Around five years ago, David—a pseudonym—realized that he was fighting with his girlfriend all the time. On their first date, he had told her that he hoped to have sex with a thousand women before he died. They’d eventually agreed to have an exclusive relationship, but monogamy remained a source of tension. “I always used to tell her how much it bothered me,” he recalled. “I was an asshole.”
When Philosophers Become Therapists
The philosophical-counselling movement aims to apply heady, logical insights to daily life.
Illustration by Tim Enthoven