An Invitation To Sip Some White Folk Tea..

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DF and RM were in full BDSM (master/slave) mode while rehearsing and shooting that film. What I never could find out is if it was purely emotional or if it got sexµal. His producing partner is also his life partner so I don't know how she could tolerate it either way as the BDSM lifestyle is incredibly emotional and bonding (no pun intended.) Even if it never got sexµal I would've felt extremely threatened standing in CC's shoes.

Thanks. Really interesting.

I am clueless on the intricacies of BDSM lifestyle. Can you explain what would be the point of having such a relationship based on that lifestyle, if it isn't sexµal?


Also Is this BDSM inspired Slave/master roleplay a usual thing between actors and directors, or was just a one off observation you noted in this couple?
 

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DC and RW cheat on each other. It's none of my business but I never got the impression that the cheating was agreed upon and accepted like a true open marriage but it goes on anyway. There doesn't seem to be a lot of respect in this particular marriage but something pulled and keeps these two together thus far. I try not to overanalyze other people's relationships, you never know unless you're in it.


Are women actually throwing themselves at DC? I'm surprised at this being that I consider him quite possibly the ugliest man in Hollywood.
 

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Thanks. Really interesting.

I am clueless on the intricacies of BDSM lifestyle. Can you explain what would be the point of having such a relationship based on that lifestyle, if it isn't sexµal?


Also Is this BDSM inspired Slave/master roleplay a usual thing between actors and directors, or was just a one off observation you noted in this couple?

BDSM isn't always about sëx but this particular relationship was (allegedly). As for if it is common with directors and actors, hmmmm, that's really just going to depend on the individuals. Some folks are into that and others aren't like anybody else.
 

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Why didn't DF cast RM in Go.ne Gi.rl then? That's a juicy role and she's so ambitious. Rosathingy is a dull actress. You'd think he'd go with RM.

Also, what about RM's sister? She's even more ambitious and her career seems to have stalled. She dumped the bf and there were some BIs about how she was cheating with a married A lister. Any idea who?
 

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Why didn't DF cast RM in Go.ne Gi.rl then? That's a juicy role and she's so ambitious. Rosathingy is a dull actress. You'd think he'd go with RM.

Also, what about RM's sister? She's even more ambitious and her career seems to have stalled. She dumped the bf and there were some BIs about how she was cheating with a married A lister. Any idea who?

From my understanding, DF dumped her midway through promotion which is when she started sleeping with DC who was also sleeping with RW AND had a GF. RM thought he was going to dump the GF and date her publicly because she didn't even know about RW who ended up marrying DC. All gossip of course.
 

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Thank god Mex Mangella and Cate Mera have split. He could do so much better than her. She's kinda funny looking, her sister is way prettier.
 

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Thank god Mex Mangella and Cate Mera have split. He could do so much better than her. She's kinda funny looking, her sister is way prettier.

Why did they break up? She already has a new man.
 

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Finch not slipping her the hot one anymore has nothing to do with the making of the movie. :dunno: I'm sure if a second one is made, they'll be hunchin' again. He really got inside her mind.
 

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Off topic but I agree with the font who said that racism is more complex that what we think. When I was in high school my best friend was a white girl and her mother used to invite me to have lunch at her house every week. She was taking African dance classes at the time and loooved to tell me all about it :)disdain:), she even wore an African print headscarf lol. Two years later, her youngest daughter fell in love with a black kid whom she had met at her christian summer camp. The mother told her that black guys only wanted sëx and that she was scared for her daughter's integrity. Mind you, the black kid was adopted and had been raised by white people.

Not tea but I've met Vinssent Cazzel before and he's all about eye-effing.
 

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Dayum thank you for the tag [MENTION=116558]Damali Richards[/MENTION] these white people and the industry got me like :disdain:
 

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I don't respect Ray rice enough to be offended at what some white man says about Him. He deserves all the names in the book from everyone. Name calling is tame compared to what he did to Janay. :eyeroll:
 

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What's the tea on white/vanilla/basic Jess.ica Chas.tain? I've heard that she's gay. I've heard that she f_cks directors, specifically Nolan. She seems so incredibly thirsty for fame.
 

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Thanks. Really interesting.

I am clueless on the intricacies of BDSM lifestyle. Can you explain what would be the point of having such a relationship based on that lifestyle, if it isn't sexµal?


Also Is this BDSM inspired Slave/master roleplay a usual thing between actors and directors, or was just a one off observation you noted in this couple?

Emotional gratification is one thing that a M/s relationship can give.
 

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What's the tea on white/vanilla/basic Jess.ica Chas.tain? I've heard that she's gay. I've heard that she f_cks directors, specifically Nolan. She seems so incredibly thirsty for fame.

I don't think Nol.an f_cks any actresses. His wife Emma is the producer of his films and the wife and kids are always on the set. She'd kick somebody's ass if she suspected they were after her husband. She's a tough lady.

Jes.ica doesn't set off my gaydar. I think she's just totally driven by her career and uninterested in her private life, she does film after film - she's got 4 coming out this year. She gave an interview and talked about growing up in a dirt poor family and being bullied her whole life because of her hair. I think she's pretty injured by life and trying to prove something to herself and other people.
 

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What's the tea on white/vanilla/basic Jess.ica Chas.tain? I've heard that she's gay. I've heard that she f_cks directors, specifically Nolan. She seems so incredibly thirsty for fame.

Celeb gossip I've read about her: Opie's illegitimate kid, screwed the director of zero dark thirty for the part, career focused
 

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That's the polar opposite of what most people think of him. A lot of people have him being only slightly less of an agro ass than J/ames C/ameron but he's actually quite soft spoken and patient so it's just interesting how there are so many different demeanors attributed to him based on the form of exposure. He's not gay though. He's had several long term relationships with women and has a daughter with his producer and partner C/éan C/haffin, plus the RM affair. It would've come up in my circles by now if he was bi or gay.
Interesting tea, thx. He and his partner must have an open relationship or idk are more like bro/sis now?
 

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Are women actually throwing themselves at DC? I'm surprised at this being that I consider him quite possibly the ugliest man in Hollywood.

LOL He does nothing for me either but, yeah, Bond, James Bond, is capable of pulling in the punani without too much effort.
 

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Thanks. Really interesting.

I am clueless on the intricacies of BDSM lifestyle. Can you explain what would be the point of having such a relationship based on that lifestyle, if it isn't sexµal?


Also Is this BDSM inspired Slave/master roleplay a usual thing between actors and directors, or was just a one off observation you noted in this couple?

@
LydiaBennett14 Two birds, one stone... ;P

You would get the same emotional and psychological connection/effects from a fully sexµal BDSM relationship but without engaging in sëx at the end for release or it could be sexµal but not with penile penetration. Sort of what male subs get from their paid female dommes. A true professional domme never has sëx but she'll use toys. The only reason why I allow for the possibility that it may have not been sexµal is because he does have a live in gf who is the mother of his child and also his producing partner but I honestly don't know what their arrangement is.

It's not typical at all. However, directors/producers/executives/agents/managers have all used other psychological and damaging means to control their target which is usually along the lines of pitting an actress against other actresses, telling them they need to lose weight, fix their nose, get bigger boobs, etc. It usually involves creating competition against women (tired old divide and conquer tactic) and making comments about their body to make them feel insecure. Someone who is starving herself is not operating at 100% capacity. Alternately, if they're turning to drugs to control their weight then their addiction can be used against them to maintain control through the supply of said drugs or blackmail. Of course, a teeny tiny girl doesn't have much of a way to defend herself either which is why I always side eye men who are into super petite women exclusively.

Anyway, you're either into the BDSM lifestyle or you're not, it's a choice that you make with someone that you trust (unless it's a business transaction.) I'm in the lifestyle although I'm more of a bossy bottom but I can usually tell a dom/sub relationship from a controlling relationship. The former is all about trust and respect whereas the latter is verbal and physical abuse. A dom cherishes his sub always and allows her to explore her sexµal fantasies in a safe manner. It's a very complex relationship that that 50 Shades of Crap book didn't accurately portray at all because it not only makes the BDSM community look dangerous but it encourages newbs to enter abusive relationships because they don't know any better.
 

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What?!? R0n H0.ward?!?!

She screwed K@thryn B!gel0w?

I think she's joking! But it reminds me of the episode of Arrested Development where R.on Ho.ward talks about naming all his kids after where they were conceived and his "illegitimate daughter" is "Alley Howard". Jes.sica does look a lot like R.on's daughter Bry.ce tho, probably to the detriment of Bry.ce's career.
 

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I think that as a society we've progressed far enough that we need to start actively distinguishing real bigotry from prejudice. Bigotry is a psychological disease and there's nothing that you can do to change that person's beliefs because the only thing they believe to be true and right is what they've already determined which is, of course, so egomaniacal and sick. They are a lost cause not worth the effort and you just hope they die out and don't breed forward their hatred. However, someone who is prejudiced is usually that way because of ignorance or isolation which leads to prejudgments based on what they've heard but not what they know. They can very much be educated and informed through exposure to change their outlook and become accepting although some will always be more reluctant than others. There's hope in prejudice where there's none in bigotry. That's our society and while we're not moving as fast as we should we're still progressing and we need to recognize that progress rather than make the same biased generalizations which keep us stationary. However, ending institutionalized racism, misogyny, xenophobia, homophobia, etc., moves entirely too slow and until it catches up with society's pace, it's going to make life very different and difficult for minorities and fuel the belief in them that things are never going to change and there's no light at the end of the tunnel. We need to tackle the institutions that are operating under old attitudes to really make a difference in people's lives, the justice system being a prime example. There's is absolutely zero justification for why a white man, black man, asian man and hispanic man should be treated any differently for committing the same crime but it happens again and again. It's why affirmative action is still very much needed despite continued protestations. Why the ACLU needs our support. Why we need more diversity on our television and movie screens, in our local, state and federal governments, in our textbooks, etc. That is our greatest challenge along with continued forward movement in society of course.
 

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How do yall manage to.defend the characters of these celebs? Do you have dinner with them every night? Why doso many people support jla.w and the other pasty bastards and not their own. Couldn't imagine black tea being such hig demand on white message boards. yall are crazy as a dogs titty. half this tea is hogwash. Ju..lia Robs is the only white woman in this tea who isnt fully racist.

you're taking this sh*t way too seriously.
 

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Found this on another website. Anybody ever hear anything about J. Ledo and his crew.


"Last night I went to a concert. I was having a good time but then, the lead singer of one of my favorite bands pulls a little girl on stage. He tells her "you're so beautiful" about 3 times. From his questions, we learn she is 9 years old. He hugs her continuously and then kisses her forehead. I couldn't stand it! I got pissed. My brain went straight to pedophile. Am I being delusional?!?!?! People think stars are low-risk because the star might be afraid of losing everything. But I think it's just that. They are high-risk because people don't think of them as a threat. They can get ANYTHING they want. The band? 30. Sec.onds. to. Mars."
 

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The band always pulls the kids up and sings with/to them not in a sexµal way. Every concert they also pull up a bunch of fans on stage. If that person is really a fan they should know this already though. Thanks for finding that.
 

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[MENTION=120866]Lady T[/MENTION] I would love to eye fµck or any kind of other fµck with Vin Ca33el. He is not traditionally handsome but so damn sexy to me. Loved him and M0nica as a couple.
 
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Where can I get the deal on Brit & Justin?? They were like the ultimate in the early 00s and she's still the only ex he doesn't talk to. Something went down & no one has any real tea on them
 

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I wish I could remember where it was I read that Jass Shastain's past is all kinds of dark and twisted. She wont talk about her family, lots of abuse growing up and she pretty much created her whole story to not reveal her real past, I read it a couple of years ago and never saw anything again. if anyone remembers where it was written please post, it sounded so utterly sad to me.
 

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I wish I could remember where it was I read that Jass Shastain's past is all kinds of dark and twisted. She wont talk about her family, lots of abuse growing up and she pretty much created her whole story to not reveal her real past, I read it a couple of years ago and never saw anything again. if anyone remembers where it was written please post, it sounded so utterly sad to me.

I don't know if there's more to it but she was estranged from her father for most of her life. Her parents were teenaged parents & split when she/her sister were very young and her mother supposedly took off/changed her & the kids' names so he couldn't find them. JC never reconnected with him but her sister did. Allegedly her sister took her life at their bio father's home, with a shotgun.
 

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