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13 Things You Will See in People Who Make You Feel Safe
Emotional safety is rare and valuable.
In a world where uncertainty and chaos seem to reign, emotional safety can be a beautiful gift. When you are with someone who makes you feel safe, it’s not just the lack of harm you feel. It’s kindness, trust, and grounding. Emotional safety is not about performing perfectly; it’s about consistently showing up, being kind, and creating a space where you can fully be yourself.
The people who make you feel safe and protect your emotional safety are often the people who offer you the opportunity to be vulnerable without the fear of judgment, rejection, or betrayal. They make space for you to share your true thoughts, your feelings, and your experiences, even the messiest and rough drafts. They show up without expectations or demands, but simply understanding.
Here are 13 things you will see in the people who make you feel safe: people who provide an atmosphere of emotional comfort, where trust can be built and vulnerability can be accepted.
1. They Listen Without Judgment
When you talk, they listen to you entirely. It’s not about whether they can resolve your problems with an answer, viewpoint, or solution. They are present with you in the moment and give space for…
