AGPs are some of my favorite people. They’re usually creative aspie types, who are more compassionate & introspective than typical het men, probably because they never learned how to play the male hierarchy games (on account of the ASD).
Except however when AGP co-occurs with NPD (which is unfortunately common), rendering them the worst people on the planet. These are who GCs think of as AGPs. Which is why they don’t see it in the quiet sensitive teen boys & young men.