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Finally, an Autism-Friendly Vacation Rental

Dead bolts on the doors, muted colors, and indoor swings are making holiday homes more inclusive.

The sensory gym at Spectrum House on Fire Island has areas to retreat and calm down, along with swings, padded walls, and tubes for kids seeking stimulation. Since this photo taken, the padding on the wall near the swing has been extended upward. Photo: Russell Pratt
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The sensory gym at Spectrum House on Fire Island has areas to retreat and calm down, along with swings, padded walls, and tubes for kids seeking stimulation. Since this photo taken, the padding on the wall near the swing has been extended upward. Photo: Russell Pratt
The sensory gym at Spectrum House on Fire Island has areas to retreat and calm down, along with swings, padded walls, and tubes for kids seeking stimulation. Since this photo taken, the padding on the wall near the swing has been extended upward. Photo: Russell Pratt

The door slammed. I heard a click and grabbed the door handle. But it wouldn’t turn.

“Unlock the door,” I pleaded.

No answer. I crouched onto the floor and peeked under it. My autistic 2-year-old son had locked himself into the master bedroom, leaving me on the outside with my husband and 3- and 4-year-old daughters. He was so close I could have touched him.

First he laughed. Then he cried. How was I supposed to explain to a 2-year-old how to unlock a door?

We were away from home in a condo in Hilton Head that we had rented for our family of five. The property owner had recently updated the condo and, as we learned at that moment, he hadn’t left a key or any tools to unlock it anywhere in the rental.

My son paced back and forth while I talked to him through the space under the door. It took 30 minutes to get a property manager to open it. My son didn’t end up hurting himself. But I knew we were just lucky.

The locks on the bedroom doors weren’t even the biggest threat. It was how easily the front door unlocked with a little push on the handle. There was no dead bolt either.


Finally, an Autism-Friendly Vacation Rental