[Feminist] Chizuko Ueno: "All a middle school boy needs to do is ask a mature woman to let him have sex with her. If he gets down on his knees 10 times, he'll say yes once."

According to J-Cast News

First Time: "If only I were younger..."

   The life advice question that Ueno answered was titled "A Crucible of Worries" and was published in the Asahi Shimbun's "be" on December 2012, 12. The questioner was a 8-year-old male junior high school student who had such a strong sex drive that he couldn't concentrate on studying for his entrance exams. He takes care of his sexual desires on his own, but gets turned on when he sees a cute girl. He can't control his urge to touch a real girl's body, and he worries that he might attack a woman on the street at night.

   In her response, Ueno said that she felt sorry for men because they are creatures who are driven by their sexual desires. However, now high school boys, who should be at the peak of their sexual desires, are saying that dating women is troublesome.

"First of all, remember that dating someone of the opposite sex is a pain. It's a pain just to be friends, but it's even more pain to have someone take off their pants for you."

He explains that there is a way to have sex that avoids this "troublesome" process.

"Just ask an experienced mature woman, even if it means kneeling down, to let you do it."

   Ueno's friend says that by doing this, he was able to get approval one time out of ten. In the past, there were older women who would take the virginity of young men, and the young men were looked after by them.

"If only I were younger..."

"Once you have enough experience, it's time to ask a girl you really like," he advises.

If you dogeza 10 times, will you get a positive response once?

   This answer caused a stir on the Internet, and the topic quickly spread on Twitter. Some people on the Internet said that the answer was stimulating and refreshing, so they liked it, but

"If only I were younger... I wonder if this would be traumatic for middle school boys?"
"In the first place, this is not something you should talk about with middle school boys."
"Isn't the PTA going to keep quiet about this? In the first place, this would violate the Child Welfare Act and the obscenity ordinance."

And so on and so forth.

   This topic was also covered on the Tokyo MX TV program "Goji ni Muchuu Saturday!" broadcast on December 12, 12, in which comedian Kintaro Tamabukuro (8) said that he had discovered that if he asked a mature woman 5 times, she would say yes once, and he repeatedly got down on his knees and begged her on the show.

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Editor A's opinion

When I read this consultation, I felt that it was a very serious concern and sympathized with the conflicts that are unique to adolescence. At the age of 15, having urges that are so strong that they affect your daily life may cause greater anxiety than adults can imagine. I also felt the sincerity of the person's serious consideration of "what to do" about such urges.

During adolescence, many young people experience various changes. Physical growth and emotional fluctuations are difficult to predict, and many are confused about their own behavior. In particular, many people go through a process when it comes to sexual urges, and many worry that they cannot suppress or manage them. It can take time to learn to manage yourself, so relying on the adults around you is one way to deal with this.

Of course, the pressure of having to concentrate as a student taking exams may be making this problem even worse. It is a very difficult situation for a student to be unable to concentrate on their studies because they are worried about their impulses even when they try to concentrate on their studies. However, acquiring the ability to manage oneself will be extremely useful in the future, so it is important to take the time to develop this ability.

Also, having the urge to "touch a real girl's body" is not a bad thing in itself. However, the important thing is how to suppress such emotions and manage yourself appropriately. At this stage, trying to deal with the urge rationally rather than following the urge is already part of self-management. Humans are often swayed by emotions, but if you can cultivate the ability to judge things rationally, you will be able to deal with various problems in the future.

Of course, it is also important for adults to provide appropriate support to young people who are troubled by these issues. For example, talking to a trusted person close to you or receiving counseling may help ease your worries little by little. Talking can help you see the problem objectively and may help you feel better.

Finally, it is not unusual to be troubled by your impulses at this age. It is a part of the growing up process that many people go through. Through this consultation, I have gained a deeper understanding of the troubles unique to adolescence and have been reminded of the importance of self-management. I sincerely hope that this experience will be a source of nourishment for you in your future life, and that you will gain stronger self-management skills.

Written by: Editorial Department A

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