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 80643[Quote] [Voice Chat]>>80645>>80646>>80693

I need your help, 'teen. As a kid I got EPI'd and spent most of my life masturbating to some retarded fetishes. Now I am not attracted to regular sex and bodies. Is there a way to undo this or am I fucked for life? If I do a break from fapping for few months, would I be able to slowly introduce myself to normal sex and fix the issue?

 80644[Quote]

maybe, also you should try remembering the worst stuff you gooned to
that should help with abstaining from it

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>>80643 (OP)
no gooning- don't even be horny. you'll become normal eventually

also i hope you have some SHAME, nigger. don't goon to gay shit

 80646[Quote]>>80649

>>80643 (OP)
Quit porn for a month or two. After that point your brain will crave sexual pleasure so much that it will goon to anything. Then you either stop gooning until you have sex with someone you love, or go to some normie porn site and goon to normal porn.

 80648[Quote]

I hate myself for testing my OCD by looking up real legal stuff (wich is harmless but still extremely messed up and nasty) and not being able to sleep a whole night after watching some gross tranime I don't wanna share the details of

 80649[Quote]>>80650

>>80646
This is my plan pretty much. I just hope that sexual tension would come back and be high enough to fix it. Does it take at least 1+ month to appear?

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>>80649
From my experience it gets slightly easier by the first week but it's not enough to truly cure it.
Firstly try talking in your head about how what you're watching (vanilla porn) is sexy and hot and shit like that, and how you'd like to do that. Then when you get the urge to goon to weird fetishes, say something like "I do not like this. This is disgusting and immoral. I'd much rather have sex with a woman I love". You get the gist of it.

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>>80650
Remember, consistency is the only way to do it. If you fail, get back on track as soon as possible, as it's better to fail a day than two.

 80653[Quote]>>80657

>>80650
Does talking with myself help with willpower or will it actually help rewrite my brain to make fetishes less appealing?

 80657[Quote]>>80660

>>80653
It helps with rewiring your brain. Basically the gooner talk is there to cement your mind into thinking that normal sex is good, and the second one addresses the fact that you may still find fetishes attractive. It works especially well after a month of no gooning, since the brain is basically on square 1 and can be easily shaped into liking certain things.
If you want to solve the former (help with willpower), try this video. I'd say it's pretty solid.

 80660[Quote]>>80661

>>80657
Okay. Thanks for all the advice, man.

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>>80660
You're welcome. Just remember that once you're fully done gooning to normal porn you should quit it altogether. It won't do you well in the long run

 80662[Quote]>>80663>>80687

>>80650
not OP, but should i be worried about my relapse yesterday?
i've had a past of carelessly gooning to drawn/tranime 'p, not out of some actual fetish or paraphilia as it sickens me whenever i remember it
though i relapsed to some tranime sisa who's meant to be around 16 to 19, it's a dumb thing to worry about but i don't want to regress back to how i was
i apologize for this retarded question, though i have a less retarded one in store:
how long should it take for my brain to eventually fully rewire from my addiction? i'm in my early 20s if that matters whatsoever

 80663[Quote]>>80664>>80688

>>80662
It's gonna take as long to recover as you keep thinking about it. You have to forgive yourself for what you've done no matter how bad you think it was.
Whenever these thoughts come into your head, don't fight them or try to defend yourself by coming up with excuses. Just accept them and forgive yourself for who you used to be. Eventually you will stop thinking about it and forget.

 80664[Quote]>>80680

>>80663
thank you, i think that's what i needed to hear

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>>80664
Same even doe i had been struggling with 100% pure Jartynigger stuff

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>>80662
Hello, I'm the guy you responded to
From what I understand, you just carelessly goon to anime girls without checking their age. If it's hardcore 'p where the girls don't reach the double digits, then you need genuine medical/spiritual support, but if it's girls who look like adults then that's just your brain activating itself. By 16 girls have wider hips and fully formed breasts, so this isn't as troubling as you think it is, especially if you're only in your early 20's (at least in my European opinion). Your brain is just forming a certain image and you goon to it.
<goon reddit
I think all you need to do is quit porn altogether. Don't worry about your relapse and get back on track ASAP, the sooner the better. Your actual issue seems to be caused by your brain's pattern recognition and not a genuine moral perversion (though gooning to porn is a moral perversion).
HOWEVER, and I can't stress this enough, if you find something like picrel attractive, then you absolutely DO need help. Talking to anyone at that point is a necessity. I recommend a church or a therapist you can meet in person, as that desire may be rooted in trauma and deeper fetishism. There are even hotlines for people like that.
Hope you get yourself on the right track.

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Also >>80663 is great advice. Don't guilt yourself and just go back where you started, maybe with a new plan or two. Take your failure as an opportunity to learn and use it to reach your goal

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>>80643 (OP)
eat good food listen to aajonus vonderplantiz
you are less likely to goon (personal anecdote) when u eat healthier due to prolactin or something of that sort (goon -> prolactin, prolactin inhibits GnRH meaning u will look le ugly also uhhh body thinks its heccin dying so it tries to get you to reproduce quickly GO GO GO!)

 80712[Quote]

You'll be fine
Stop watching porn

 80714[Quote]

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