>>613429Do female-attracted women feel their pussy tingle when seeing a woman they find attractive? Or does there have to be a relationship build-up before any arousing could feelings happen?
I'm asking this because I'm not sure if I'm the former or latter group… we all know the "traumatized by bad men so much she became a lesbian" joke/meme. I don't want to TL;DR, but "traumatized by bad men" thing kind of fit me to a T. Unfortunately.
I guess I have found men attractive—but those tend to be out of reach (fictional 2D characters and/or beautiful androgynous men IRL men I only see on the 'net), I also had a fujo phase but my interest has waned over the years. Even mastubated to this one doujin (if that info is important).
What if my attraction to women is just cope? "I find men scary, so I'll just stick with women—they know me better and I know them, so they're the easier option."
I've also wanted to know what having sex with a woman is like—especially as I've heard the orgasm rate is much more equal (am a virgin of either sex).
I definitely had lesbian fantasies (though, I'm more of a third-person observer) and there was this one time where, during on my period, I legit could not focus because those fantasies wouldn't stop coming, so I had to lay down to finish those fantasies (in my head, kek).
And… I guess my pussy did kind of react to those fantasies? "Arousal". But the confusing thing is, I also felt that "arousal" (pussy reaction) with fucked up shit like hentai (that I wasn't even supposed to be watching) like…
Boku no Pico (yeah, my dumbass fell for the meme), and I definitely don't have any interest in being sexual with a boy—I find them annoying IRL.So what if those lesbian fantasies were just intrusive thoughts all along? I've had intrusive thoughts that are weird and violent but I don't want to those acts…