>>106500700i think its fine aslong as your crush is actually someone feasible like you know them irl.
even if theyre so out of your league its nothing but a dream, atleast they're real and potentially attainable.
the issue is if youre obsessing over some superstar or girl that is never going to materialize no matter how much effort or rizz you throw out, theyre not even on your continent or whatever. thats when its bad. so like the kpop dudes obsessing over one of them.
but then i realized someone, while i was participating in this thread. i realized why kpop fans exist, because of how extremely samey all korean people look in general. basically, you can choose a generic looking kpop idol and use her as the "mannequin" for the type of identical looking korean NPC woman that you will race mix with irl.
im sure i havent expressed it well but kiss my ass