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Greta Schmidt Perleberg's avatar

James was actually 73, born Dec, 14, 1952. His Wikipedia entry is incorrect. I am his first cousin. He was between me (b. 3/19/1952) and my sister, Martha (b. 3/31/1953). in age. I knew him as "Jamie," my childhood playmate in Coffeyville, KS. He was the sweetest boy and man. We kept in touch all our lives and I was heartbroken to hear that he was gone.

-- Greta Schmidt Perleberg

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Wow. This hits home for me. James Grauerholtz and I lived on the same dorm wing our freshman year at the University of Kansas. We were not close, but were friends in that way people often are who laughed at the same things. It was JRP, (Joseph R Pierson) the "jock" dorm. I was there because I was part of the cross country and track team. Not sure why Jamie was, he was younger, 16 I think, brilliant small town boy Kansas boy who got through high school early. We were all dope smokers and often shared communal joints. I knew he wanted to be a writer, and talked about books we liked, but not much else. I was too focused on track, at least until the spring when we had the demonstrations over the Cambodian Invasion and Kent State. Myself and another guy went out at night once during the curfew, to throw rocks at the ROTC building and run from cops. Jamie was going to come, but decided against it at the last minute. After that we would see each other on campus occasionally and chit-chated . The last time I saw him in Kansas I was working in a grocery store in Lawrence and he came in to get some snacks. Said he was headed for New York, right then, heading out from the store back east. We said we would keep in touch, and he gave me an address on a piece of paper, which I still have. I never wrote him though. The address was an apartment in Brooklyn in care of Allen Ginsburg. I was impressed, and surprised because I knew Ginsburg was gay. But I didn't know Jamie was. I did meet him one more time later at Ken Kesey's poetry "Hoohaw" in the mid 70s. (See below). I saw Jamie and yelled "hey Jamie!" (He was never "James" to me or the others on the wing. ). William Burroughs, who was standing just behind him, then gave me a dirty, angry look that still in implanted in my memory. Bill Murray was there too, before he was famous. He interviewed William S. Burroughs on Ken Kesey’s farm later. https://share.google/oAcl216MiH9RXxsoI

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