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Why we procrastinate on joy — and how to stop

We may fall into a “trap” of wanting something to feel special, which causes us to delay enjoying it now, research suggests.

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Someone sitting in a dark room watching TV while a group of people swims in a lake just outside the window.
(Illustration by George Wylesol/For The Washington Post)

Usually, when we think about procrastination, we think about delaying the hard, boring or unpleasant things in life — paying bills, doing laundry or meeting work deadlines. The bulk of scientific research focuses on why we delay pain, not pleasure.

But we can also put off things we enjoy — catching up with a friend we haven’t seen in a while, visiting a nearby attraction or opening that expensive bottle of wine.

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