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this isn't my first and probably won't be my last. my one before, he was living with me through senior year of high school. raped me. then cheated on me. then tried physically abusing me in front of other classmates. it was talked about thought every person at my school. in ways, i feel this one is worst. i need help. and i agree. they ask bc they don't know. and again i'm sorry for coming on strong



then what is your point, i'm confused. i'm with a narcissist/gaslighter/abuser who will not admit it because that's who he is. raised in an abused home... why would you want to believe him over me? he wouldn't ever speak his opinion on this reddit because he thinks he's always in the right. if you believe the victim always why start your sentence with "instead of everybody asking OP why she doesn't just leave, why don't we ask why he thinks it's okay to do this?"" because he's terrible. that's why.


i understand your thinking but i also don't. he is a gaslighter, manipulator, and liar. he doesn't think he's in the wrong at all. that's why you believe the victim. the person they are taking about is dreadful.




i'm so scared of letting my parents aware, i don't want them to be disappointed i chose a bad guy. i was already raped in high school. i feel terrible for letting them down knowing i chose another pos. i will try but feel like i need to wait til there is a for sure plan they can get me. it's just stressful. there's much more that has happened than i stated in this post. i'm mainly worried about NOT being able to take my dog and IF i take my dog, the possible charges i face.










i did this once years ago, but i think i only took half a bar with my friend. drank a crazy amount of liquor on top of it. it just made me extremely sleepy, but it is a dangerous combination that i would never do again. i agree with the other commenters saying it is a terrible thing to do but if you're gonna do it no matter what, 2 beers shouldn't hurt. stay safe though








jeez these commentators are out of their mind... OP, you are not selfish what so ever by making a post about how you feel. i too have an alcoholic dad, but he's late 40's. it's an extremely hard thing to go through. you are his child so of course it is going to affect you. but, it truly is something that he will just have to decide/work through himself. alcoholics usually are aware of the dangers they are putting themselves through, but i don't think they realize how it effects their family and friends. you can always voice how you feel to him, but in the end it's all up to him. and i also understand your post is mainly just to have an outlet to get this off your chest, so i hope some of the comments are helping you

















oh you're right, there's literally a video of her there in that outfit. this whole tragedy is horrific... knowing it was her is so disturbing after seeing the video. one that hits me most is Axel... he's in 2 viral images/videos and then his deceased face was posted 😭 like ugh. rip to all involved, i went in 2019 and never wanted to go back bc the crowd felt to compressed












i read somewhere that the parents did tell LE the trails he frequented, including the trail where his remains were found, but the area was underwater so it was hard for LE to really search that area. and the parents found some of his personal belongings like the "dry bag" but the police found the backpack along with the remains on the other side of the trail


the remains were found in a place previously underwater, which can rapidly speed up the process of decomposition. my guess is he unalived himself not too long after he went to the reserve































only advice i can give is definitely take it slow and stop before you get in too deep. make sure to drink some water during and have medicine like ibuprofen & something with electrolytes to drink in the morning in case you have a hang over. you won't know your limit yet so play it as safe as you can. oh.. and don't text an ex 😂 i usually try to not get on my phone while drinking lol. just be careful!










it could be alcohol intolerance or an actual allergy. the allergy comes with symptoms like flushing and bumps. i know my cousin who is about 28 used to be a heavy drinker and recently had to stop due to her becoming allergic/intolerant towards it as she got older
































why are people leaving raids when there is at least 5 people? why are people leaving raids when there is at least 5 people?
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i'm not sure if i'm just unlucky or what but the last two raids i joined, one where i was the host, there was 5 people and at the last second people just leave. i just lost two remote raid passes because of this, and i can't help but to think that some people may be deliberately leaving, knowing how upset people are with the game right now and saying they aren't going to be buying anymore passes. idk, i'm just tilted. i haven't had this problem in a long time. you can 100% do a palkia raid with 5 people.