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The woman who made online dating a science

Helen Fisher sees our tech-savvy romantic actions as extensions of the moves our ancestors made.

The anthropologist and famed love expert Helen Fisher seems ready to dash into oncoming traffic. We are on a sidewalk in Manhattan, opposite the American Museum of Natural History, and nowhere near a safe place to cross the street. She wants me to stare down the yellow cabs and charge off the curb, though she knows I won’t do it: I’d recently taken the personality questionnaire she wrote 17 years ago for a dating website, which produced the insight that I am a cautious, conventional rule follower. She, however, is an “explorer” – she has visited 111 countries, including North Korea – but also, being high in estrogen, a “negotiator” who will use the crosswalk for my benefit.

Helen Fisher: Dating apps can’t possibly kill romance. Getty

Atlantic

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