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Avoiding Filler Words Made Me a More Confident Public Speaker

How speaking with intention means making every word count

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Two persons in formal attire sitting and standing at a conference table with microphones and a bouquet of yellow flowers. One is sitting and the other is standing and speaking to the audience.
The author at the swearing-In ceremony of our township’s assembly | Photo from my personal portfolio

I’ve spent most of my adult life using my voice, pursuing words, writing them, and even helping to preserve them along the way. And for the last four years, I’ve often taken the stand to speak out in defense of the common good at my town’s council meetings.

I grew up wanting to be a doctor, but eventually, I realized words can cut deeper than any scalpel. Somewhere along the way, I left science for the humanities and earned a degree in Linguistics and Language Teaching. But a teacher’s career was never enough for me. Teaching in a school meant following a curriculum like a prescription. And passive acceptance never worked for someone who has a mind of their own and doesn’t favor the “one hat fits all” model of our national education system.

The life of a teacher is often misunderstood, as you can learn every rule in grammar and still fail to send the message through. So these days, I split my time between coaching clients, mentoring young talent, and speaking at my town’s local assembly. It’s a strange mix. Language teacher, life coach, and deputado. And in every one of these spaces, I’ve learned one thing:

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Rui Alves

Written by Rui Alves

Rui Alves is a teacher, coach, publisher, author, linguist, and international book awards judge. MA in Languages & Cultures | Post-grad in Romanesque Studies.

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I enjoyed the thoughtful differences you explained between how it feels to speak teaching a class and being a town representative in your community.

We need articulate people to fill both roles in a healthy democratic community. Thanks for telling…

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You don’t speak to people. You speak with them. And by doing this, you improve your chances of getting the message through.

it shifts communication from performance to connection. As someone who’s taught and spoken in different settings, I felt this truth deeply: real communication begins when we stop delivering and start engaging.

It looks like you're on the right track, Rui.
I like the way you deal with that question. I think that the knowledge of the subject and the conviction of its truth or value are the most important attributes for an engaging speech, without hesitations or abuse of fillers.