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Pros and cons of dating (ex-) hookers?

I have been going to prostitutes occasionally for a few years, currently I'm in the situation that a girl I've been a client of for a while wants to stop working and jump into a relationship with me. On the one hand, I'm aware that, most likely, I'm simply an easy ticket for her out of this life. I have a good job and stable living situation, so she can be a free rider instead of selling her pussy to get by. On the other hand, she's cute and skinny, almost 15 years younger than me (early 20s vs mid 30s), has no kids or other baggage, and no drug issues apart from the occasional blunt, and the sex is amazing. The fact that she's been doing this job for a while doesn't really bother me that much (I think?), especially because I know that she only works/worked with condoms. It's still kinda weird and messing with my head a bit, but my current mindset is to simply go for it, and at worst I'll have a young qt at home for a while that I can use as I wish... and when in doubt, I can end it whenever I want anyway. For context: I'm in western eu and girl is eastern european, came here to do this job and get by.

Opinions?
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Beat it up OP, the world is ending sooner rather than later. You should keep all your passwords and financials far from her though
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>>931599989 #
True, I'd have to make some security prep before letting her move in, but tbh I don't think she's either clever or devious enough to plan/pull some kind of con. Basically just the mind of a young immature girl, which I don't mind because it can be really fun
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I would, I mean most young women are promiscuous, at least she did it for the money.
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>>931599893 (OP) #
oldest story in this business...she tries to rip you off.
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>>931600741 #
Rip me off how? I've been a regular for a few months, and lately she has stopped taking money from me because she says it makes her feel bad because she has feelings for me. If I let her move in and go along with this, what should I look out for?
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>>931599893 (OP) #
Hey OP

Here's a question.
While you are paying for it, you can do pretty much what you want or at least, what's agreed to and don't have to worry about the aftermath but if you bring this chick into your life then is she still going to be open to all those options cause now she's not getting paid to run your ass anymore etc
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>>931601071 #
True, but currently I have sex 2-3 times per week and until recently I had to pay for it. Having sex daily, or pretty much whenever I want, seems a worthy tradeoff for a modicum of headache. Especially since this girl doesn't have any real financial problems or baggage that she would bring into my life. Currently I still don't really see a good reason to not at least give it a shot and see where it goes. As I said above, at worst, I will have a qt at home for fun for a while and if anything is off or she starts bothering me I throw her out (of my apartment/life) again. Unless/b/ argues me out of it, I will very likely give it a try anh2pt
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>>931601071 #
>>931601271 #
... and to add to that, if anything, I get more since she told me she wants more from me than to simply be a client. Not only has she stopped taking money, she also removed the condom one day in order to "prove" that she is serious about what she says... We have been rawdogging since but I don't finish inside. This is a girl which usually insists on condom use for everything, even for blowjobs (which is unusual)
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>>931601071 #

You should also ask her for FULL transparency by finding out how long she's been in the game, what's her total number, any other repeat clients (in case you bump into them and they think they can treat/speak to her a certain way) and what's the most wildest/weirdest shit she's done

I knowing her numbers might hurt but at least you know maybe even change your mind if it's huge or wife her is it's still low
Also knowing the wildest shit she's down gives you an idea of the boundaries and what you can push but be prepared to walk if you find out she's fucked a dog or something but your on /b so I'm sure your already a sick fuck lol
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>>931601365 #
I know all these things about her already, and she also knows about me that I have had this hobby for a while and have slept with ~200 or so prostitutes over the last few years. We talk quite openly about this stuff
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>>931601271 #
Not here to talk you out of it, in fact, go for it... Turn her inside out and get all your sexual fantasies out your system with her
We are here to make you aware of what your stepping into
Are we talking Romanian or Ukrainian etc

Just be careful shes not filled you in on the whole story and before you know it, you have 2 cousins staying over and won't leave
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40yo oldfag here
dude just go for it. just don‘t leave any passwords or pins or whatnot laying around. fuck all these naysayers, you‘ll always regret the chances you didn‘t take. believe me, i‘ve let one or two of these pass me by and i sometimes think about them
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>>931601365 #
Or don't be a manlet and respect her privacy. Be glad it's you she's choosing to fuck now.
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>>931599893 (OP) #
You wanna date her thats fine, however dont get any kids with her and dont love her. Also, if she had sex with you without a condom when you were paying her she most likely did it with other clients.
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>>931601488 #
Bulgarian. Nobody but her will ever stay here lmao, that would be an immediate red line for me and she could immediately pack her bags in case of such a request. I have some experience with those Romanian and Bulgarian girls, I had some private "flings" outside of their work in the past, and some have actually stayed with me for a few days before, so I know a bit about how they are and what makes them "tick". But I have never started a real relationship with one and had her effectively stop the job and move in with me in my apartment
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>>931600860 #
> lately she has stopped taking money from me because she says it makes her feel bad because she has feelings for me
Whores have no feelings, and selling your body for sex is the lowest possible tier a woman can reach. She was making a long term plan with you by giving you freebies, she sees you as an investment.
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>>931601531 #
Well I have no way to check what she did or does with other clients. I just know that usually she insists on condom for everything, even head, and when she took it off with me, it was intended as a kind of proof towards me that she really has feelings for me
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>>931601565 #
And to what end? She already knows from my history that I'm far too experienced with these Romanian and Bulgarian girls to fall for the typical "my mom/dad/whatever is in the hospital and we don't have insurance, can you help out with money?"-kind-of bullshit stories haha. As long as I'm not stupid, I simply don't see any (financial) risk on my side for giving this thing a chance, and if I smell anything off after a while I can simply give her the boot and go back to my previous lifestyle. As far as I can tell, all the risk is on her side for giving up this job in order to move in with a stranger
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>>931601504 #
Going for 40 myself, and this lines up with my thinking more or less. I don't really see any good reasons to not go for it, there seems to be little risk on my side. Just wanted to crosscheck with/b/ whether I'm thinking too much with my dick instead of my head in this case, and thus overlooking some good reasons to be a bit more hesitant
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>>931601636 #
> usually
Get tested bro.
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>>931601872 #
Just dont get her pregnant and enjoy the ride.
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>>931601883 #
Meh not nearly the first working girl I've fucked without condom, never had any issues

>>931601900 #
So far I pull out, but not in her request. Let's see how long I can resist just nutting inside
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>>931601565 #
Untrue, whores have feelings. They use their feelings to manipulate men.
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>>931599893 (OP) #
I was in a similar scenario. Ex-escort I started to date while customer. Had been booking her for over 2 years or so when we really got attached, started with some heavy discounts (staying 3 hours while only paying for one) and afterwards we'd just meet as a date.
Started fucking her no condom when she was still receiving other customers but was building of clients. After she fully quit we dated for 3 years untill she wanted to move back to Romania and at the time I didn't want that and we broke up over it. Regret it till this day. Pic related from her old escort ad.
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>>931600860 #
I've done it and don't recommend it. It's always hey can I have some money for bail/food/drugs/fake trouble. And you get less and less sex
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>>931601872 #
fuck it bro, you only live once
what eu country are you from?
i‘m swiss
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>>931599893 (OP) #
Disclaimer: I had a fling with an ex stripper but i'm 99.9% sure she hooked on the side to make some extra money.

Pro: She will drain your balls with the power of a thousand suns.

Con: Literally, and I mean LITERALLY, everything else.

Legit insane: I don't mean in the sense that guys will say their ex is crazy, I mean these bitches have legit mental health problems from drug use, daddy issues, being sexually assaulted both as an adult and often as a child.

Gold Diggers: To be fair, i'm using my limited experience with this one. The one I was seeing was a stripper/escort, not a bottom of the pile street walker, so she made really good money the eight years she did it. She developed a taste for the finer things in liffe. Do you really want to spoil and give princess treatment to some whore who had hundreds or thousands of men blasting loads in and on her day in and day out? I didn't think so.

Obsessive: If this slut actually, really likes you to the point where she is willing to do all the nasty things for you for free that she did for cash with those other men, she will QUICKLY develop an unhealthy obsession with you. This bitch told me on day 2 that she loved me more than any other man ever. Later on, she sensed I was getting ready to ditch her so she told me she was pregenant. Obvious lie.

Stalker: She stalked my work and home. Would wait outside of my work so I couldn't avoid her. Knew that sex was the only weapon she had in her fight to keep me, so would send me nudes constantly, would send audio messages of her talking about how much she wanted my cock, send more audio messages of her cumming to the thought of me, and so much more

Pathological Liar: This whore lied about everything. EVERYTHING. If it was somehow in her benefit to convince you that the sky was red, she would try.

There's more but I'm sick of typing


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