The reason this post was made was because Shayy has completely disappeared off the internet and people were already noticing. The mod team needed to give a response, but none of the info is ready to be released yet. I understand being upset. The details will be released soon.
willyjwillyj @willyjwillyj
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Before anyone asks, no I don't know the full details, and it's not my place to reveal them regardless. All I know is the gist and my own experiences. Felt like posting this to calm people down a bit. It's not any easier on the team behind this than it is on you. Give them time.
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I get it, but the problem is that its still vague posting. It would of been better to fully be ready with a statement and disclosure and now we have 4-5 different people theories and others making vague tweets. Especially those who thrive off drama will be opportunistic.
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I understand that you guys felt like you needed to give a response to everyone catching onto their silence,but this wasn’t the way to go at all. That message causes more stress, and I feel like many people would’ve preferred everything being released at once than whatever this is
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All this caused was needless speculation in a community that already has a shit track record of acting overly parasocial and invasive in private affairs
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They didn't need to make a response this early. I don't see what this post achieved other than causing panic.
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I think simply saying "people are asking questions, we don't have all the details, we will explain when we can" without words like "sensitive/can't disclose" would have satisfied those asking while minimizing wild speculation and sensationalization, imo.
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Hope the mods and everyone are doing alright with how unintentionally massive this has become. While not knowing what is going on is frustrating, that is no excuse to take it out on people who actively have to deal with the actual situation. Thank you Cibles for this post
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Appreciate you posting this. It’s unfortunate that they had to make a statement without giving the full details, because Shayy is such a huge name in the community, but I understand how upsetting/stressful it must be for you as one of their good friends. I hope that they’re safe.
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Hi!!! Thank you!!! Literally a damned if you do damned if you don’t situation, I get people being frustrated by this but questions and panic were going to arise no matter how this was handled.
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appreciate this post, cibles as someone who doesn't know much about the situation, but do know some people that are aware of it (mainly the utdr src mods), it's been kind of disheartening to see people just go after them (willyj specifically), even if this post was poorly-worded
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sorry yall got this response. the community was gonna use you or someone else as a punching bag no matter what happened. it is the right move to be stingy with private information until you have the story right, unfortunately many want the scoop immediately and will feel entitled
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Look, I get you can't release any info, but I have to ask, is whatever's happening bad?
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I really hope everything is okay with shayy since he is the weird way of spelling my last name
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Shayy choosing to go offline doesn't warrant an explanation from anyone other than Shayy. I really don't think you need to make a statement about that. So what if people noticed? You can't stop people from speculating, and the statement released only fueled more speculation.
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Gosh, I just hope that they are ok and nothing happened
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I genuinely hope everything is okay with Shayy
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i wish they worded it like that the first time
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Honestly just hope they’re ok
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Honestly, it might of been much better if you just didn’t say anything and waited for the go ahead to reveal everything at once.
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Thanks for posting this it has honestly made me calm down a lot from it
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WAIT SOMETHING HAPPENED WITH SHAYY?
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FINALLY, A SINGLE CONCRETE DETAIL
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I hope everything's fine!!!
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I hope they're OK <3
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I hope they’re ok. I saw them trending and looked for a bit and I got concerned
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They couldve just not made this post lmfao now the community is on fore, for very obvious reasons
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I wanna know if he's ok
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I assume personal problems and whatnot
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