sum ab realizing u were groomed for the first time. (if you are being groomed escape now, the first red flag is you being a minor with someone the age of or over the age of 18 *no not 17 and 18*. here are the stages of grooming: • finding the victim (usually someone going through a rough time either where they are with low self esteem, craving love/attention, isolating themselves, needing emotional support, and much more.) • gaining the victims trust (a usual thing groomers do to gain the victims trust is love bombing, communicating special interests, and sharing false information about themself *the victim will most likely not know the information they've been told is false*) • filling a void (this is where the groomer then acts as a "bandage" for the victim in whatever they're going through, only slightly starting the cycle of abuse* • gaining control (the groomer now has gained all the victims trust from what they have done and starts taking advantage where the groomer is now exploiting, gaslighting, and manipulating the victim and showing more and more signs of abuse) •isolation (this is where the groomer is slowly taking away everyone from the victims life trying to prove that "they're the only one the victim needs") • turning the relationship sexual (the groomer will then use the victim for their body "showing" the victim they're only good for sexual reasons.) • mental suffocation (the groomer has now completed all the stages and the victim will now feel stuck in the situation forever) PLEASE!!! DO NOT K¥$ if you are being groomed, if you do you've just d13d for ur groomer and gave them what they wanted, a clear reaction and for you to be mentally suffocated. INSTEAD!!! LEAVE YOUR ABUSER/GROOMER!!! trust me it will be hard, but one you notice and start seeing through the bu11$h!t it'll get easier. here are some tips on how to. • MAKE A PLAN!!! (make a plan to escape whether it is in 1 day, 1 week, 1 month, or 1 year. make a plan as quick as u can.) • FIND SOMEONE!!! (find a trusted friend or family member and let them know what you went through, most likely they will help you escape.) • LEAVE!!! (once you are SURE *be very sure and cautious about the decision you've made with ur plan and be extra careful u never know if it'll backfire* leave IMMEDIATELY whether it is too another city, state, or country just know YOU WANT TO BE FAR FAR AWAY from your abuser.) • CUT ALL CONTACT!!! (cut all contact with your abuser/groomer after escaping, make sure they can never find you again.) hopefully this helped, stay safe love u guys!! :) #fyp #fypage #fypシ゚viral #fyppppppppppppppppppppppp #fypp #viral #viralvideo #viraltiktok #virall #viral_video #relatable #relatablecontent #relatablequotes #relatablevideos #relatabletiktoks #real #lowkey #highkey #love #abuse #abuseawareness #abuserecovery #abuser #abusive #abusiverelationship #abusiverelationshipawareness #abusiverelationships #abusiveawareness #abusiverelationshipsurvivor♥️ #abusiverelationshipsurvivors #groom #groomer #groomersoftiktok #groomerslife #groomers #groomingtips #groomreaction #groomed #victim #victims #victimblaming #victime #manipulate #manipulater #manipulative #manipulativepeople #manipulativeboyfriend #manipulatives #manipulativerelationship #manipulateenergy #manipulativewomen #manipulativebehavior #manipulativemen #victimized #victimize #victimizer #gaslight #gaslighting #gaslightingsigns #gaslighter #gaslightingawareness #awareness #awarenessvideo #awarenessmatters #escape #life #relationship #yk #youknow #whenyk #whenykyk #whenyouknowyouknow #whenyouknow #lana #lanadelrey #lanadelray 🔥BTW THE GIRL IN THE VIDEO ISNT ME! 🔥 (her name is charleen I forgot her @ she is came up on my fyp) .