal with having kinks and fetishes that turn you on TOO much? I've read that PTSD and hypersexuality often go together and I wonder if I need to avoid the topics that make me hyper-aroused. I don't like how turned on I get by it and usually it keeps me in a gooner mindset for days on end if it starts. It's not just porn related triggers, but also stuff that can happen day to day. The amount of lust that I feel can easily feel like 3 to 5 times the amount that I'd normally get and I actually get light-headed and turn feral inside.

Any advice on quitting porn? I spend too much time jerking off and it's eating my life away. I'm not trying to quit masturbation, because I think that it's unreal in my circumstances. I think that If I'll stop watching it, masturbation becomes less enticing.

The world of adults is really phony. I started working last year and I finally got to understand what that guy Holden Caulfield was saying. Everyone lies and sucks up to people to their own advantage, especially the boss. You have to learn to put a good face on people who are boring or annoying. Also people are fucking assholes for no reason. I mean the boss was a fucking cunt and everyone just sucked up to her and put on with her bullshit for her money. How can someone live with themselves knowing everyone just likes them for their money? I guess I've been living in a bubble so I don't understand these things. I genuinely feel like a child among these idiots. I just dont have those skills to suck up to people and pretend like i'm interested in them when I'm not but my job requires me to do it. How do you learn these social skills? I feel like I want to kill myself when I pretend liking someone I don't genuinely. Also I have the social skills of a 15 year old with asperger

Is it worth cancelling a $10 subscription I don't really need? Will it really make a difference for my finances?

How do I get women in their late 20s - late 30s as an 18 year old?

GIOYC - Get it Off Your Chest: I'm starting one because I want to get it out of my chest.

what should i do next?: I need some advice on how to get back at some people. theres a person whose been talking shit about me, calling me a bitch, insulting me and the likes. She's been siding with some people who hate me, but to my face she acts like she's a close friend, asking me questions thinking i don't know she's just reporting back what i say. another person has been doing the same to a similar group, but in a 'double agent' type way, she'll tell me what they're up to so i feel like i can tell her what i'm up to, little did i know she's been repeating everything to this cuckgroup, and one of the members there is my ex. What should I do next here?

Tinder dates are going nowhere: Been a week on Tinder, have about 50 likes rn. Out of those likes, 30 are matches, the rest are fatties and trannies. Out of those 30, 15 are interested in conversation, the rest never responded to anything. Out of those 15, I managed to date 3 right now. First date went nowhere, we just had a few drinks, some laughs and she went home. No vibe. Second date went surprisingly well, we had fun, kissed she even touched my dick but sex never happened. I drove her home and kissed the fuck out of her. Texted her a few days later and she never responded. Tomorrow I'm having the 3rd date. I have a big feeling it will go to shit as well. Is something wrong with me or is the dating market done?

I’m 21. Is my hairline receding?

is there any accurate face rating sites?: if i had to rate my face, id rate myself maybe a 3-4 out of 10. on a good day, maybe id be a 5. ive been testing out face rating sites like pinkmirror and fotor and even after using multiple images (i used 6 different images, some from just now and some that i think i look decent in) and the rating is 8-9/10 which i just think is way too high for how i look. i dont know if the ai or whatever just rates everyone highly, not really sure how these sites work in general honestly, but does anyone know if there are accurate sites like that or is the only way to truly be rated fairly is by another human? or if possible is there a way to rate myself? idk why im so hung up on this honestly, i just feel quite ugly or unattractive and i guess i want either an egoboost or a reality check.

Sometimes I read on the bus as an alternative to scrolling my phone but sometimes my friends also take the bus and I am scared that they will laugh at me. What should I do?

Ever listen to a song with good vocals and you feel like someone turned the tear valve open? Am I just super-depressed? It was bôa's Duvet, in case you were wondering but it's happened before.

My girlfriend is so wholesome and changed my life completely. But now I live in constant fear of losing her. We've been dating for over six years now. I was a college dropout loser alcoholic working on myself when I met her. She's this adorable, caring, understanding Asian girl who pulled me through a very dark period of my life. Every day I wonder how I got this lucky. She's smart, loving, adoring, loves me completely for who I am, even though I feel I don't deserve her. I was in a dark place before I met her. No long term relationships before, virgin, insecure, awkward hermit type at 27. Now we travel together, cook delicious meals together, decorate our house, recently got a little puppy as well. Yet some part of me still feels like it's all a dream about to come crashing down. It's almost like life was easier when I had nothing and was worthless, because I had nothing to lose. Now every day I'm terrified of losing her and our life together. Back then, I didn't care whether I lived or died but now I worry constantly about her dying, or me dying and leaving her alone. How to get rid of these thoughts and live in the moment?

/htgwg/ - How to Get Women General #337: >What is /htgwg/? How to Get Women General is by men, for men, about women, so bring all of your questions about getting and dealing with women here. Some anons on this site actually get laid, and some of them even want to help. If you're trying to meet and date women, then this is the place to ask questions, seek advice, and share experiences. We know how hard it can be. We got you bro. >What is /htgwg/ not? These threads are NOT for whining, moping, incels, volcels, MGTOW, hopelessness, or demoralization. We're all aware that meeting and dating women is hard today, and even harder for some, but /htgwg/ is for trying to overcome the challenges. IGNORE the posters who complain, give up, or insist there's nothing they can do. This site has other boards and threads that they can pollute. BE SMART: Spot the bait, don't reply, and DON'T WASTE TIME ARGUING WITH THEM! >How to ask for advice Context is important: be more specific than "This girl ghosted me, why?" We can't help if we don't know the situation, so try to provide as much (useful) info as possible ("I was at the bar, this chick was checking me out..."). What's your relationship with the girl? How long have you known her? Any conversation screenshots? Etc... Don't forget to ask an actual question. >Resources and Books https://wingman.live/ (AI dating coach) https://pdfcoffee.com/318797392-mark-manson-models-2016pdf-4-pdf-free.html https://archive.org/details/robert-glover-no-more-mr-nice-guy-id-353324692-size-612 https://www.youtube.com/@YourWingmam https://www.doctornerdlove.com/blog/ https://pastebin.com/7U5Sdhwq (Leykis 101) https://dokumen.pub/why-women-deserve-less-firstnbsped-1467978302-r-1917433.html https://www.fantasticanachronism.com/p/how-to-be-good-at-dating (new suggestions with working links are welcome) REMEMBER: It's good to read and prepare, but don't overdo it. Get off this site: go learn and build up your social skills by meeting actual women in the real world. Prev: >>34205691

After finding out that Olympic athletes have casual sex without complications many times a day while I’m still a virgin, I felt sad and had suicidal thoughts. I’m a tall person, I’m 28 years old and 1.87 meters tall. If I had been enrolled in a basketball school as a child, I wouldn’t be here writing this and I would have slept with more succubi than all the men in my family. I’m seriously thinking about killing myself. I’m tired of my routine, which consists of going to work and coming back home. None of the succubi at my job pay attention to me. I don’t feel confident enough to use Tinder. My face looks like Marc Anthony’s, let’s say, so I’m ugly and skinny. I want to leave the most valuable things I have to my female cousin: two motorcycles (a ZX-10R or a Yamaha R3 — I have to buy one of the two — and an Aprilia ETX 150) as a way to leave something to someone dear to me. https://www.insidehook.com/sports/sex-olympics-inevitable-says-former-olympian

How to overcome trauma over soft hands: I know the title sounds silly but let me explain the story. So the story took place back in 7th grade middle school with this guy who was a mix of an acquaintance and a friend. We got along pretty well but didn't spend that much time together because we didn't have any classes together and only saw each other during lunch. He seemed like a really nice friendly guy overall. The notable physical characteristic he had was his soft hands and I mean really soft hands. Like absurdly soft like no one else I've ever met even up to today. As in so soft they didn't even feel like human hands. We often even joked around a lot about how soft his hands were. As in how many bottles of lotion he goes through in a day. Stupid stuff like that. One day he really started to insist that we both go to the school restroom during lunch. I was initially really confused but went anyway because he was so insistent. Suddenly in the restroom he pushed me down to the ground got on top of me and then started to pin my hands down using his. I tried to break free but couldn't. His hands were so soft but at the same time so fucking strong. I couldn't move. He told me he was desperate for sex from girls but since he couldn't get it from them I was the next best thing. I tried calling for help but the boys passing by thought it was funny. Then he turned me around pulled my pants down and...you can guess the rest. In short he raped me. No one took me seriously and all he got was a 3 day suspension. Ever since then I'm completely repelled by soft hands. Even if it's on a dainty pretty lady I fucking hate soft hands. I'm reminded of him every time I touch soft hands. So for me when it comes to hands the rougher the better. The further away from the texture of that fucking bastard's hands the better. I hope he's dead.

Every night I feel lonely because I have no friends to talk to. What do I do? I can't find friends because I live in normalfagville. I tried /soc/ already but it sucked.

>talk to a female for more than 5 seconds >dick starts oozing pre-cum how do i stop this? at least i'm not getting boners anymore

Make or break moment for kids?: Were both 29 and i'm worried if we don't have a kid soon and leave it too late i'll live a life of regret having nobody to pass things on to and worse: nobody to kill us when we're withered old and senile fucks shitting in a bag. Wife doesn't really want kids because child birth is painful and draining and i don't blame her. She reluctantly would go with it if i straight up said i wanted kids but i am so unsure. We both work hard and like our leisure time. She plays DnD and i like my project cars and we just know it would all end as soon as kids come in to the picture. What the fuck should we do. We have discussed it a lot lately but really don't know. At this point it's basically "which is the less miserable option". Not to say we wouldn't love the kid but it would just really suck saying goodbye to all my projects and doing the stuff i enjoy.

So a month ago, someone gave me some money, cause they wanted to help me out. It was about $100. A week ago, I see this same person and I wanted to say hello to them. So I say hello. But then they sort of ignore and treat me like as if they don't know me. I see this same person again the next day, and it is the same behavior. They ignore me. I don't understand. Why they treat me like this? They gave me money. And now they won't even say hello? This is behavior I don't understand. Can someone explain?

Waifu lifestyle?: hello /adv/ what is the best way to get into the waifu lifestyle? I have my waifu, she's perfect and I've been in love with her for so many years, however I don't know how to culminate that love. Should I buy posters, pillows or merch? Should I have some sort of shrine? How do you guys make the most out of your love for your waifu? Do you write fanfiction or draw? Any recommendations?

I have an incessant infatuation with Dua Lipa: Is there something wrong with me? Literally every waking moment of my life I am just envisioning myself being engaged to this woman, dating this woman, married this woman. Creampie-ing this woman. I would love to creampie Dua Lipa before I die. Could I make that happen? What if I told Dua Lipa directly that I love her and want her to bear my child? This is not even a bait post. I need to be with Dua Lipa.

Any real tips would help: I lost my job in January, and have had difficulty finding work since. My girlfriend is the sole breadwinner at the moment and it's not enough to cover rent, which is due on the first, and I'm in a state/apartment which issues 3-day pay-or-vacate notices the day rent is late. We'll have at least $660 by the first, and we'd have the remainder by the sixth. Is there any way to negotiate a postponement til the sixth while we get the rest of the money together? I'd really rather not have my woman and our unborn child on the streets.

I need to find a way to stop being homo: I can't take it anymore, I need a cure. My entire future is fucked if I don't. It feels disgusting and vile yet I can't stop these carnal desires. The only reason l'm like this is because of my shitty father and getting groomed at 16 by an older man. I don't see a future. I can't even cope with video games or anime because they're all filled with men that spur these homosexual thoughts. I'm not religious, l just want to be rid of this sickness.

people dont like me and the only way you can get a job or money is through people liking you. as far as i can tell, having skill or being better than others has very little to do with it, its all about people liking you and wanting to give you stuff. my dreams of being a businessman seem annihilated.

wtf is wrong with me why am i so weak and pathetic: Whenever I get into any kind of confrontation I just get way too emotional its like that sick pit in your stomach feeling like waiting for exam results when you know you re gonna get beaten and slapped by ur dad literally Im honestly scared of people even online sometimes and I hate myself for it. Im not close with my dad because Im scared of him (cringe ik) I feel like I really need guy friends or some kind of father figure just to feel supported or something But at the same time I feel so feminine coded and I hate that about myself. It actually hurts to think about, I want to change but I feel stuck Whenever I talk to anyone guy or girl I get nervous and awkward unless I feel like Im somehow better or stronger than them I like the idea of having presence and being manly but deep down I feel weak willed.

Hopeless romantic.: Can you give me your most brutal takes on love, dating, relationships for a 20 something hopeless romantic who falls way too hard in love and can't ever let go, even when everyone else just moves on? Just shatter my fantasy with reality PLEASE. I just can't let go and just can't help it. I don't want to be like this anymore. I really don't.

Why?: It's 2am, can't sleep because I'm thinking of how to kill myself later today. I don't really understand, for 30 years I've only done what was expected of me, but nothing works, dropped out of college because of covid and multiple supervisors ghosting me for years, fired or quit wagie jobs, got pay docked for standing up for myself and for not doing it too, no charisma, no good looks for social media, not good at music or art, mediocre at video games and I get excluded from online communities often because of my race. Worst of all, I'm a shitty midwit. I live alone with my father that has Alzheimer's, money comes from his savings, is there rhyme or reason to living like this?, I hate everything, I hate life, I hate people, I despise going out and talking to others I don't know what I want. I can't even muster emotion anymore, not even faking it, me me me me me who the fuck is me???? 4chan at least knows how a misanthrope like me should end up like, right?????

Stealing Book: I had to buy a textbook for class because It wasn't on Annas Archive, its on a e-reader website called Kortext, how can I download the book so I can upload it to Annas Archive

Girlfriend wants me to stop taking test e: 26 y/o male here recently started taking testosterone enanthate for better gym performance and to get a brutal physique in summer. I noticed increased libido, better erections (and better sex), much higher strength and increased self confidence. I also got acne, slightly puffier/bloated face and maybe some paranoia. In the beginning, my girlfriend was quite excited but told me to be careful. Now that I got the acne and worse skin, she's urging me to stop, she thinks the side effects will be worse. I'm not sure what to do, it's only been 5 weeks now that I'm on test and I want to give it some time, unsure whether the side effects will worsen or decrease in time. Some advice would be appreciated.

Medical school as a poor: I an 23, a carpenter, gainfully employed with a disabled live in girlfriend who i don't want to break up with because I love her and she treats me well, but depends on me financially. I grew up poor, and have no college credits. I want to go to medical school, and live in an area with decent colleges. How can I do this while keeping my girlfriend but not being homeless? The rigorous study of pre med and medical school precludes having a second job. Will student loans pay my rent? If so, I'd have to live on campus, probably, which means my girlfriend couldn't live with me, and she depends on me. Does anyone have any advice for how I could make this happen? I'm quite confident I could get through medical school and become a doctor, I'm at least determined enough to try. Could I just get 500k in debt and pay all my bills for the 8-12 years of school with debt and do really well and get a high paying doctor job?

Girl called me a loser for asking her out. How to respond?

Where can I watch movies for free? Used to use 123movies but that website doesn't really work anymore

How do you critique your own work in a way that furthers your development rather than stifle it? How do you become your own best critic? How do you develop taste, and what is good? How do you find out your strengths/weaknesses? How do you optimize your life?

So I'm cleaning the place up and this dude comes up to me and yells at me for touching his stuff. Mind you, anything left behind has to be thrown away. I had no idea the stuff was his. Just assumed it was abandoned garbage. What would you say to this person in order to calm them down and not have them beat you up?

The current post-woke world has seen many turn to religion, with Christianity in particular being discussed as this be-all, end-all solution to peoples' problems. Now, as an agnostic, I could never be convinced through scripture alone to believe in a god, but I can see the benefit to personal and societal structure it would provide. How would such an agnostic get the most out of a religion's moral teachings without believing in the source of said teachings?

Best way to respond when a stranger starts yelling at you for whatever reason?

i don't like being small: i wanna be big. while there's technically nothing i can do about it i've been desperate over it my whole entire life. as a kid i was always small and picked on and bullied a lot and i hoped that as a teenager or adult i'd one day stop being small and become big...now i'm almost 30...THAT DAY NEVER FUCKING CAME. I AM STUCK BEING SMALL it really sucks to see all my big friends sleeping with like 10 girls a week meanwhile i've never even held hands with a girl...not even back when i was in school. not even a cheek kiss or anything and whenever there's any sort of physical competition like arm wrestling or literally any sport i realize that i'll never be as strong as guys who are big i am also reminded that if one of those big guys wanted to beat the shit out of me or even rape me there'd be nothing i can do about it. even if i bring a weapon what happens if they swipe the weapon away from me? i do work out and have taken martial arts but when the average guy is like 100 pounds heavier than you and the big guys are like 300+ pounds heavier than you there's not much you can do. and no, i'm not even skinny, just really really small so i don't know what to do. i want to fucking kill myself over something i can't control. seriously guys i don't even know what specific advice to ask for but i just want any help i can get. if i could wish to stop being small i'd do it in a heartbeat...BUT I CAN'T

putting up with life / retards: >Be me >19m >Work hard, career lined up, work hard and, workout, lots of hobbies, passions, etc I been through several situationships from Snapchat, but after getting to know them, they usually last 1-2 months max. I have yet to find a girl that truly wants more than a fuck buddy I continue with my method >Add girl >Send a few snaps >Say hi, say where I live and what I study >Tell her im looking for a long term relationship If it doesnt work (shes not interested( >EZ unadd >Move on until a women clicks with me However recently I did this simple tried and true method again, and for whatever damn reason this women just freaks out at me! >Take screenshots of chat >Takes screenshot of profile >"4 paragraphs of ranting" >"ooooh find someone irl you weirdo! You know thats the biggest lie ever.. blah blah blah.. you are such a creep for trying on snapchat!!" This bitch was actually so retarded. I followed some manly advice, and simply replied "Ok" Then she went off some more, I just go "lol" and unadd her (she screenshotted the chats like 4 times at this point (for literally no reason) Guys... Why??? Why on earth are some women like this. I literally KNOW nothings wrong with what I did, but I cant help but feel incredibly pissed at the level of retardation I just dealt with. Also, despite going out all the time with friends, hanging out Downtown and everything I find it incredibly hard to find women (especially my age or 18, since I usually go to 19+ pubs / clubs) So to me, if Snapchat works, it works! I dont see whats wrong with being upfront and honest to filter out girls that dont matter. Does anyone advise me against Snapchat? Its personally worked relatively well, except for the women who ended up wanting incompatible goals

How do you deal with the fact that you're getting older and that all your favorite games are 15 years or older now? My favorite games are >Left 4 dead 2 >Team Fortress 2 >Minecraft >Portal 2 I feel like I'm having an existential crisis and just wish I could go back to when their games were newer. 26 years old.

So there's a girl...: Hi anons. There's a girl at church (Catholic) who's dating an Agnostic. She wants to settle, but isn't sure he's the right guy. She seems like the right type for me though and we both have the same goals and faith. How should I handle this?

Well, happened again. I can't help the fucking revulsion I feel towards this person. And I know you're going to say "Oh you're inexperienced" or "you can't handle she had sex" no, this is more specific than that. I've had several partners, I've dated girls who have exes, it's not just that. This girl I was interested in told me she was a virgin, a shut in with no romantic experience who never had a boyfriend or went out. We get to talking about sex and suddenly the story's changed, she still says she's a virgin but "I love sucking dick. I don't care who it is, I just love the taste, I'll suck anyone's dick. I've sucked so many guys dicks." She gives me one number then goes "Actually it was more than that." I dumped a paragraph of text explaining why by definition, she actually isn't a virgin, and she accepted that, but it's just like... "You're filth. Why couldn't you be normal?" Like if she just had a couple exes I wouldn't care, but what were you a party favor? A blowjob whore? Did your cousins pass you around? I don't even want to fucking talk to her anymore.

I have a small penis humiliation fetish and I don't want it: I have been getting more and more into SPH lately and I hate it. I've been watching and reading more SPH porn lately and it's been more and more enjoyable but I feel like shit after I cum. I love embarrassment and humiliation (both genders) and SPH plays a part of it but I always feel like shit after I "finish". How can I stop enjoying this fetish? It's so hot but makes me feel like shit. My penis is 5 inches btw

spergs: I really like this guy I'm always running into around college, but we're both clinical actual spergs and say nothing when we're around each other. I think I might have a chance because his friends leave me alone with him, we text, he always tries to help me out, etc, but it is so awkward irl. I run away whenever I see him because I become very nervous. I know this will probably drive him away. What do?

Does anyone else experience anxiety when thinking about their early childhood? And i don't mean it in "muh trauma" way. Recently i found myself often thinking back to school moments back when i was 6-10 years old, and those memories fill me with such sadness and eerie helplessness, like i'm back there again, a little dumb child. And a few specific incidents from the past that i can't get out of my head, those are even worse. They are just so somber. Not that actually anything notably bad happened, just the recollection makes me feel dread. Also, the memories of this are very foggy, but i recall always having "abnormal" thoughts. I have ADHD so it surely changed how i was, and the fact i never could really develop a connection with any other kid. The memory of my just sitting and walking around during recess invades my headspace a lot lately. Not sure why.

I can't earn enough to live and have earned below minimum wage in 5 jobs in a row. I'm poor. Being poor causes me a whole slew of problems, having no food, having no fuel, no health care, no social life etc etc. But the real problem I'm having is that people are often offended by my claim of being poor, don't accept that I'm poor, are angry I raise the issue. My boss sent us all an online training activity and I couldn't do it on my mobile, or access it from a public library (it was firewalled) and my boss was angry and blamed me for not having a computer. I just told the boss i couldn't afford one, it didn't seem fair to be blamed for that. But this only made my boss angrier. Similarly I was caught eating left overs the other week, sent to HR, told HR that I only eat one meal a day, lack energy at work, get yelled at for "being slow" if i didn't eat anything. They said I was making excuses.

Advise me: I don't have reason to live, but at the same time I'm not too brave to kms, and why should I, if I'm already alive. So I want to do some experiments with my body and/or mind. I tried not to sleep for a week but I wasn't really seeing hallucinations or smth even at the last days, so I'm kinda disappointed. I also tried breath deprivation, but all it did is that my consciousness went into dark for a small amount of time. My new idea is to try to precisely cut my skin so I can "take out" and touch my vein, cuz I think its cool to try so; do u think it's possible to perform this thing? Do you have some ideas what to try to do with my body?

How can I turn on my phone?: It's an iPhone 12 pro. A foid smashed it a few months ago because I was taking pics of her ass. It's an old phone so I don't care but I have old pics on it I want to get back. When it was first smashed it wasn't able to connect to the Internet or make calls at all all but other than that it was fine. Now for some reason it won't turn on even if I leave it charging overnight.

how the fuck do people learn a language in 2026: how the fuck do i learn german without having to spend 700 dollars on a 3 month Goethe Institute course? Genuinely what the fuck am I supposed to do? How on earth do people learn a language in 2026? You'd think there'd be an answer by now.

I just found out I'm having a child: What does this mean financially? Any tips from /biz/ Dads? We are far from our parents, but wife is stay at home and will be a great full time mother. /childfree/ opinions discarded.

astro advice: Can someone versed into astrology tell me what makes me an incel hated by women who has never had a single friend online or not? Can I get some advice?

>girl at work >has been flirting with me for the the entire year in a half we've been working together >her and her friend are quitting at the end of the month >tells her friend not to tell me because she wants to tell me personally >tells me she's leaving and that she's really going to miss me, really likes spending time with me, etc. etc. >tells me to text her to let her know what's going on at work >her friend is constantly teasing her about me >she always giggles and acts coy >constantly says "we're gonna fight after work" and "I'm gonna fight you one day" >always stands super close to me with a big smile on her face >one day we're joking with each other and I say "Fuck you", she stays quiet, I say "Just kidding haha" she says "That's too bad" >following day she says she doesn't have any plans for Valentine's day >the following day (today) I ask her out >she says no I just have no words, I'm not necessarily heart broken or have my feelings hurt but just confused and annoyed that this bitch would spend that much time and energy flirting with me and then say no when I finally ask her out, she even said "Now that we won't be working together we can DEFINITELY fight ;)" and I give this bitch the chance to hang out so we can fool around and she says no, now I know why our ancestors used to beat women, completely justified.

What's a good job that doesn't require intense use of arms?: I had a oretty bad rotator cuff injury and now that I've recovered I've considered changing into a line of work that doesn't put excess stress on it for my longevity sake. What's some good jobs that pay at or above 60k that won't cause me to break myself again. I was thinking maybe a jeweler or auto salesman, but I'd love to hear more suggestions.

Dishwasher here. So there's this new guy in kitchen. He's supposed to wash the pots and pans, and I use the mashine to wash the plates and cups. That's his assignment and that's mine. So he tries to get me to be switching with him so he does the plates and cups and I do the pots and pans. But I refused cause that's not my job. And now it's been a few shifts but he totally ignores me everytime we cross paths. Doesn't even say hi. But he talks and says hi to the other coworkers in the kitchen. Basically giving me the cold shoulder. He even made a snarky remark when a customer asked him where to put their dirty cup, "ask mister dishwasher over there" even though he knows where the dirty cups go and he was closer to that area than me. I now have to work with this guy. What do I do? Just pretend he doesn't exist?

Coom addiction: I've been depressed for over a decade and in the past 2 years I've relied heavily on gooning to feel anything. I've never been drunk or did any drugs (aside from prescriptions) at all, and now I find out my gooning sessions are like doing crack cocaine. I realized it's been fucking me up before I decided to ask AI about it, so I haven't done it in a few days, but wtf. I've even started trying to eat healthier but I still feel lower than ever, with no drive, no will to do/try anything.

How to comfort the dying: My wifes dad has a few months at best, a few weeks at worst. My wife visits daily and I visit every chance I get when I'm not taking care of buisness for them or keeping our house afloat. We've watched a ton of his favorite movies and I try to get his mind off things and talk about his interests, we shoot the shit about life and swap stories the whole time I'm there but he's still very depressed. What would you do to comfort someone you care about on their death bed?

Projects: How many projects can you effectively juggle at once without going insane?

Hide my power level: Should I tell my coworkers at my upcoming job that I develop games as a hobby, that I self study and aspire to knowledge? Feels dishonest not to and I wouldn't have much to say otherwise. Flip side is that I would feel like I'm alienating them and they'd worry about expressing themselves around me.

Joining the military?: Should I seriously consider this? Not a NEET, but I'm 24 and have debt, and my current job is dead end with little pay.

anons should i drop out of university?: first year already failing everything. its not like I cant do them its just Im too depressed and brainrotted to do it. I was hoping to get some friends, or even a partner but im totally alone here desu. Its not like I dont do sports or clubs or have social anxiety its just nobody cares and Im shit at making friends. Its definitely not the worst place to be since im no longer NEETing 24/7 and I occasionally do sports and social things but yeah still not great I got my grades and Im probably going to have to redo the first year with them. Additionally I ran out of money and haven't been paying rent, should I just cut my losses? My only alternative is back to NEETing in my bedroom (at my parents) which i think id rather rope than do. I probably cant hold down a full-time job pay rent either. i do computer science

I have become a plapjak: >foid is finally into me for the first time in my life after getting to know me >she's fat What the fuck, bros? I want to be attracted to her but I was simply not made for the plap life. Out of all the average - decent looking foids who ever approached me, why did it have to be her who stuck around? She's always messaging me to come over or meet her friends and many times I have already said no and ended up fapping instead. When I do fuck her I need to have either cialis or viagra in my system and even then it's hard to get hard. I do enjoy BJs from her but anything else just feels like a chore. I'm 25 in a few months and I only lose my non-paid virginity last summer to a hot blonde who asked me out. I feel like at this point i'm too jaded and there's just no point. I think i'd rather be alone now. What do?

Advice Regarding Escort: I have got seriously mixed feelings about my latest visit to an eescort. This was the 5th time I've seen her. Didn't go so well this time. Started off well, kissing was passionate, nice cuddling, she encouraged me to spank her, but for some reason I was struggling for hardness when I tried penetrating her. She was understanding and I eventually came while she gave me a blowjob/handjob but I'm a bit pissed off I couldn't stay hard during penetration. We just cuddled and talked for the last 30 minutes or so. idk why this happened. Last two times have been fine, I went on top and finished inside her (condom on obviously). She says I overthink things which is true. At the end I asked her about meeting again in 2 weeks and she said yes instantly and kissed me but something about her demeanour made me worried. She seemed a bit colder than normal at the end. I've texted her saying thanks and that I really enjoy getting to know her. But I am worried. Is my problem that I'm too emotionally/intellectually attracted to her? Why couldn't I get hard this time?

Should I become an actor niggers? I have a big opportunity on the industry and I dont really know if I should do it

Am I delusional, or is every woman I come across secretly into me?

I lost my girlfriend to suicide two days ago, I don't know how to keep living. Being with her for these last two years was the first time in my entire life I actually felt happiness and was excited to be alive, she was my soulmate, she completed me and we wanted to stay together forever. Now i will never see her again. I'm on my way home and just passed the place where she did it.

Some dickhead stole my phone and started recording on it and I have this recording and I know his Instagram. Can I get him arrested? https://voca.ro/16rUObetikV2

>Ask for training >manager says they will train me when things slow down >yearly raises come around >get minimum raise because I'm not trained to do more Is my manager retarded? She's the one telling me I can't be trained to do more until the workload drops.

Is it possible to read books and still be dumb as shit? How is this possible? Aren't books supposed to make you intelligent?

How do I stop saving pornography to my computer? I hate it when I search and search but I can't find "that video" Also I find it very comforting to just sift through all the stuff I've saved over the years

How to get someone ostracized/kicked from a server: I was kicked out of my friend group in favor of a literal child grooming tranny because I'm bad at the social game. How do I defame people?

How sad is my life? >Be me, 18 year old virgin NEET >Sit inside all day >Decide 6 months ago to launch a Minecraft server along with a chud Twitter account >Now have 6,500 followers on Twitter, rapid growth for the age of my account. >Typically have 3 notifications a minute or so >Run a Minecraft server, 12 loyal players with new players everyday >Read the chat every now and then. People fear me, threaten to report other players to me, etc. >Recently tried going outside for the first time in 2 weeks and ended up wandering around the house for over 3 hours changing my clothes feeling like I looked retarded, before giving up and laying in bed for another 6 hours jerking off and scrolling Twitter Now that I have power online I don't feel like I even need to go outside. I have my own world. I get snacks and energy drinks delivered on Amazon using my 2,000 in savings.

Just got prescribed vimovo and flexeril, if I were to chug a bunch of it, what would happen?

I cant enjoy life anymore: And no, i dont have depression. But I just cant enjoy it anymore, I feel out of life, cant love, cant smile, cant interact with people, i see myself totally unable to form and sustain a relationship with woman because of my apathy and incapacity to relate with others. If nothing changes inside me there is no point on keep living. Maybe God just forgot about me and im a lost case. I was thinking of taking shrooms just to see if anything changes in me or at least I got a revelation of what the hell is wrong with me, but pretty sure I just end up having a bad trip.

True success comes from all you humbly want to do to enjoy life is sit in a chair and enjoy the outdoors. True failure comes from all you want to do is chase materialistic things like wealth, fame, luxuries, sex, romance, status. As I got older I got tired of all of that bullshit with people wanting materialistic things. Miserable way to live. I actually feel happy now and am motivated for tomorrow to start studying and not worry about stupid shit.

Wake up earlier than you think you need to—surprise is leverage. Hydrate like it’s a mission requirement, not a suggestion. If something breaks twice, replace it or change the plan. Stand up straight; posture changes how people assess you. Buy gear once, cry once. Write things down—memory fails under pressure. Never make big decisions when you’re hungry, tired, or emotional. Morning sunlight is free discipline. If it’s not mission-critical, don’t overthink it. Check your equipment before you need it. Silence makes people talk—use it strategically. Always have an exit plan, even for chill situations.

Did I creep my sister out?: So I'm a guy and my sister and I were fooling around, roughhousing and her crotch ended up on my face. She was wearing sweatpants so it wasn't skin to skin or anything but I became aroused and she teased me about it. I made it clear that it wasn't because I was attracted to her, but pussy is pussy, and I admitted that I enjoyed having her pussy in my face. She wasn't offended and seemed to accept it and even find it amusing but I'm wondering if this is a typical reaction that a woman would have to her brother in this situation. To be clear, I'm not hoping she's attracted to me or harboring feelings or anything like that. I'm just worried that I creeped her out or made her uncomfortable. I never brought it up again and I don't intend to and I'm certainly going to be more careful roughhousing with her moving forward.

I'm 30 and I feel like dating teenage girls. What do I do?

My dog is being put down in 2 days: My dog that ive had since i was 5 years old is being put down in 2 days. She just turned 13 years old on valentines day. We have no choice but do to this as she can hardly walk most days, refuses food and is just generally not able to function anymore. She has been my best friend my whole life and she hasnt even died yet but this is still the hardest thing ive ever had to go through. A group of people are coming to our house to do it in a comfortable place for her, then they are taking her to be cremated. Originally, i was going to be there for her passing to comfort her but my mum has suggested that if i was it would be extremely traumatising for me. Instead, shes recommended that i go to my dads house for an hour while shes being put down. But i have no idea how im going to be able to say bye to her, pet her one more time and walk out the door and leave. I have no idea how to cope with any of this. Ive been getting high everyday since we got the news we had to put her down to distract me, when im high it doesnt feel like the situation is real so i dont have to think about it and it just rolls off me Ive never experienced a loss this big and it hasnt even happened yet. I have no idea what to do. Im sorry if this is more so a vent than asking for advice but this is just so hard to navigate. I dont know how im gonna be able to get through life without her. She has been through everything with me by my side. I guess im asking what should i do, have any of you been through this before? i just need some support. Should i leave or be present for her passing? this is all so confusing. thank you for listening

Is there a way to safely/anonymously get ICE to go to someone’s house? There are a couple hispanic people that screwed me over within the past couple years and I suspect they may be undocumented and really want them to be taken to detention centers, but I have autism and I’m not too familiar with legal stuff

Can someone please explain to me how you the dark web works, how do you do this, and no im not a fed

What causes this? Is there a way to reverse this?

Supplements for Anon suffering from OCD and mild Adhd

I'm racist and to be honest, it gets kinda hard having any sanity when you're surrounded 24/7 by the very people that annoy you the most. Heck even most of the people of my own race are annoying. Go figure. The problem is that they're too annoying. And it gets kinda difficult to hide my racism, but I know they sense it in some level. How do I deal with this?

Please help me my fellow 4chan niggers. How do I last longer in bed? My penis in vagina lasting time is just under a minute and my girlfriend needs more!

It's over for our relationship?: >i grew up Mormon >father was the bishop >since I was 13, I've had to confess to him that I masturbated, just the two of us in a closed room >it's likely my sisters went through this too I hate talking to him. Every time he asks me a question, I get the same shitty feeling I had in that closed room.

How many of you are in a worse position than me?: Were you able to get out of it and become a real human bean? >25 in 2 months >basically dropped out of my final year of uni out of depression and tfw no gf, have to do repeat exams in May but i'm already procrastinating them and i'm not sure i'll still be able to because I barely just started working on a project i've been meaning to start since September. At best i'll have a codecel degree with an absolutely dogshit gpa so not much of a chance at getting a proper job out of it. >Neet, tried working a sales job at Vodafone but quit after 2 months. It was a never-ending humiliation ritual. Had to deal with a manager who'd scream at me like a teacher screaming at a 12yo who forgot his homework 3 times in a row, often for shit I didn't even do and retard customers who screamed at me because they thought them forgetting their phone passcode had something to do with their sim card and it was my fault. Oh, and old women telling me that the FBI is listening in on their phone calls. >did my theory test almost 2 years ago but haven't started taking driving lessons yet. >I've been an incel all my life, ascended with a hot blonde last year but fumbled afterwards. I'm plapping now but I need viagra/ cialis and even then it's hard to get hard. >live with parents obviously and too lazy to even apply for NEETbux again Is there a way out for me? What do I even do at this stage? I feel stuck.

how to find them irl, if im completly retarded and shy as hell when I'm talking to new people irl - my language not understandable at all, because of social axiety but I really need it, I really miss it and I don't know how to bring it back I moved to another country and for 1.5 yrs didn't make any friends should I just rope myself, so I don't have to go through it ? also I don't know HOW to go through it except continue isolation and it is disgusting

are you guys honest about ur feeling?: I get confused- Okay pause Iknow this is gonna sound faggotty, But literally <right now> i wanted to confess that i feel like crying, but i would rather just lie to you about my main problem rather than sound gay So should i be more open with how i feel? Also i tried brute forcing myself into being mature and calm and normal, But after every time i interact with people i feel so miserable almost tearing Sometimes i acc hit the jackpot and actually feel better from being superior/normal when i talk to people and it goes well (well = not feeling insulted by others) i am always in a constant struggle with feeling normal, I know i can get better if i went outside but in my case the cons usually outweighs pros so i get home contemplating leaving and being normal tldr, fuck u all another question do you guys know where i can ask questoin about 4chan, cause there is stuff that i dont understand in setting, is there a board for this bs

I WANT TO SCREAM I WANT TO SCREAM I WANT TO SCREAM I WANT TO SCREAM: All the bad shit thats happening to me in my life? That all fucking sucks! But you know what I want more than anything right now? The freedom to go feral IRL without being held back by anything in my external circumstances. I just want a place to loudly express myself and let out my frustration because I bottle it up inside all day because I dont have enough free space to let it all out without being an annoying yet cowardly cunt. I don't care how fucked up my life is right now or how much time ive wasted or how worse im becoming ALL I care about more than anything in the world right now is having the freedom to full heartedly explode out as far as my suppressed emotions go. ... how do that?

I haven't been here in more than a decade, and it looks like the board's content has changed. I'll still post anyway, maybe some people will want to engage. I was diagnosed with SzPD recently after thinking I was autistic. It's a bit difficult and sad to reframe that diagnosis. I thought I would eventually have the desire to be in a relationship or overcome the wall I have when it comes to building deep friendships, but it sounds like if I do it'll be because I learned to fake it, not because I naturally want to. I also feel glad to finally have answers with that diagnosis, I feel relieved that I don't have to force myself to be """"normal"""" and that, yes, I kind of am broken but I'm also behaving normally for someone who's schizoid. Anyone else with schizoid personality disorder who would like to talk?

A considerable amount of people in my life told me I'm a self centered dickhead. I'm 24. Also an actual sperg. Without going too deep into the specifics, my childhood was utter shit and constant traumas. Deep down I seek belonging and understanding ; which tears me down to no end. Then I remember: "People are shit. You, are shit. It will never work out. Stop whining and get over yourself. Who is ultimately the only one you can rely on." am I on the brink of a schizo episode or is there some sense in this blogpost?

If I suck on someone's toes, am I going to get athlete's foot in my mouth? Yes, this is a serious question. I am a foot loving degenerate. And I want to take my foot fetish to the next level. So I need to be aware of the health risks.

I need some urgent help with my girlfriend. We’ve been together for a year and hit it off immediately. It’s always fun to chat with her, plus we match each other’s freak like no other, even though it’s about two times a day. We’re both busy with school, but her classes are more difficult and she has work. Lately, she said she was going through more schoolwork, but she has never said anything for a week. Admittedly, I haven’t been in the best relationships. My last girlfriend called me an expandable and it seems like it’s the first time I’ve been with someone I love, but it also comes with paranoia and self-loathing. It’s almost like I expect she’ll one day betray my trust and sleep with someone else. I haven’t told her about these feelings, I feel it’s too humiliating or embarrassing. For this whole week she has texted nothing to me and I’ve been left with my own paranoid thoughts and came to the conclusion she’s cheating on me. I called her a liar over text and she seemed confused and sad seeing me accusing her of cheating on me. She tells me she’s been exhausted over work and college and she promises she has no reason to cheat when she has me, but I tell her it’s easy for her to sleep with other guys behind my back and lie about it. She didn’t answer after a few minutes before she kept telling me she promised she’s not cheating or looking to cheat. I don’t know if I should believe her or not. I texted her I’ll spend all of Valentine’s in bed and we haven’t spoken since. What should I do? I wanna believe she’s telling the truth, but then I get this headache and immediately go into her deceiving me. Should I talk to her? Does she even want to talk? Did she cheat on me? Did she not? Maybe she decided to after my texts? I don’t know, I just need some advice here.

sad lonely faggot award: I am 23 years old. I am a virgin. I have 2 "friends" and they don't live in the same city as me. I have 2 family members. I have autism. This perfect recipe for loneliness has laid me low. I don't know how to make friends, I don't know where I would go to make friends. At this point I don't even remember how to have friends. The interactions I have with people are like war room strategies and tactics. My body language has been heavily scrutinised by myself and pre-planned. I repeat phrases and colloquialisms rotely that I've heard from social people. I'm careful not to show too much emotion or let my true thoughts slip ever, or to use body language that suggests vulnerability. My behaviour in public is entirely predictable and selected after closely studying other people. I'm like fucking Patrick Bateman, but poor. An abstraction, a suggestion of a person that doesn't exist. This is the only way I can walk in the world of normies. No one ever sees anything that I don't want them to see. I'm the type of person that you meet and shake my hand, trade polite conversation with, and leave. Not the type of person you become friends with. People have told me they wouldn't suspect that I'm autistic. What does that mean? If I'm so fucking good at masking then why am I so lonely? The mask is required to for me to maintain at least a distant relationship with human society. Without it I would crumble and my life would be nothing.

Changing Appearance for Someone?: Call me an SJW, but ever since I was a teen, I made the deliberate choice to not wear makeup, shave my legs, or do many of the foid beauty regiment crap because I thought it unequal, unnecessary, and shallow. I still look presentable because I occasionally work out, enjoy fashion, and am hygienic, but I'm in no way a stunner that a guy would immediately jump for. This was always something I'm okay with. I get along better with nerds and outcasts who wouldn't mind that and go after me because of personality and shared interests. The issue now is that I met a guy who is completely compatible with me and loves my personality. However, he is a looksmaxxer and spends at least two hours a day on extra working out and grooming. The two of us are extremely blunt people, and after I asked him out and received a maybe, he admitted it was my lack of taking pride in my appearance that was a factor in the maybe. For the record, he's also learning how to flirt because I challenged him to. I know I may be having my cake and eating it too, but does anyone here have advice on becoming more attractive without falling into pickme-ism and issues with self-image? I'm less looking for practical beauty advice and more for perspectives on the mentality that goes into these things from a femanon perspective. tyia

Richfag trying to change: I am extremely comfortable (high 6 fig in big city) and I still can’t make friends or get a gf. And I’m almost 28 Literally out-earn majority of my peers.. and I can’t do make friends, majority is inheritance so I just have a bunch of free time, I guess money can’t even halo my autism The two guys I know irl are neets and don’t have these issues Any suggestions? Do I just rent a friend at this point? Shit is pretty grim

How would you react in this situation?

If this sounds stupid, I am sorry. This morning, I was using some tools and accidentally cut myself on my finger. Now I have been on an apathy streak for a while, but this made me feel unbeliavably alive. I wont be cutting myself anytime soon (too pussy) but what are some ways that I can "accidentally" cut myself and feel alive like that again? I need to draw blood like that. It's been 10+ hours and I'm still on that high. You can call me a faggot, gay, retarded, whatever. I just want to feel alive.

is it worth it living another decade?: No doomerposting; serious materialist-clinical analysis, please. I'm from a third-world country; a worsening one, I'm literally disabled so rely on my parents + due to my mental insanity itself I would literally DIE if I ever have to live alone. I see everything in the world getting worse, worse, worse. the good things were more expensive, fewer in number, and less good over time. I don't see myself living 5 years, let alone 5 decades.

>year 2012 >bro calls me up out of nowhere >haven't spoken to him since 2009 >girl i was talking to cheated on me with him >says he is now on hard drugs and is asking me to help him get off >i do just that and let by-gones be by-gones >some years go by, we call each other every day, he's the #1 homie because we vibe on nostalgia, similar interests, ideologies, standards in life, etc. >bro winds up not throwing his life away like he originally intended and raises a family with two kids >i am happy for him >he constantly looks down at me for staying single >constantly picks at me for that >constantly brings up the past as an egoboost for himself >this goes on for some time >six years ago now >i get married >bro is suddenly hanging out with people that tried to make me commit sudoku when i was younger >he says "hey, they want to get back in touch I've been cracking up with them." >i explain to him why this is fucked up of him >he disagrees, claiming because i would talk to people he so much as 'didn't like' from time to time. >i say "ok, but I'm not trying to introduce any of them back in to yours and they didn't do anything to you anywhere near as severe." >he continues this anyway for quite some time >suddenly three years later he is back on the hard drugs, wife left him because she thinks he was cheating >bro was in discord talking about how his marriage suddenly turned into an open relationship and acting like it was cool >now that wife gone bro is depressed >sends me picture of him crying with gun to his head >tells me he didn't cheat, but she left and is now doing stuff with other guys and it's killing him. >tell him "if she really is doing that, that is not someone you should hurt yourself over, if she married you and had kids and still hasn't figured out what she wants out of life yet i wouldn't trust her around my kids." >bro suddenly gets pissed >"are you disrespecting my wife?" says bro >me: "I'm saying if she was your wife she would be there with you."

Im under the drinking age (21) and an alcoholic and dont want to quit but the issue is I can only get two bottles per two weeks, the size of them are big, they are 1.75L bottles of 100 proof vodka, but it is not enough and I finish rhem before two weeks so I cannot fuel my addiction as my mom refuses to buy me more that quickly I need alcohol to function and be happy my brain terrorized me if not.what do ? Is it time to start making diy moonshine with the grape juice and yeast or whatever? Lol Im sad I cant fuel my addiction and hsve to suffer for a few days

I visited my mother and heard crying coming from her room, so I went to see what was going on. She was crying because her husband (not my Dad) has severe kidney problems and is in the hospital. I tried to hug her, and she violently pushed me away, scratched me on the neck and my chest, and screamed that I haven't visited him in the hospital even once. So I kept my composure and went back to my apartment. First of all, that man was never my father. I was raised to believe he was until I was 10 (my mother lied to me until i met my real Dad), but her husband was never loving or caring toward me. I'm grateful to him in the sense that he never hit or mistreated me, but he mostly ignored me. I don't hate the man, but how am I supposed to care that he's in the hospital when he never helped me or gave me anything as a father? I ignore him because he ignored me. Yet i don't hate him but i don't care about him. As for my Mother's rejection, I guess that's one of the main reasons for my hatred of women. Im experiencing an intense hatred and horrible feeling of emptiness right now. I tried to sleep but i can't. How do I get these feelings away? Im feeling at my worst.

Help: I sleep all day, I'm up playing video games all night. I'm always anxious. I used to have Gingivitis, but I fixed it (gums are no longer puffy). Visited dentist about 2 weeks ago and they said everything was good, yet I still stop and stare at my gums multiple times a day as if something was still wrong. If it's not my gums, something else in my body is worrying me/feeling off. If it's not that, something in the past. Something always feels wrong even when nothing is wrong. When I try to be productive, I suddenly get overwhelmed and feel despair. I was able to wake up at a good hour today. I told myself I wouldn't play video games more then a few hours. Once those few hours were up, instead of reading a book, I feel asleep. Reading self help is a waste of time (but that doesn't stop me from trying it). Any suggestions on how to fix this? Any routine or rules I set up lasts a day or two, week at most. I don't like my current trajectory, but I'm not sure how to change it. I'm spinning my wheels.

How do I cope with the fact that my biggest enemy, the person who essentially ruined my life and mental well-being, most likely forgot that I even exist? Someone who lives rent-free in my head for years now does not even register me as a blip on their radar, and I'm mad about it constantly. How do I stop holding a grudge against somebody from time long past?

Where can I find girls like Clio Aite and MariMari: Asked a while back where I could find fellow NEETs/Shut-ins and people rightly advised I was retarded and it was a terrible idea. I understand that was stupid. With that idea being terrible, I started wondering where I could find girls like Clio and Mari. I like their personalities and interests. Even if they ARE fantastical unicorns I thought maybe there'd at least be somewhat similar people floating around and ideally I'd like to figure out how to meet them. The main thing I like about them is their passions. Every girl I've met online, which admittedly hasn't been many, seem to interact with things in a superficial manner to fulfill some kind of ulterior goal. Like I've met a lot of girls who merely exist within communities or play games just to get attention. I'm not expecting people to be a turbo autist. Just to have the ability to like and feel impassioned about something because they actually like it and not because they want to wear it like a social badge or piece of fashion. I also really like their somewhat quiet natures and manners of speech, their sense of humor, and I love Clio's gaming preferences a lot.

Just really depressed: Someone from /b/ told me to come here. Since last year this time 3 of my pets died, I've become the sole provider of the family, and have been working non stop 7 days a week to make ends meet, and it's just been getting me really down, when I'm not working I keep thinking of my lost pets, and just worrying about who I might lose next, and when I'm working I'm exhausted from just constantly working and feel like I'm not doing my job fully and it makes me feel unfulfilled, and I'm too tired after work to work on my hobbies which used to make me happy I know I probably won't ever do it but I've recently been getting a persistent intrusive thought to kill myself, remove all the stress, all the heart break, all the nagging and constantly problems of life, it's a little worrying, but it's against what I believe to kill myself so I doubt I'll ever do it I just really would like some advice. I used to go to the gym, but between the depression and work schedule getting out of hand, I dropped it, not that it helped much desu. I've been planning on going to church but I'm scared the extra stress of being around so many people will bring be to tears as I'm already constantly on the brink of crying and I don't want to cry in a public space

I’m autistic and I’m pretty sure I’m being bullied at work Am I right to assume that if I tell HR about this, I will be fired for being autistic?

How do people date nowadays?: It's nearly impossible. Dating apps suck, going outside is worthless, bars don't work, and finding hobby groups are also worthless. I'm pretty sure people are just lying about their relationship status.

I grew up in a trailer. My mom taught me that if you don't want to be "trailer trash" white you have to continually put out your best effort. Which gets really exhausting sometimes. I've had lesbian feelings I've only indulged in private. Until this year, I never tried dating a guy bc I just kind of didn't feel any connection there. I want to have a normal family though, so I started dating a guy and it's not all that bad. Sexually it's not really ideal being with a man, but he's been kind and loves me a lot. He knows about my lesbian feelings, and he's okay with them or at least it seemed that way. He left a porn clip pulled up where I'd see it on his PC of a woman masturbating. I know it's wrong to go through other people's stuff, but the video kind of caught my eye and I thought I was alone right then, so I sat down to watch it. I got into it, and enjoyed it, and my bf came back with a sandwich plate and looked a little weirded out. We've talked about it a little, but it was so mortifying I couldn't really bring myself to say much. He's bothered about how much I 'enjoyed' it since I didn't seem to enjoy sex with him the same way. Can I fix this part of myself? He wants me to stop masturbating because he thinks it will "reset my brain" and get me to enjoy hetero sex more. My ex called me retarded and said it doesn't work like that though when I was telling her about everything so now I'm unsure.

in young people environments, how do you avoid pissing people off?: i realize that EVERYONE in a young people environment has enemies. thing is though people are diverse, and anything can piss anyone off: >not revealing details about yourself; pisses them off >not interacting with people; pisses them off >interacting with people too much; pisses them off >not talking about '''serious''' or having '''deep''' discussions, pisses them off >looking at them the wrong way; pisses them off >even things like overly focused body language >doing too well >not doing well enough i realize that EVERYONE has enemies in young people environments, where people are aged 18 to 30. but i dont want to have any, what the fuck do i do? i cant do nothing, because that will definitely piss someone off. but i cant do too much either, since that'll piss someone else off.

Fasting and hair loss: Starting tomorrow I'll be intermittent fasting, eating less, and abstaining from meat (mostly eating fish/lentils) until april. Just wondering if I fuck this up could I cause permanent hair loss? I know nutritional deficiencies can cause hair loss but I thought if I only do this for a month and a half it'll be okay. Just a bit worried because I think I'm already experiencing minor hair loss.

I keep fucking up this one stupid simple fucking exam it's three pages of memory, it shouldn't be that hard, but here i am, about to go through round 3 with the thing because i cant fucking apply myself. I study it well in advance, but every time that paper is in front of me its like all that goes down the drain, i keep fucking up the same things in the exact same way. This time i got a bit farther, but it's still failure. I've already pissed away my outings for this exam, only have one left. It's gotta count. I have until summer to figure this shit out and i don't fucking get it anymore, i keep shooting my own foot. I've had one (1) small academic win this year, but this just shoots me down every fucking time. What does one even do here? this isn't that hard, i don't know what's so hellbent inside me to destroy myself in this very specific way.

Hyperphantasia: How can I improve my mind's eye? I don't have aphantasia, but I struggle with picturing people, large-scale scenes/vistas, and detail.

/ATOGA/ - Ask the Opposite Gender Anything: last: >>34264166

how do u ignore the biological urge for social interaction: i dont want to talk to people and have friends and stuff i would rather focus on my dreams/goals. but the feeling of loneliness interferes alot. when i have had relationships in the past its mostly bad experiences so thats y. so if there is any1 like me whos figured it out please lmk

Books are just another addiction isn't it?: Used to waste hours every day on stuff like reddit and news sites. But I gave that up because apparently it's bad for me. Now I read books, and honestly I don't think it's any better than staring at the smartphone. You waste hours reading fanfiction and poorly disguised trauma and kinks of someone who's long dead. Previously I was an addict who wasted hours every day, I'm still the same now, but now I have a superiority complex as well. Tell me why I shouldn't go back to just scrolling in my free time.

Mid-life crisis and crushing on women outside of marriage: tl;dr I (oldfag approaching 40) crushed on a woman like a fucking child and I know she'd like to get to know me but it obviously is completely, utterly idiotic; all this while in a 13-year-long relationship and a 3yo kid (who I love and cherish). My wife (we never actually tied the knot, but essentially she is), is a good woman, decently attractive given the age, a great mother. We have a bit of a dead bedroom (even when things improved, it didn't seem to matter in this scenario), but apart from that she's doing a lot for me and up to not so long ago, I didn't really think that our relationship could prematurely end for any reason. Sure, I had crushes before, but I fapped and moved on like a normal person after having a brief contemplation of a "what-if”. I live a decent life, mortgage is paid in full, I have quite a bit of savings and in general I live a pretty chill life, fairly easy 9-5 job, some health issues but nothing unmanageable. Long story short, kid obviously hammered us, so we decided to have "downtime" by picking some sports-like activity. I picked up climbing, and for once I fucking committed and I got in a way better shape than I was ever before and my confidence skyrocketed. I was always somewhat handsome and never had problems picking women, but I was DYEL-skinny and I hated it. 'm barely non-DYEL now, but I believe this newfound self-esteem contributed to the whole thing. I crushed on a woman there around half a year back. I just looked at het from time to time until she got into my head. Things were fine, I never planned on approaching her or anything, but shit was growing in me silently. I started trying more at home, realising that it’s probably just a signal that something is amiss, but it didn’t help. At first I didn't notice, but she was definitely trying to set-up a scenario for us to stumble upon each other repeatedly, up until a point when she outright stared at me for god knows how long and smiled.

Boyfriend: Help storytime What do you think? I have a boyfriend, whom I'll call Pablo (for privacy reasons), who started liking me about seven months ago. He left his boyfriend because "things weren't the same anymore." He confessed his feelings to me, and I accepted out of pity, but despite that, I never treated him badly or looked down on him. Pablo loves me, or rather, loved me, unconditionally, and I just accepted it. One day, a friend confessed her feelings to me, and honestly, I felt awful. I started talking about it with my best friend over chat, and then one day Pablo took my phone and checked my chat with that friend I'd told. From then on, everything went to hell. We broke up, but he realized it, and I realized it too, that we couldn't spend any more time without each other. So, after a day, we got back together, but since then, he's become more "insecure." He criticizes me for everything and gets angry about everything, even if I talk to the most innocent male being But when we were dating, he used to talk to WAY too many of my female friends, and I didn't even know some of them, but I never said anything to him about it. Now he can get angry whenever he wants, etc., but if I get angry, he says I'm overreacting. I think I've grown somewhat fond of him, but I feel guilty because I like his best friend. If he leaves me, my world will fall apart. Help, what should I do?

Is it weird for me 19M to find some 16/17F physically attractive? and if so what do you think i should do about it

Why am I below average in everything?: Height, penis size, looks, IQ, social skills, personality, etc

Vendetta Nasal: >Went to a club >Met this beautiful girl >Said I love her big upward button nose >look a bit like pic related >She said people used to make fun of her nose >Calling her miss piggy (she ain’t fat) >Saying she had a pig nose >probably never going to see her again >Going to stalk her >Not to do stuff to her >Not to see her again >I’m going to dig in her past until I find who used to bully her >I plan to headbutt one of them (who ever I find first) right on the nose >Then make fun of the person for having a broken nose >never speak again or meet the original girl ever after >Just for the sake of vengeance What are your advices?

Everyone becoming more unhinged: Am I in a bubble? Or are you guys seeing the same thing? In my early 20s (10 years ago) I'd get the stink eye if I brought up anything negative or thoughtful, no one believed anything I said nor cared. Now it seems like people immediately believe and agree with me on those same topics, not only that, but they have no clue what's going on for counterpoints. This goes for random topics as well as politics, like on the topic of tech surveillance/privacy, 15 years ago I was taking inconvenient measures to "be private" online (even called my senator about SOPA/PIPA back then) and everyone looked at me funny, now it's "you're completely right" and either "help me" (still shocks me) or "there's no point fighting it" (not surprising). On current events, people will know everything about one side/view of a given issue and all its talking points, but seem confused if I explain any context, and ultimately cool down from their partisanship given context they were missing or simply agree with me (when they used to be much more resistant for similar conversations). I guess my issue is twofold, that >I feel compelled to provide context in basically every conversation (which I've grown sick of, it's like talking to children), and that >People now dive into rabbitholes rather than float above it all like before (which I'm getting nervous about, people more prone to simply believe/agree with what they hear). If it's the people I associate with (friends/family/coworkers) then I guess I should expand my social circle and force myself to let people be dumb/silo'd, but if it's everyone (maybe due to chaotic changes to societal norms, economic burning of average people, etc) then what the hell should I do? I've already started going outside less and weighing in less on groupchats, I have to basically interview others in order to learn anything, lest they just instantly believe me. Or maybe I'm just overreacting.

need male opinions: why do most men neg me when they flirt with me? what kind of vibe do i have to give off for them to think i would like that? i dont like them wanting me to prove im not like other girls or just giving me backhanded compliments, its really mean. i dont like mean guys but thats all i seem to attract, what do?

can't get diagnosed as autistic: I've tried many times to explain to my therapist that I'm a high functioning autistic adult but every time she dismisses it, without asking me anything that could help me get dagnosed. I'm at a loss.

My 11yo brother watches livestreams from transparently homosexual (nothing against it) facehammering retards all day long. Literal facehammering retards. And the climax is when they pose for each other and brag about not fucking women who wanna have sex with them. I don't live with him anymore but I don't agree that my parents let him waste his time like that. Can I do anything about this legally? If he tries to break his jaw so it can regrow squarier I'm beating the shit out of my parents.

Turned 31 a few months ago. Been trying to pull myself outta the neet hole for the last 2 years with college just in time for everything to go to shit. All the old anxieties that kept me numb are cropping back up again and now i cant stop thinking whats the point if my parents and I are gonna die anyway. Does anything even happen after that? I wanna see more and do more but I feel like i got 100 lbs on my head most of the day. any tips to not fall back into old habits

im 21 a total loser currently with ocd and out of control anxiety, is it wrong to think zoloft could help me? i pussied out the first time i tried taking it and quit after the first day worried about the side effects. i would probably be one of those that killed myself after taking ssris, but i dont think my life is going anywhere

Daydreaming: How do I stop daydreaming? For years I've been /thinking/ of doing various things instead of actually starting them It's got to the point where I'm personally surprised when I start, /not even finish/, something (reading a book, buying and setting up some tech, etc) I know that zoomers constantly bring up muh adhd, but how does one actually treat it themselves?

My life sucks.: 25 year old dude here, 5’11” 168 pounds, Life just hasn’t turned out the way I expected it to. Career wise, things have been killer. I cleared six figures this year, aiming for 150k by the time I’m 27. Even better, I’m going to continue to be upwardly mobile at this company. Most of the people I knew in high school are working retail or starter jobs. I have zero college debt, paid off my car and am looking to buy some real estate soon. I have a large group of friends from all over, both men and women. I’m always texting back and forth with people, going out and getting drinks, going to basketball games, etc. I have basically never been in a romantic long term relationship. I have had one hookup ever and have been completely single since 2023. I’ve asked out two women since then and got shot down twice. I’m on the apps, but find the women I match with to be so repulsive I can’t even bring myself to message them. I’m aware I can be a pretty unusual guy (people have suggested I may have mild Asperger’s, never diagnosed) but I’m not a slob, I think of myself as a fairly sociable person, I don’t hold any extremist views or anything and I consider myself to be considerate of women’s feelings. I don’t play video games, I don’t do drugs, my main hobbies and playing the guitar and reading war history books, and of course watching sports. I find it extremely anxiety inducing when I see my friends who are women going out with guys who are shorter, uglier, weirder, and meaner than me, and who don’t have their shit figured out yet. Even worse, everyone I know is getting married and having kids!

How to not make myself knows as a quiet guy: I'm going to a new school in a couple of months because I've finished this one and I was knows as the guy who doesn't really talk, basically the "quiet guy". I kinda did that myself and I really want to change that at my new school to like get more interaction because I'm lacking social skill and I want to be in more friendships and even maybe a girlfried. Any advice or tips on how I should represent myself on the first day/week?

Trimethylaminuria: I'm 24 and born with Trimethylaminuria, a rare metabolic condition that makes me emit a pungent odor no matter how much I shower or scrub my skin. I really feel cursed... Working in enclosed spaces is pure torture. I spend every second analyzing people's faces for signs of disgust, every sniffle or window opening feels like a personal attack. Trying to build a social life or make friends is a nightmare. I can't focus on conversations because I'm too busy wondering if I'm polluting the air for everyone else. I avoid theaters, bars and public transport just to stop being an inconvenience.. How would you guys deal with this if you were in my shoes? I don't see any hope for me...

How bad did I just fucked up?: I ended up sleeping with my meps liaison I just found out she's engaged and her family is military

Getting a woman to like you is so fucking easy, guys. All you have to do is talk to them and figure out their interests and their "vibes". Make an effort to get to know them. Ask insightful questions. Compliment them, but don't be a creep. Respect their boundaries. Give without expecting things in return. You gotta acknowledge their interests, but not fake it. Just be a good friend, but don't get friend-zoned. What else should you do/not do?

Real life is like a porno for some guys who's dicks grow to be 7 inches when they're 13 or 14. All the girls takk about them, they get female attention from this young age and are forever able to seduce women. Meanwhile, my life is barren of pussy juice because of my small cock. How do I rectify these feelings of unfairness and the reality that I am facing at 25?

There is no sexual tension and no sexual urge: I've had five one night stands in the past, four of them fueled by alcohol, coke and meth, and always very casually and never initiated by me. Well, now I have my first GF, at a ripe age of 31. She's my neighbor and a freshman in my college, and just started to cling on me and confessing her love to me last fall. And 11 years younger. We make out all the time and she often sleeps with me. But we haven't had sex. We haven't even talked about it. We haven't even touched each other intimately. Just hugged and kissed. I'm fine with that. She's beautiful and sexy, but I just don't have any sexual urge to fuck her. Her being young, socially anxious and insecure doesn't help it. She doesn't give the impression of being a sexual person at all. I remember feeling horny like an animal back in the day on meth, but only on meth. I feel like I'm just waiting for her direct request to treat me like an amusement park, like my former casual partners. Without any need for it on my part. I also feel like I'm subconsciously avoiding the whole thing altogether. What gives? Are we both asexual or what? Have I ruined my libido with meth? Is it the age difference that makes me insecure?

I framed a man and can't get over the guilt.: (1/2) Almost a decade ago, I discovered that my wife was having an affair with a man. I am not going to go into the details of how I found out, how I confronted my wife, etc. but long story short she kept continuing to see him. My world was falling apart, I was on the cusp of losing my family. In my mind, this man was the reason why. I had found messages from him where he was trying to convince my wife to divorce me and move into his home with my children. I was naively convinced that he was the problem, and if I was able to get rid of him my problems would be solved. This man had a past criminal history. Nothing major but I knew that if I made a tip to the local police department they would investigate considering it was a small town. I devised a plan. I went on the dark-web and bought over $2,000 of fentanyl. It was a shockingly large amount. I placed the package inside a large ziplock bag with a pack of 1000 small baggies and a scale. I broke into this man's work van and put it inside of a box. I wasn't there to witness it but they wound up getting a K9 unit to come out and they found the drugs. He was arrested, obviously. I assumed that he would get a few years in prison at the most.

What’s it like to live a life without kids?: I’ve met my soulmate probably twice now. One was a streamer. She had a chaotic sense of humor and would love at fart jokes and racial slurs. She also had a high degree of empathy which is what made people like her. Great at drawing, not religious, not afraid to voice her opinions, beautiful. The next girl was the same. Same sense of humor. Beautiful. Into fashion and cosplay instead of arts. These were probably the only two women I met where I thought “yeah I would marry this person” My issue is that both of these women didn’t want kids. I’ve always felt like becoming a dad was something that was naturally going to happen me. I never even considered the possibility of just not having kids. There’s a lot of things I want to do in life and having to work on top of that means I would probably be an absent dad anyway

Overwhelmed By Guilt: About a month ago my girlfriend and I decided to take an indefinite break in our relationship because of some issues we were having regarding our future plans and struggled regarding our recent transition to long distance. We decided to remain exclusive during that time said we’d reconnect in after about four weeks to make sure the other is doing okay. Skip ahead to last night and I’m at a bar, drunk off my ass the night before Valentine’s Day (the day we’re supposed to reconnect) and I end up making out with some random girl for no other reason than I was feeling sorry for myself and wanted to make a bad decision. I woke up this morning to a text from my girl telling me about all the ways she’s missed me this month and I feel like I’m going to throw up. If I told her what happened it might kill her. I feel like a horrible person. The entire situation is hitting me like a two ton bag of bricks and I don’t know what to do.

Alcoholics of /adv/. Three years on the wagon, drinking again. Still somehow have the alcohol tolerance of my youth. But bizarre change. When I drink I can now no longer fall asleep. Just stay awake all night, all through the next day. Almost to the point I'm tipping out. Drinking always made me sleepy, it's a sedative. But now it's like I. Snorted a no-doze.

Dry texters / callers in dating?: I am a guy and even when online I see a lot of women complaining that men are dry texters / phone callers. But I honestly don't believe that is the case. I am honestly starting to believe its the opposite. Women seem completely ass at texting AND telephone calls. I am trying to learn how to navigate the dating realm after finally working on myself enough that I think I can date. The last couple women I have dated have all been dry texters and callers. Me: Hey I saw in your profile that you are a nurse? I hear that can be a really tough job. What do you think about it? Woman: Its cool. Me: Oh nice, that means you must enjoy it. What do you like to do for fun when you are nursing the long hours? Woman: I like to hang out. and this kind of communication is what I regularly get. My friend was telling me that most women quite literally don't have to develop the skill set to communicate like that these days because the dating apps sort of handle all of that and funnels dudes their way regardless of it their personality is dog shit. So I guess what I need help with is recognizing when the issue is me and when it isn't. Are some people just truly dogshit at communication in this capacity? What could I do to even save these conversations? The next thing I thought was "Oh, well she probably just doesn't like me that much." But then why did these women like my profile back and in some cases give their phone number? What the fuck is going on?

How do I cope with that nothing is appealing to me anymore? Part of it comes from the world making lower quality products but its also the way my identity has evolved over the years to avoid feeling pigeonholed or left behind Stuff that I used to like has accumulated so much perspective, its loud and distracting. Stuff that I thought was fascinating and beautiful now seems childish and trite. Stuff that I thought was badass and invigorating seems tryhard Am I just outgrowing media? I'm not any good at real life. I have emotional issues. Paranoia, stress, overwork without lasting benefit

should I slide?: >best friend since 4th grade >smoking za in he momma porch >some dirty nigga pops him with a semi I know he's a drug mule for bigshot trapper but why him? Out of everyone in my block that oldhead pop my youngin, we was out here together and I can't help but feel a certain kind of way. I want to graduate high school but this street shit catching up to a youngblood

My confidence is destroyed and I don't know what to do: At this point my confidence is just destroyed. My self-esteem gets lower year after year. I don't know what to do. All I have done is go back to the gym thinking this will help me. I think temporarily it does which I like. If I just keep on going will my confidence get better? I have no one besides 4chan and AI to express my thoughts to. I didn't mind my confidence getting lower for a bit but now I am reverting back to old habits. My voice is quieter and I can't project, my eye contact is nonexistent again, constant fidgeting around my place making my roommates uncomfortable.. I just think and think and think about what to do and can't figure out anything. The only thing I can figure out is suicide which is just a cop out because I'm not that sad where I want to die yet. Can someone please give me a list of steps of how to make me confident again

How do you deal with those types of people that have loud obnoxious animalistic "I don't give a fuck" attitudes that don't respect people's boundaries while having this impolite inappropriate "gangster" mentality? You know the types of people I'm talking about? How do you even work with these types of people?