I mean I'm not saying you're wrong but you do word your positions in a 'highly' confrontational way. The hypothetical (or real) CSA victim is being belittled to make a point about how families are abusive on a fundamental level. No idea how others may be misconstruing it though.

i am only reacting to being belittled by others with presumptuous "as a REAL csa victim" comments

I won't argue that you don't attract, through little to no fault of your own, a lot of bad faith critiques. Fair enough. I was unaware of that context but probably should have expected it. You deserve better.

i want the people harassing you over this to consider whether A) the word "you" was used rhetorically, like how one would use "one", because you assumed that everyone knew you were a csa victim, and B) whether any of the other "receipts" involving you are similarly misleading

People didn't read what you said? Woah, must've been a pibby glitch.