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ellaroux (glip)
@glip.floraverse.com
by the way i just block dramamongers, i am not interested in engaging
it is always someone gaslighting me over my experience and i do not really care about that, and it is not healthy to engage someone who has no interest in empathizing - that would be subjecting myself to abuse, which i won't do
July 15, 2025 at 10:22 AM
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to be crystal clear, i did not groom anyone, i am not a zoophile, i am not a pedophile, and people getting mad at me over these things doesn't touch me emotionally at all because i know who i am and what i feel
i can understand confusion based on how people spread drama, but this is my reality
please pay attention to the ways people direct energy and try to get you to act
if they're trying to get you to be mad at someone, that's not the same as focusing on healing for anyone who feels hurt
focusing on healing is always going to be the better thing to do rather than attacking someone
please do not let yourself be exploited by outrage, as it's going to make you a poor listener and likely someone who propagates harm
when i couldn't listen well, harm came from me more often, and i could not hear pain
listening is the most important skill you can develop i think, for healing