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Trans Gender
Are you sitting on the Toilet MtF?
Are you not sitting on the toilet as a trans woman!
So in all my years of wanting to transition out of being considered a man as an intersex individual, one of the hardest steps was to give up all Masculine ideology and practices.
A primary step was Changing my bathroom habits, as silly as it seems it made a difference. I went from standing in the stall using the restroom in the male restroom originally to sitting down in the male restroom wherever I used the bathroom regardless of going poo, or going pee. I literally started changing the horrible masculine male habits. I hated every single thing about being considered a man.
It was nearly a year and half into my transition before I felt that I was able to use the female restroom without much problem. But by this time I had fully developed the habit of sitting down to use the restroom so much that I never once stood to pee like a man ever again. This was actually extremely helpful after gender bottom surgery (GCS), because I was already fully aware of the need to sit and use the restroom.
So for those who wish to be female, wish to pass as a woman, are you sitting down to use the restroom or are you still standing? If you’re still standing, why are you not embracing everything it means to be a woman instead of cherry picking only the things you want to be considered a woman?
