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I think I understand their mindset though, which is that their site is technically SFW in their minds, the issue is that most of the people who use it are frequent pornography and NSFW addicts outside of it, openly on Twitter, etc. The "SFW only" nature of their site is a facade as most of the content is sexual objectification of women disguised as "But I don't think of sex when I look at the big titties black kitty in a skimpy bikini" etc. The answer to what I've been looking for lies in the video I just watched, the issue is with them mostly being heavily addicted to pornography, not understanding what they're doing wrong due to a negative feedback loop of toxic reinforcement from their degenerative male peers. So when you criticize them, it doesn't go well for them because it shatters their reality, so they have to block and ban, say you're "attacking" them, etc.
The best part is that I don't have to worry because every single one of them is going to live a worse off life if they don't improve, and at that point all I need to do is improve my own life and my own issues with procrastination and gaming, increase my own mental fortitude to keep myself creative, etc. Running the site, providing this space is not so much of a day to day task as it mostly is just a passive background task.
But I doubt the topic of self-improvement is going to ever be on their minds at all, because they probably heard that one line from fight club that self improvement is masturbation, and they took it seriously. November is coming up, and not a single one of them is going to have the mental fortitude required to avoid masturbating or pornography. Their entire site culture revolves around the sexual and lewd objectification and fetishization of women and feminized men, "jokes" where the humor is intercourse, etc. We do not necessarily need to worry, because these people will have the same issues as the chinese pastor, and hopefully those issues will force them to one day admit that I was right. But it's not about me being right or wrong, at the end of the day, people choose their own paths and whatnot, and I do care about my own socialization, but the biggest question on my mind is why people like this exist, and I think a big reason to that is a part of the society we live in, to some extent the way they behave is at no fault of their own, but they are at fault for not realizing it and not acting on it. They've isolated their issue, but instead of fixing it, they've created a bubble.
If their website actually somehow focused on the idea of dating and exercise, building up mental resilience, opening up minds to religion and powerful ways to live and dicipline yourself, building connections and bridges with real life women and being good emotional support to eachother, then I would have a vastly different view of them, instead they've created a bubble "because society fucking sucks!"
We've also created a bubble but a part of that bubble comes the want or need to genuinely make an impact in society, in the "anthro" spaces online, to provide somewhere that is actually true to it's goal because it's being run by people who withstood the first test, which was them. And that's how I see it now, if people need trust in us, they have a direct frame of reference to compare us to, albeit there already were in the first place.
Making and keeping friends is very hard, I understand that he coddles all of them out of fear probably because he doesn't really have anyone else in real life, and because I probably would have scared off most of them, but he lacks proper dicipline, he can't say no, a lot of his friends are simply fake, I have no idea if he's ever known what it's like to make sacrifices or ever will know, but what I do know is that a long time ago when users were asking for a porn board, he wasn't making sacrifices but trying to make a compromise, and we had to bark the shit out of him to get him to cut it out.
