"It hurts when your best friend goes for your career after hurting you as well"
...you mean like you did to me?
Seeing Radia's document makes my stomach turn. I've sat silently and dealt with a multiyear smear campaign behind the scenes from Adora who was my former best friend-
I never anticipated having to make a statement like this, but I can no longer bear living in fear of someone who once called themselves a "sister.”
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Aug 6, 2025 · 11:45 PM UTC
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I've lost friends and community members, and dealt with the worst mental health of my entire life, from what I have discovered she has done behind the scenes to try and harm me. She has never even had the decency to talk to me about it either, with our last exchange being--
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about how she needed time and space to think when I tried to confront her about what I was hearing. Then total silence.
I don't know about Radia's experience personally, but I know from my own experience, that this is not only in line with what I've experienced, but many others.
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To be honest, the whole experience has been so traumatic for me, and it's taken a long time for me to move on and feel ok again. I've reached a point where I'm happy being in my own space and interacting with genuine friends that have shown me kindness. I don't know if I'll ever-
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have it in me to put out any detailed doc about what I've experienced, but the bottom line is don't believe everything you hear from people when they try to turn you against someone. The amount of times I've seen people lie and corroborate something false just because they want--
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to support a friend is too many times to count. It's literal high school mean girls behavior, and it's so pervasive in VTubing.
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If you've ever heard something whispered about me behind the scenes and never come to talk to be about it, but instead decided to distance yourself from me, I hope you'll rethink that. I've had many people reach out over the years to clear things up, and I'm grateful for the--
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