[–] ▶ №62221[Last 50 Posts][1][2][Quote] [Voice Chat]>>62237
I wanna ask you guys some advice, or really I just want to talk about this and get some opinions, there's this girl in my 3rd block class in school (accounting) and I suppose you could say I have a bit of a crush on her, the thing is I haven't even talked to her, she sits in the row behind me pretty close to me and it feels like shes all I can think about every time I see her, she seems nice but shes really quiet and doesn't talk to anyone, we have the same lunch period and she always sits completely alone as do I so I was thinking I could try talking to her there by asking if I could sit with her but I'm very worried she'll find me weird or annoying, I'm also a bit worried she might be a mega toxic liberal o algo since she has bright blue hair and a bunch of piercings but its not my biggest worry, i couldn't even really tell you what I like about her she just seems so perfect, shes kind of short but not super short, a little bit chubby, she's probably around my age but I'm pretty sure shes a little older, and she always has this look on her face that I just love, I don't stare or anything like a retarded gigasperg but I always find myself looking at her at lunch evendoe she never notices me, I'm just worried she'll think I'm boring or weird since I don't really stand out at all, I'm tall but I don't do any sports or anything so I really am just a boring person I guess, I don't know I just want your guys' opinions or advice about this, thanks for reading
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I don't actually know her name either but I think I once heard the teacher call it and it was a nice name, she might've been talking about another girl albeit
>inb4 fakecel faggot
I've never had a girlfriend or anything but I'm not a total truecel since girls do sometimes talk to me for answers on assignments or to ask me how tall I am
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I guess I should give a description of myself so you guys can have a better picture, I'm very tall, white, I dress basically but not like a retarded sperg wearing cargo shorts and video game shirts, and I'm somewhat ugly, I'm not gonna post any pics though, I don't wanna get datamined o algo
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im also gonna quit gooning so i can talk to people better especially for talking to her, don't flood the thread with tips to quit gooning or reccomendations for the easy peasy method cause i've heard it all i just put off quitting because im a dumbass, for whatever reason i'm also insanely attracted to this girl sexually, her shirt came up a little and i saw her stomach and hips and got a boner for like 10 minutes, it's not the only reason i like her albeit, idk though i need to quit gooning
▶ №62237[Quote]>>62239
>>62221 (OP)All of you guys who are in love with quiet alone girls, you have the perfect opportunity to start talking to them. watch some videos on good conversation starters and dont try to push for a relationship right away, get to know her first. The longer you spend doing nothing, the more potential there is for someone with bad intentions to swoop in and take your opportunity.
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>>62237I know I should just talk to her already but I'm so nervous that I'll say something stupid or creep her out, I wanna be able to make friends with her before I push for anything else but I'm terrified of making a bad impression, I've never really even been able to make friends with girls even if I don't like them so I don't know how it's gonna be different this time but I still need to try talking to her, if I don't I feel like I'll regret it for a really really long time
▶ №62248[Quote]>>62270
congrats anon, that's a /mlp/ larper
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>>62248nooooo shes a regular girl
>>62269I know how it sounds ok but shes not like that I think
▶ №62274[Quote]>>62301
its better to be a loner
▶ №62280[Quote]>>62301
Why do you care if some loner weirdo thinks you're weird? I suppose she doesn't have many friends so the worst can happen is you losing your chance for some blue haired chick. If she accepts, you win. If she rejects, you still win because you won't be spending time obsessed with a girl that won't like you.
▶ №62283[Quote]>>62301
If people aren't repulsed by you immediately you already have a foot in the door.
▶ №62301[Quote]>>62303>>62312>>62321>>62436
i decided to talk to her at lunch and it went quite well, she's very friendly and i really like talking to her, she seemed to enjoy talking to me too and we walked back to class together, as it turns out she's autistic just like me, we talked more in class too but i forgot to ask if she had snapchat or anything, I'm really glad i got over my anxiousness and just talked to her because it went really well and i'm glad we're atleast friends, also i never noticed how short she is geg she's 5'2 shes literally eye level with the bottom of my chest i really like being around her
>>62274why doe
>>62280you're right I guess, I never really thought about it like that but I don't have to worry about that
>>62283I guess so
>>62293sorry, I never really did anything to make myself taller I just have really tall genes
▶ №62303[Quote]>>62307
>>62301why do you apologise for your height? Be glad you are tall and lucky. Good luck with the girl, just be calm and don't apologise for anything.
▶ №62306[Quote]>>62307
give up. Its always been over.
▶ №62307[Quote]>>62368
>>62303>don't apologize for anythingI know people find it annoying but I'm really apologetic, I don't really know how to not be
>>62306I don't wanna give up doe I really really like this girl
▶ №62312[Quote]>>62344
>>62301Keep talking with her and hang out with her outside of school
▶ №62321[Quote]>>62344
>>62301that sounds promising. good luck, you've got this
▶ №62344[Quote]>>62346>>62368
we talked more today, we were on the subject of politics and she told me she absolutely hates trump and isn't a super political person but shes more left leaning, I was kind of worried about this but she doesn't really seem to mind that I'm more centrist/right leaning, or atleast that's how I told her I am, in reality I'm very very racist and anti-immigration but she doesn't have to know, I can stop hating the heckin' whxlesome niggers for her, I'm kind of bummed out though because I asked for her Snapchat and she wrote down her username for me but I cant find it, I dont know if she just got it mixed up or gave me the wrong one on purpose but I've tried every spelling and combination and I cant find her which means I have to wait till tuesday to talk to her again, I guess I seem kind of obsessed but shes just so perfect in my eyes, shes so friendly and nice and interesting and I wish I could spend more time with her than just eating lunch and walking back to class together since I can't really talk to her much in class either
>>62312that's the goal but I don't know how to approach the subject well since we only just met
>>62321thanks mister, I'm glad you guys are hopeful for me o algo
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>>62346geg this sounds kind of embarrassing but I really am worried she gave me a fake snap for some reason or another, when I asked her she told me it and I wrote it down and she even corrected the spelling so I know this is what she meant for me to look for but I've tried all the possible alternate spellings and still cant find her account, maybe she has it on private or something but I don't know if that's even a thing on Snapchat, I'll try again later and if I really cant find it I'll just wait until Tuesday and ask her about it and this time I'll write down mine for her since she seems like she enjoys talking to me
▶ №62364[Quote]>>62368>>62393
>>62346she gave me her TikTok by mistake I just found her on there o algo
▶ №62368[Quote]>>62370
>>62307Dont apologize not because others may find it annoying but because you ought to be confident yourself.
>>62344>>62364If something similar ever comes up you can check the website
https://www.idcrawl.com/username-searchThat way you can search multiple platforms for the same user. btw if you were to search her name on here and found some other accounts obviously dont tell her geg
Anyways, best of luck with the girl
▶ №62370[Quote]>>62393>>62437
>>62368thanks, I might try that website, she still hasn't messaged me back or anything but I did message her pretty late and its still early in the morning so its not that weird, I am kind of worried since her TikTok showed a lot of odd things, she has "they/them/she/her" in her bio and most of her videos are just pictures of her with random songs and the comments are just jeets asking how her day is, I don't understand any of her reposts geg they're all troonslop animation style memes, whenever I'm able to talk to her though I'll ask her about her interests so I can hear them from her and seem interested in a normal way
▶ №62393[Quote]>>62396
>>62370>blue hair and piercings>she has "they/them/she/her" in her biojust let it go bro
>>62364you probably gave her the ick by trying to find her on every single social media
>>62392she probably hasnt seen your message yet
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>>62393I don't care if shes a little bit liberal, shes the friendliest girl I've ever met and I like her a lot
<I didn't look on every social media doe, I just asked for her Snapchat and she accidentally gave me her tiktok
<probably but I'm still worried o algo
▶ №62398[Quote]>>62404>>62428
i decided to comment on one of her tiktok vids to see if she'd notice and she did, i got her snapchat finally and she added me back but theres one thing worrying me, she has a few emojis in her bio that i'm not sure if i like the implications of, specifically a gay pride flag, the leaves and smoke emojis, and a mushroom emoji, i'm holding out hope she's just bisexual and likes guys still because if not then i dont know what i'll do, even with all this lgbt liberal shit on her socials she still seems so perfect and friendly and beautiful when i see her and talk to her in real life, i love being around her and some dumbass emojis won't change that
▶ №62404[Quote]>>62428>>62432
>>62398What do you like so much about her? What do you see in her?
I can relate to your situation, as my ex-girlfriend was very similar to this girl in terms of interests and how she presents herself. It inevitably didn't work because of our differing views, but this girl is even more radically different from what you're describing. I can't imagine such a relationship working between you two, but I know that feeling, especially when it's all you know or all you can get. It is obviously implied that she's a druggie, and even if she says she's 'not a political person', you can see in her appearance and how she presents both online and in real life that she's been infected by liberalism. I wish you luck and I really hope this works out with some miracle that you can fix her and give her sense, but it's incredibly unlikely.
▶ №62428[Quote]>>62432
>>62398>the leaves and smoke emojis, and a mushroom emojidude she uses drugs, youve fallen for a hippie girl geg
>>62404>i'm holding out hope she's just bisexual and likes guyseven if she is gay and is a huge liberal that doesnt mean those things are permanent. People change, the more she grows to seriously like you the more similar both of you will become.
▶ №62432[Quote]>>62438
>>62404>what do you like so much about her? what do you see in her?she's the friendliest warmest girl i've ever met, she's so easy and nice to talk to, she's never mean to me, it's like I understand everything she says and vice versa, not to mention other than the dyed hair and piercings she's my exact physical type, when I first noticed her in class everyday all I could think about is how pretty and nice she seemed even when she wasn't doing anything, I feel like my heart skips a beat just walking with her
<I really do hope we somehow become more similar but we don't really have any shared interests, our political beliefs are completely different, shes a druggy and I've never done anything more than sniff lighters like a retard, somehow when we actually talk in person it feels so much more comfortable and natural but it cant always be like that, tbh I could've changed some of my politics to be a bit more like her (like hating niggers less or becoming less hardcore capitalist or anti-abortion) but I cant just completely switch up on what I believe for her even if shes perfect in my eyes, also something that makes me really sad is that she clearly doesn't believe in God, also for some reason she posts pictures of her face all the time on snap and chinktok, I guess atleast she's confident but I don't really get it
>>62428>dude she uses drugs, you've fallen for a hippie girl gegI know and I'm really sad about it, I know that we just aren't similar people at all and I don't really blame her or myself, its not my fault that I fell for such a girl and she doesn't owe me anything just because she's nice to me, its not er fault that her drug habits just so happen to conflict with my personal values, she didn't even know my name last week and we're just friends
<hopefully but I have no idea if she even likes guys so there's no way to ever tell if she's interested in me, also when we were texting last night she was being really dry tbh I don't know why
▶ №62436[Quote]>>62443
>>62301>why doeall women do is just annoy and distract. its not worth it
▶ №62437[Quote]>>62443
>>62370nigger shut it down you are dating a proto-tranny dont say we didnt warn you
▶ №62438[Quote]>>62439>>62442
>>62432if she is into guys and you manage to get w her, i think your religious & political values still conflict with hers too much to have a good chance at taking things to the next level. you have two options at this point:
1) just give up and try to find a different girl to date. there's a very big chance things will just eventually fall apart because of your conflicting beliefs if you stay honest. you guys just want different things in life, and that's fine.
2) become IRL dexter morgan and live a double life. don't ever bring up politics or religion around her, don't get into serious debates about current events, and if she ever does try and probe into your beliefs, stay as centrist/liberal as possible. (vague shit about supporting gay rights, taxing the rich, social programs, "free palestine" etc etc)
despite what some people on this board would tell you, it's actually very easy not to become a leaking clittycel the second somebody brings up an opinion you disagree with IRL. what you do/say you believe in on the sharty doesn't have to be known to this girl, at least not for a long while.
also, try and check some of her tiktok reposts again. what are they about? what shows/games/internet series are they about? try and find some kind of common ground interest-wise (checking the tags might help you figure it out), or maybe lie and ask "hey i've been meaning to get into X for a while now because it looks cool, what do you like about it?" shit like that will probably help her be less dry over texts and develop you a stronger connection over her interests/hobbies
▶ №62439[Quote]>>62442
>>62438>1 thats not how people work
>2 thats not how people work
▶ №62442[Quote]>>62444
>>62438I know, we're so different and it makes me really sad
<probably the best choice but I've never met a girl that's so easy to talk to that's seemed so perfect, I guess the trade off of trying to be with an autistic girl is that shes gonna be all liberal and lgbt
<I'm pretty good at lying and having fake opinions but I really don't want to, I feel terrible for lying to people like that and I don't think I could keep a relationship like that, I do have experience masking le heckin' autismo though
<I don't really mind at all that she has different opinions from me, I'm worried that she'll hate my beliefs
<most of her reposts were random memes and FNAF shit, I guess I could try seeing what kind of music she likes since I don't think our taste in that is too drastically different
>>62439it is quite easy to just lie and act like a completely different person and have people fall for it but I don't wanna do that, I guess my personality and beliefs are just undesirable o algo
▶ №62443[Quote]>>62453
>>62436she doesn't annoy me though I love talking to her and being around her
>>62437its just basic leftist girl stuff its not that serious
<I forgot to mention, she really likes art, maybe I should learn how to draw better or something to impress her but I'm really bad at it geg
▶ №62445[Quote]>>62446>>62454
>>62444its just a few stupid tiktoks its not that big of a deal, you niggers are so closed minded you all just judge off of stupid shit like sure the LGBT and weed stuff is kind of a big deal but who gives a shit if she reposts dumb videos on tiktok
▶ №62446[Quote]>>62447
>>62445you literally said earlier that youre very racist
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>>62446yeah but she doesn't have to know that
▶ №62448[Quote]>>62449
nigga let it go its not going to work she's a leftoid refugee welcomer and your a bald man with glasses website user its not gonna happen
▶ №62449[Quote]>>62450
>>62448we're american so she somewhat agrees with me that illegal immigration is a big problem, she doesn't like ICE but only because of the niggas trying to deport the 'spics that are technically citizens, I'm getting off track though, you're probably right but I just can't help but be completely infatuated with her
▶ №62450[Quote]>>62452
>>62449ok but relationships with conflicting political beliefs usually dont last long, when the conversation about trannies comes in its gonna be awkward
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>>62450yeah I know you're right, tbh I can just lie and seem way more centrist than I am albeit
▶ №62453[Quote]>>62456>>62474
>>62443stop basing your existence around impressing women faggot. life is MORE THAN THAT
▶ №62454[Quote]>>62474
>>62445it is a big deal, dont lower yourself to a whore skank. read a book or something nigger die young stop changing women so you can be a 80 year old loser in a toxic relationship who regrets not doing stuff
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chasing*
▶ №62456[Quote]>>62474
>>62453tsmt, also you seem young from the way you write op, so your political views will probably change a lot
▶ №62457[Quote]>>62474
i recommend you ghost her immediately OP, start using the computer less, and most of all start reading more. oh and of course become initiated into a real religion - american protestantism doesnt count
▶ №62474[Quote]>>62492
>>62453I'm not basing my existence around her doe I just want to have something in common with her, is it so bad I like talking to someone????
>>62454shes not a fucking whore you retarded faggot, I don't want to be a lonely loser for my whole fucking life btw
>>62456well yeah I guess but I don't really have many crazy opinions
>>62457why would I just ghost her, she didn't do anything, and I do read occasionally, also religion is retarded I just read my Bible o algo its better than following man-made traditions
▶ №62491[Quote]>>62505
>>62486thanks sir, I'm glad I was able to become friends with her atleast so far, she really is super friendly to me and I don't quite know why, I'll wait a while and see if she drops any signs or anything before I ask her out and I'll definitely try to get her to understand some of my perspectives politically and especially see if I can get her interested in Christianity, she says she's bisexual which isn't the greatest sign but at least she likes guys
▶ №62492[Quote]>>62500
>>62474trust me its not worth it
▶ №62494[Quote]>>62500
dont have relationships dont have kids the world will only get worse
▶ №62495[Quote]>>62500
isolate yourself
before you have commitments
▶ №62500[Quote]>>62506>>62559
>>62492what's not worth it? I'm not going to be alone my whole life because some faggot on the soyshit.tranny told me I should.
>>62494I'm not gonna die without having kids nigger, infact I plan on having all my kids before the mother is 28, I don't want to risk having retarded kids
>>62495I'm already so fucking isolated most of my friends could care less if I never reached out and I've never loved a girl this much in my whole life
▶ №62505[Quote]>>62509
>>62491Are you a Christian? I think getting her at least interested in Christianity is a good goal at this point. It gives the two of you something good and wholesome to bond over, and even if things don't work out romantically, the heavens rejoice at even a single soul converted.
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>>62505I am, I really want to atleast get her to consider it since she doesn't believe in anything but I dont want to be too pushy
>>62506I'll try sir
▶ №62514[Quote]>>62516
>>>62505
>she doesn't believe in anything but I dont want to be too pushy
yes, you shouldnt try bringing her into religion until your already dating, as of now feel free to mention it if the topic naturally arises. people can only come to religion on their own accord, if they feel their being led to think a certain way, they will rebel.
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>>62514true, I havent told her what I believe really but I have the cross emoji in my Snapchat name so I'm sure she can use her inference skills o algo
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testtetsyststgdhd
▶ №62520[Quote]>>62537
>>>62514
>true, I havent told her what I believe really but I have the cross emoji in my Snapchat name so I'm sure she can use her inference skills o algo
As far as my attention span has allowed me to read these niggers haven't ever mentioned the fact that chicks love to have male friends in order to string them along for attention. Her being a libtard nigger faggot or any other bs is of no consequence. Your biggest concern is this. Women subconsiously know that men are attracted to them, almost every single relationship between an (of age) man and woman is underlined with sexual intent. The chick already knows at least on a subconsious level you like her. Don't waste too much time on her or too much time thinking of her, because it might not work out. I wouldn't spend more than two months in contact with her before making your intentions clear or making some kind of move. Even if she denies you it won't be akward for long if you communicate that you understand and wish to part amicably/stay friends. If your hoping on tips on how to get her to like you the only real thing I can say is be yourself (not your edgy /pol/ self ofc) and if you really have no personality outside of that shit get a fucking hobby o algo. Don't be afraid to invite her to some shit too, chicks love fun if you know your gonna have fun doing something with her invite her to it. If she outright rejects you or isnt showing interest go try and meet other chicks you have to learn that you are worth something and your time is a privelege to women, dont belittle yourself by giving her more attention than she is bothering to give you. Bottom line is dont be a fucking pussy and try to actually pursue her and match her energy/dont be desperate.
▶ №62521[Quote]>>62537>>62560
Lil bros first oneitis
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>>62520I suppose they haven't, I am a bit worried about her not really being interested in me at all but idk, she seems to enjoy our time together walking to/from lunch and leaving class and stuff, I'd like to spend less time thinking about her but I spend nearly all day and night with her on my mind, and I still don't even text her since I have no idea what to talk about if I cant see her face to face which is a bit of a problem, as i've said a thrembillion times she's a very friendly person and easy to talk to but when I'm texting her she seems really bored/dry and I'm not sure why, maybe I just caught her at a bad time or something
>>62521I've had girls I obsess over before but it was always because I thought they were hot, not a good person like this one, plus they all thought I was ugly and weird and didn't like talking to me so I got over it really fast
▶ №62551[Quote]>>62556
>>>62520 (You)
>I suppose they haven't, I am a bit worried about her not really being interested in me at all but idk, she seems to enjoy our time together walking to/from lunch and leaving class and stuff, I'd like to spend less time thinking about her but I spend nearly all day and night with her on my mind, and I still don't even text her since I have no idea what to talk about if I cant see her face to face which is a bit of a problem, as i've said a thrembillion times she's a very friendly person and easy to talk to but when I'm texting her she seems really bored/dry and I'm not sure why, maybe I just caught her at a bad time or something
could be dry in texting because
1. she doesnt have many bluds in school
2. she texts other chicks/niggas
3. she just doesnt know how to text dudes or prefers in person communication
4. the ice hasnt been broken in ur texting convos
If I had to say number 3 or 4 is probably the reason why shes dry over text.
If you don't wanna think abt her 24/7 try and meet some other girls and most importantly remember not to revolve your life or most of your free time on chicks/thinking about chicks. Thats extremely feminine and chicks will prob just end up using u for attention & validation.
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>>62551>she texts other chicks/niggaspossibly, for some reason her account has a ton of followers, like 2000, but her snapscore is only 20k
>she just doesnt know how to text dudes or prefers in person communication>the ice hasnt been broken in ur texting convosthese two are what I think too since she seems interested in talking to me in person but when I was texting her earlier she seemed really disinterested idk
>Thats extremely feminine and chicks will prob just end up using u for attention & validation.that's what I'm scared of since almost every girl I meet that wants to talk to me just ends up doing this, I don't wanna be so obsessed with her but I don't want her to feel ignored or anything either since girls will never text you first
▶ №62559[Quote]>>62562
>>62500you will never be a normie
▶ №62562[Quote]>>62563
>>62559nigger why are you so pessimistic? just because I'm autistic doesn't mean I'm always gonna be a lonely nigger like you
▶ №62563[Quote]>>62566
>>62562i am not pessimistic
▶ №62565[Quote]>>62566
probably happier than 99% of people on this board
▶ №62566[Quote]>>62567
>>62563you are, you keep telling me I'll never succeed and that this girl isn't worth anything and that the world will only get worse and that you should never try to do anything involving women all you do is whine
>>62565probably not, there's definitely people less happy than you but there's a lot more happier too
▶ №62567[Quote]>>62572
>>62566i am not, i just acknowledge the reality of life is pessimistic. however, an individual can escape it. (accelerate their inner iron age). and for your second point, i would beg to differ, i come on here about once a day out of habit for the hour or so i use the computer, most of the day i meditate and read.
▶ №62568[Quote]>>62572
true emotion maturity - not saying i have this, comes from realizing all your possibilities comes from yourself and are their since your birth. i am sure it is saint paul who writes to the Corinthians that only a man who can not become truly enlightened should have a wife
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let me find it
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1 Corinthians 7
▶ №62572[Quote]>>62573
>>62567just because life is pessimistic in nature doesn't mean you have to be lonely the whole time, this logic is stupid
>>62568well I probably wont reach true enlightenment so why shouldn't I spend time talking to someone I like
▶ №62573[Quote]>>62575
>>62572>just because life is pessimistic in nature doesn't mean you have to be lonely the whole time, this logic is stupidwell of course not, but it is better to be. are not the majority of people insufferable? i strongly doubt the atheist leftist lgbtq foid you are wasting your time trying to date is any better.
<>well I probably wont reach true enlightenment so why shouldn't I spend time talking to someone I likenever know until you try
▶ №62574[Quote]>>62575
but maybe i was harsh OP, if you feel it is necessary try, go with your heart at the end of the day
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>>62573>are not the majority of people insufferable?not really, I don't find any of my friends or this girl insufferable, I'm bad at talking to people but I still enjoy socializing with people I know more than being alone, its like liking a game that you're not good at
>>62574>go with your heart at the end of the dayI really do want to be with this girl but the logical part of my brain is telling me she wouldn't like me because we're too different, I don't have any problems with most of her opinions I'm just worried she wont feel the same
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I talked to her a bit more last night, she messaged me to tell me she wouldn't be at school today since shes sick and we talked about that for a little bit but I actually had to go to sleep for school since I have to get up early as fuck so I said goodnight to her and told her I hope she feels better in the morning
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she keeps leaving me on delivered for over an hour while being online the whole time and I don't know why, I can keep her interested in a conversation for the most part but once it ends she wont open my snaps or messages for hours, atleast I'll get to see her at school tomorrow
▶ №62653[Quote]>>62656>>62669>>62671
>>62486my gf of 4 years is still a libtard.
I managed to hide my powerlevel for a long time, but she knows since 2 years that I'm a chud. Guess she figures that it's too late to break up over it by now, but I know she considered it.
We mostly avoid politics now, but I can see how it pains her when she wants to share the current thing with me but stops herself in the last moment because she knows I'll just disagree
OP, also keep in mind the implications for having kids. She will troon your sons the instant one of them doesn't violently reject the dolls she will try to make him play with. They'll watch the wokeslop movies and your daughters will be taught that promiscuity is fine and that they would make her proud for bringing back a BIPOC boyfriend.
Women also are better at socializing, so prepare to have a permanent libtard friend-circle if you get serious with her.
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>>62653interesting, I guess atleast you know she really loves you even if you guys don't agree on political things
<I am quite worried about that, my biggest fear is dying without kids and I really don't want them raised wrong or anything, the girl I like has had 4 exes btw but she's not a slut or anything, idk atleast we're both white, thanks for the advice, also both my parents are really liberal and raised me believing in a lot of libtarded shit but I turned out differently so I think it'll be fine if I ever get to that point
▶ №62662[Quote]>>62683
>>62656yeah, it's definitely possible to make it work, and she'll probably become less extreme with age (and the influence of you), but the extend is hard to predict.
Some more complications to keep in mind:
She will probably not take your last name. (it would be a humiliation for her in front of her lib social circle)
If you are a bit neurotic or a "grass is greener" type of guy, you might forever wonder what a chuddy wife would be like if you end up making the vows to her.
If you ever want to become politicially active, she will use her full arsenal of foid tactics to dissuade you.
You want to find out as early as possible how she reacts to you setting boundaries that clash with her politics (because leftists like to call these types of boundaries "controlling"). I.e. how much time can she spend with guy friends? How revealingly can she dress?
The more pragmatic decisions like choosing a good school, you owning guns, moving away from BIPOCs or investing in whatever you like (including immoral companies) should not be a problem, leftists are a bit hypocritical in these areas and she should easily defer to you on these.
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>>62653No offense but if you have been dating for 4 years and is still libtarded she probably doesn't love you very much. Either that or her hormones are out of whack.
▶ №62671[Quote]>>62683
>>62653>Women also are better at socializing, so prepare to have a permanent libtard friend-circle if you get serious with her.Tsmt. When I was dating my ex I hated being around all of her lgbt and actual tranny friends. So beware of this OP, this will become the people you will have to be around. One time I had to go into my workplace with my ex and one of her tranny friends and I felt like all of my coworker's eyes were on me. It's humiliating and even in private it just wasn't company I enjoyed at all, although I always preferred being alone with her regardless.
>62670My ex had 7 exes before me geg, although she was still a virgin and that's what mattered to me since I know realistically I can't do much better than this.
That's another thing OP. I really hope this girl is a virgin, otherwise you should drop her. I know it will probably be a bit before you know since usually it's pretty weird to ask if someone has had sex before, let alone their bodycount when you've just met them. Although I just directly asked my ex on our second date "Are you a virgin?" like a retard and she had no problem with it and told me she was. Although I think that's just a case of being able to get away with retarded shit because of the woman being extremely attracted to the guy, like how they'll laugh at literally any joke and find anything you do endearing. Maybe you could ask her friends about her past experiences with guys? Or just let your friendship with her naturally progress and see if you can pry that information out of her to know if she's used up or not.
▶ №62683[Quote]>>62698
>>62662I am a bit worried about having to hang out with other liberal girls to be around her but as of now I'm only around her in a class she has no friends in other than me, we were walking back to class on Friday doe and she introduced me to this random girl she was friends with, it was this really short Mexican girl that looked pretty normal i think, shes also said before that she doesn't have problems being friends with people who have different political beliefs from her as long as they don't specifically support trump
<I really hope shes not too anti-gun because I love guns so fucking much its crazy I wouldn't wanna settle down with a girl that wants no guns in the house
>>62670well I don't know if shes ever had sex also I'm pretty sure most of them were girls
>>62671>My ex had 7 exes before me geg, although she was still a virgin kind of ridiculous, I suppose that is a possibility, one of my friends has had like 10 girlfriends in the past 3 years and he's still a virgin since he's waiting for marriage
▶ №62698[Quote]>>62732
>>62683>most of them were girlsThat makes it even worse
▶ №62701[Quote]>>62732
>>62656>4 exs>not a slutwhatever makes you happy anon
▶ №62708[Quote]>>62732
>4 exes
>most of them were girls
OPcacas…
▶ №62716[Quote]>>62732
>>62715that's such a shame holy shit
i can relate to op because a cute quiet girl would be my type too but that sounds way too bad
▶ №62732[Quote]>>62734
>>62698does it? I would think that atleast that means she isn't just dating for sex
>>62701shes literally not doe
>>62708is that really worse than all guys?
>>62715you'd have to talk to her to understand, she's such a friendly/warm person, I was sad that she wasn't at school again but I sat with another girl at lunch instead and became friends with her and she's also really friendly and seems a lot more interested in talking to me, she even asked me for my snap and called me when I got home
>>62716I don't really have a type, I just really like her
▶ №62734[Quote]>>62737
>>62732I think it's better most of her exes were girls, as it means she is more likely a virgin and has less experience with guys. I wouldn't really give a shit if a girl I dated had "sex" with another girl as long as there wasn't a dick involved and she gets her act together. I think they're saying it's worse doe because it shows she's indoctrinated into fag culture and is likely to be a sexual deviant.
Describe the other girl you met. Do you like her as much as the libtard girl? What is she like?
▶ №62737[Quote]>>62739
>>62734that's what I thought but I suppose the other perspective makes sense
<the other girl is nice, she seemed really interested in talking to me and wanted to sit next to me at lunch and stuff and when lunch was over I offered to carry her bag and help her find her class since it was her first day at the school, shes a few months younger than me and actually looks pretty similar to the one this thread is about, they're both short and a little chubby, I enjoyed talking to her and we talked a lot on Snapchat while I was on the bus and stuff and I helped with some of her school work over a call, somehow though I actually don't feel super obsessed with this one, I also talked to the first girl on Snapchat more today but she kind of just texted me about random shit and called me a Twink and stuff idk it was weird, tbh with this new girl it feels like she actually kind of likes me or something, I told her I'd eat lunch with her again tomorrow but the other one will be there too so I guess I can introduce them
▶ №62739[Quote]>>62740
>>62737I feel like if you introduce them to each other then they will get jealous of each other and be upset if they really do have romantic feelings for you. You said the girl you just met seems to genuinely really like you, so if you introduce her to another female friend of yours then in her mind she won't feel special and will know you give that same attention to another girl. I know you're obsessed with the first girl, but it isn't smart to act on your affection and especially not lust. You barely know her and you know logically that there are lots of problems that you aren't equipped to fix. The second girl is probably safer, but you should learn more about her. Just know that you'll likely have to make a choice on which you want to pursue and spend more of your time with, as you probably can't just talk to both and keep the other on the backburner. They will know and as I said, I think in their mind they will be upset that they're not exclusive to receiving that attention from you, because women love being chased.
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>>62739that's what I'm a bit worried about, tbh though I guess I have been getting a little less obsessive about the first girl, mostly because I saw her post some weird misandrist stuff and I guess its finally hitting me that she probably doesn't like me much especially with how she leaves me on delivered all the time and seems dry talking to me all the time, she also posts pictures of herself all the time everyday which bothers me a little, I still like her a lot but I'm pretty sure she doesn't/wont feel anything much for me, I'll probably end up talking to the second girl a lot more since she texts me first and seems to like talking to me more, it is a confusing situation though, this is literally my first time having any female friends in years and its all so complicated
