you'd think me having boobs while intersecting with being black would be a walk in the park but it has subjected me to such cruelty from other trans men who are transmeds that nobody would ever think of. hell, even a majority of cis people are more respectful which is uh TELLING.

transmeds have a special kind of brainrot in my experience, at the end of the day it’s a form of transphobia so it gives you brainworms

YES YES I STOPPED BINDING AFTER SEEING HIS ART TOO Twinningg🫰

YUUURP 🤝🤝🤝 id been mostly not binding just bc i didnt really care for like a few years but seeing more cute boys a la salem has made me very confident that ykw if im gonna be as transgender as possible with it i literally dgaf anymore !!!! let em hang brother 🫡

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There's a lot of raw emotion in transition and people will see others reflect that in ways that pick at their wounds, but I think that's why it's so important that understanding goes both ways and that we aim to be in a place where we're not less- but more comfortable with a variety of trans bodies.

Growing as a trans person, to me, has come to mean using transition as a way to understand what makes you feel more alive, more real, and more yourself, and learning to love more parts of yourself, not less. It means outgrowing these ideas about what existing "right" means, for our sake and others'.

And the fact they're that willing to throw GNC and BIPOC trans people under the bus at a moment's notice when it benefits them? That says everything about how trustworthy they are. Insecurity is the reason but it isn't a justification by any fucking means. There isn't one. They need to be better.