Post
I love disabled people who aren't able to work/cannot work/don't desire work, can't do things they love as much cuz of pain and fatigue, who need so much help with everything, those who have trouble remembering, and those who can't learn things well.
we/y'all deserve better.
May 29, 2025 at 7:26 AM
278 reposts
3 quotes
1.1K likes
fuck the people constantly gaslighting us and telling us we are lazy, don't try hard enough, or not actually disabled. i go through this denial too because my family does this to me as well. it's frustrating.
you are not useless or a burden you deserve human rights like everyone else.
we really do.
i need to keep hearing this more often... im way too mean to myself
im not a mistake for being this way, I am very well loved (ᵔᴥᵔ)
honestly, I needed to see something like this. Thank you for saying it.
One of the most annoying parts for me is when someone finds out why I can't do any kind of physical job they just say "go to rehab".
I tried, it made the pain of my Repetitive Strain Injury flare ups worse to the point of total immobilization until the RSI calmed down and the flare up ended.
Not all invisible physical disabilities can be made better with physical therapy, which is what I meant to put but character limit meant using a shorter word.
I’m getting vocational rehab counseling soon actually
Hope I can find something way better than what burnt me out in the first place
;;n;; this one hits me so hard, I always feel so useless compared to everyone and my partner, but I know it's not my fault
I have parents (whom I'm forced to live with) who don't believe that crippling disabilities like mine exist, but fuck them! We keep on truckin' anyways!~
Pwincess needs to hear this more, her amazing gf/Mommy does so much to make sure she don't have to ruin herself trying to work again! Pwincess always worries about being a burden but Mommy has only stepped up even more since she started finding littlespace and wearing diapers!
thank you!!! I was having a really rough day with being too disabled to work today, so i really appreciate this right now.
Feeling like I'm not able to socialize like all those boring normies today. Thank you for saying this. I sometimes come off as brash or insensitive but in reality. I just can't remember the rules of socializing.
I can't even find the right words to express just how many thoughts I have about this after working for 15 years manual labor as a clearly nuerodivergent individual. I never felt like I had a choice. And the sickening fact is many people don't have a choice, sadly. I really appreciate your words. 💙
Gosh, I really needed to hear something like this, being disabled having stomach and leg issues along with incontinence, it makes it extremely difficult if not impossible to keep a normal job, and that's on top of waking up nearly every day feeling fatigued and/or tired. (Cont.)
It sucks too bc I see my roommate(s) work and I wanna be able to work to help contribute more (as well as just be able to do more physically), so hearing this hit really close to home for me
On a brighter note, I'm looking forward to starting HRT next month when I see my gender affirming care doctor, so I'm quite excited
Actually yeah, I think I needed to read that.
We do really deserve better.
:)
please always feel like your worth it, because you are. I'm sorry we live in this capitalist society ♥
i can never escape feeling like a tumor but it’s nice to see some visibility
i feel bad about calling myself disabled bc ive kept a full time service job for the last few years
but good lord is it a struggle to even attempt to keep the house clean between constant pain and fatigue. i barely even touch my hobbies bc of it, let alone picking up new ones im interested in
id love to start cooking!!!!
i wish i could!!!!!
if i even had the energy once a MONTH to do it, the cleanup is impossible :c for the last few years ive had the same dishes in my sink for at least a year at a time
My mother called me lazy the entirety of the time I struggled through depression.
I also later learned a large part of the problem was ADHD making memory and time difficult.
She claimed I had neither for years and now acts like I never told her in the first place. It sucks.
They deserve to live just like we do..despite their shortcomings.