sorry, main tweet got too much attention so I deleted it and will put this here instead
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obviously to anyone in the community, I’d been very passive aggressive towards people and had been throwing melties over plenty of things, I would like to apologize for my behavior the last few months towards everyone
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things haven’t been too good for me for a while but that isn’t an excuse, I shouldn’t take that out on others, the only reason I blocked a whole bunch of people was so that I wouldn’t even be tempted to say anything to them
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if a mod or shondo ever sees this, I would really appreciate a second chance to do better

Nov 24, 2025 · 6:52 PM UTC

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A second chance isn't what you should be asking for. This alone erases any apology you just said above, because once again, you're only thinking about yourself. What you want. What you should be doing is stepping away and working on yourself to get yourself out of this obsession
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I feel like you’d inevitably go back to your obsession if they did give you a second chance unfortunately. Just take some time away and you’ll feel better for it 👍
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Delete the last part 💀
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Grown ass man saying “melties”
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You need to own up to your actions, as hard as that sounds. Please seek therapy, and take a break, go out there and bake your own cookies.
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No more seething over cookies? That’s a first
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you clearly had your second chance and blew it.
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An Apology isn’t really gonna fix this, especially when you’ve made someone so unbearably uncomfortable for quite a while. I think the best thing you can do is maybe just take a break from the streamer, and focus on other things.
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You are addicted bro get a job and maybe some new hobbies 💀
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Why do you feel entitled for a second chance that you already wasted
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1. Make sure to ignore the tourists. 2. I really think you need to work on getting yourself into a better headspace, then appeal the ban and/or message one of the mods about getting unbanned.
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You gotta move on for your own good man. It might feel bad but in the end they did you a favor, like a bartender cutting off an alcoholic. Take this as the opportunity it is to get away from something that's deeply unhealthy for you.
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You will get that cookie one day brotien
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As a parasocial andy myself, I understand your feelings, but you gotta really reflect on this. But tell me, how are you gonna be better? After being told off so many times? You're not gonna get over this, this much I know. You're gonna be in the shower debateing on how to fix it
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still giving Parasocial ....
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Everyone mentioned your scenario because this is a clear learning curve for anyone who crosses boundaries with content creators/streamers. They are not our friends or buddies. They do not want romanticization from the audience. Just learn to be better & not be Parasocial.
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Hey dude I think you might wanna take a break from being online/watching streamers. Look for a hobby.
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if they see this DONT. you def need to get a new hobby and learn to not be parasocial. streamers are not potential dating partners or your friends. they’re not there to date you when you dono. they’re there to make money
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The fact that you're still doing this in hopes of a 2nd chance shows that you didn't internalize what happened. You should want to be better for your own sake, and to stop making others uncomfortable. You shouldn't want to be better for the "reward" of being back in their chat.
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I’m gonna keep it a buck bro this should not be effecting you as much as it is. It’s literally a streamer. They do not owe you any kind of friendship or anything, it is your choice to sub. There are finer things in life than a streamer’s attention, not flaming just being blunt
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Dude vtubers hate their audience this isn’t healthy to be so dependent on them
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Just let it go, man.
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Asking for extra chances invalidates apologies Extra chances are given not asked for.
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No they shouldn’t. If you actually looked at the issue at hand, you’d see giving you a second chance would be a bad idea
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Omg the creepy YouTube link as well…
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You had a second and third chance 😆
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Yeaaaa I think the general consensus is… I think you need to take a break from being in social media so much. As someone who struggles with it to, I find that regular breaks from it can be a wonderful break, to do my own thing. I find myself in a much better place most times
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Lmaoo you not getting that second chance bud .. she just made cookies for her whole chat too .. tasty
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I would fr step away from the internet for at least 6mo…
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"Reposting all this so nobody has to see the multiple screenshot replies of me acting like a psycho stalker who is entitled to someone's attention" Here, fixed it for you, weirdo, get professional help.
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It sounds like you already had second chances? What you should do now is figure out personally why you continued with the behavior after being warned, and hope to do better in your next community. Asking for a 3rd/4th chance immediately instead of reflecting is the opposite
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Dude find a hobby. The VTuber doesnt know you. Parasocial behavior is so awful.
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Yeah if they see this they will send you this
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School shooter in the making
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