it's so fucking weird like. "omg nooo how dare you hide the information brick with all your information from me? i should have access to your information brick whenever i want. if you keep your information brick to yourself even just sometimes i will assume you are unfaithful."

i think if someone is in a relationship where they trust their partner *that* little, they should probably... talk about that?

it really is just "if you've got nothing to hide then you shouldn't mind me looking" again

yea

Some of us don't trust those looking. Some of us see how even love can faulter to biases taught and learned, designed to declare various groups less than human... And yet. "If you have nothing to hide then you have nothing to fear." Genuine hell.