So. The elephant in the room. Erebus Grey. I know at least a few of you are waiting for me to *~*Make A Big Statement*~* or whatever. It's probably not a big secret that I don't like her. Given that she's now fired from Bondlive, I think I can talk about why.

Sep 19, 2025 · 5:54 AM UTC

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Erebus Grey hurt many, many of my friends, beyond what you've seen in the documents. I've been quietly behind the scenes seeing some of this go down, and I can corroborate most of the stories. Not all of them, but a good chunk of them.
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I was also one of the people she told lies about publicly, and someone who she misrepresented. I'm not sure to what extent she talked shit about me through DMs or private servers but I know it was an amount greater than 0.
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Near the beginning of her streaming career, she thought it would be a great idea to do a Smash or Pass Founding Streamer tierlist without actually seeking consent from any of the streamers involved.
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I am normally not one to care too much about what people do with my PNG, and probably wouldn't have cared. But several of the streamers who were on the list were seiso and not comfortable being ranked on that. Consent was never sought nor given.
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I called her out behind closed doors, because that was a fucked up thing to do. In response, she softed me everywhere and tried to spin it as jealousy. Other streamers were "jealous" and she needed to be protected. Her fans ate it up.
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I thought it was fucked up to do that, but went "well that's how it goes sometimes" and moved on. I know for a fact she continued to stalk my socials and streams afterwards, and I suspect she may have taken "inspiration" from some of them after she decided I was the enemy.
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Compared to the other stories, this is petty. I know that this isn't some smoking gun, especially compared to everything else. But the reason I bring this up is to help people understand that her behavior has been unacceptable for a very long time, and that Bond-
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-chose to look away despite how many complaints she'd had because she made them money until she didn't. Bondlive only let her go because the risk was higher than the reward, even after she had bullied other talents within the company.
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To many of you, everything coming out with Erebus will have been a shock. I can't blame you. You can't know what goes on behind closed doors. No one can. Please don't feel guilty for not knowing everything your oshi was doing. Please don't blame yourself.
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But I promise you, there is so much that you haven't seen and will probably never see. This isn't a case of petty slap-fighting. It's been nearly a year of this.
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