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Swinging or Cheating?
Sometimes it’s a fine line…
I really wanted to watch my ex-boyfriend fuck another woman. Why? Um…you’d have to talk to my therapist about that — man does she have some theories. But at the time I thought I wanted to watch him fuck another woman because Joel is so damn tightly wound. I wanted to see him let loose. Go crazy. Do something wild, really wild.
For all partners considering the full swap, I think one of them is often gently nudging the other over the edge, for various reasons. It could be for their own selfish reasons. A man might talk his girlfriend or wife into it because he is dying to fuck another woman and the only way that’s going to happen is if she fucks another man.
But there are instances where the push is more altruistic. I like to think I was pushing Joel for his own good.
Hector and Melissa
In the weeks after we set the date for our first swap, Joel and I had amazing sex ourselves. It was like making this appointment had “opened things up” and brought the passion back to our sex. I really had never been happier in the hay, so to speak, and I think he felt the same.
We had first met on Zoom. Hector and Melissa were good-looking and cool. They laughed a lot. Plus they had swapped before and had a great time and were looking to do…
