Jacob Tyler Oakes

I will always remember the first time I met young Jake and the last time I saw him all grown up. Both times he was smiling and fortunately, for me, I'll always have those joyful memories. My thoughts are with you everyday.

Marcia, I was devastated to hear about Jake and feel heartbroken for you and your family. Ciara, I and the Johnny Carino's family will keep you and your family in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. You have our deepest and most sincere condolences.

Dear Gary, Marcia and Emily: We are devastated by the loss of your dear son and brother Jake. The pain this is causing has no words to measure. Jake, such a promising young man; smart, kind, thoughtful, funny and a true friend. We loved him so much and will miss him terribly. He will remain in our hearts forever. Hard to forget his smile and engaging laugh. Our deepest sympathy for the loss you endure. Love Shawn & Barb. Dear Jake: We will miss you for the rest of our lives. Such a great friend to Kyle since Grade 1, we are so thankful for all the wonderful times you spent with our family. The many sleepovers, vacations, Pokemon tournaments, and early morning drives to LASA; just a few of the memories that go on and on. We enjoyed your sense of humor and dry wit, your passion for Sci-fi and computers, Pokemon!, and the wonderful connection you shard with your friends. You have left us better people with your presence and perspective. We lament that it was far too short. We will miss spending time with you and Kyle, seeing the world through your developing minds and eyes. Loved always, Shawn and Barb.

Dear Gary, Marcia, Emily, and family. I am so saddened to just learn of Jake's passing today. Jake was a very special boy and young man that we loved having as a part of the Clayton family. My heart is broken for you guys, as I can't imagine what you are going through. I will always remember him fondly as a kind and generous little boy with a warm smile. Again, I am so so sorry for your loss. I will be praying for your sweet family and Jake. Please let me know if there is anything you need. Once a Cardinal, always a Cardinal.

We have only great memories of Jake! The joy he brought to our family with countless sleepovers, play dates, scouting events, the after school care we provided, and of course how he was such a great BEST FRIEND to Cody when they were younger. His sweet, gentle and loving nature was infectious. Our hearts are saddened that he has left his earthly body but we rejoice in the fact that we will all see him again by Jesus' side one day. Much love to your family, Brandi, David & Cody Hitchcock

Marcia, my heart breaks for you and your family. You have been in my thoughts constantly. You have my deepest condolences, and hope for peace for your family and for Jake. Love and prayers to you all.

Marcia, please know that we will continue to pray for strength for you and the family. We know that you will miss your precious boy and we are here anytime you need a hug. Love,

Marcia, Gary, and Emily - We are so sorry for your loss. We pray that each day you will feel the Lord's presence, peace, and comfort. Jake was one of Jacob's first friends in preschool, and we will remember with great fondness all of the fun times they shared at school and in scouting. Sending prayers and love from the Murphy family.

Marcia, Gary and Emily, Although I did not now Jake, I had the wonderful pleasure of going to middle school and high school with Marcia. I can see your smile Marcia, in the pictures of Jake. I know you have had to put forth a lot of grace over this past week and I'm thankful that you have the loving example of God's grace to help you through this time. Jake will hold a lasting memory in so many peoples lives. My prayers will be with you and your family. In Him, Betty (Taverner) Hart

Gary, Marcia, & Emily. We grieve with you over the loss of Jake's precious presence in your lives. Please let us know if there is anything you need; we can probably get there faster than anyone else. Love, the Bantas Isaiah 43:2 When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze.

Dear Gary, Marcia, and Emily, I have prayed fervently for your family over the last week, but just didn't have the words to share. Our whole family is so deeply sorry for your loss. I have heard how incredibly smart and kind Jake was. I have no doubt that he was an amazing kid with you as his mama, Marcia! Please know that even as all of the people go home and you begin to try to find some sort of "new normal", the Dotson family will not forget and will still be praying. Praise God for the hope He gives and that you will one day see Jake again. I pray His supernatural peace over your family. Lots of love!!!

Marcia and family, We are so sorry to hear of your loss. You all have been on our hearts and in our prayers and will continue to be. Praying you will feel the arms of Jesus comfort and love around you every minute of every day.

Jake, Papa and I are going to miss your beautiful smile and the sparkle in your eyes. Jake, you were so kind, loving, respectful, always accepting of others. Our hearts are so broken, but we know with out a doubt that God is holding you in his arms surrounded by Angels. We will miss such a light in our lives. You will always be with us. Just wish we could hug you- just one more time. What a great grandson. Love NaNa and PaPa.

Jake, Dad here. I will miss you every day of my life. We fought together, we laughed together, we discussed some might say argued' together. I thank you for all the great memories. Thanks for going to those action movies with me that I know you didn't want to see. Thanks for pulling me out of the cactus when I crashed my mountain bike. You were passionate about your ideas and I loved that about you. Thanks for being such a great Son. I'm not sure how we will get along without you. You are so loved, so smart, so polite and so funny funny when you wanted to be'. I'm proud to be your father you made me a better person. I'll spend the rest of my life trying to be the father, husband, friend that you would be proud of. Love Dad

Dear Marcia, Gary and Emily and extended family, Please feel the light and love I have been sending your way since we heard the news of Jake's transition. You are surrounded by God's love, never separate from it. I hope peace will land in your heart soon. All my love! Shana Tatum

Gary, Marcia and Emily, We are deeply saddened by your loss and holding you extra close in our hearts. We'll always remember Jake's sweet smile, curious mind and his genuine kindness. He was truly a gift. Cory, Christian, Sean and Brian McDonald

Jake, I remember meeting you when I was in kindergarten. We've had a bunch of funny jokes and stories together. Like how you and I had a debate over chicken nuggets and talked about dinosaurs. I'm gonna miss seeing you at my house all the time. You've been Kyle's best friend for his whole life. You were like a brother to me. I hope you don't feel pain anymore. We love you, Jake. Goodbye, sweet soul.

Thanks for introducing me to Star Trek. I'll miss you.

Dear Gary and Marcia & Emily Please accept my heartfelt condolences. I am so sorry for your great loss, and I hope and pray that God, and family and friends will help comfort you all. All my love, Shawn Daugherty

Dear Marcia, Gary, and Emily, I'm heartbroken to hear that Jacob has passed on, and I'm sending you my love and support. I pray that Jesus will be with you all and rally around your beautiful family, and hopefully help lift your spirits during this time of grief and great sorrow. Love, James Daugherty

To the Oakes family -- may peace be with you, may He hold you in His hands and bear your grief during this time of mourning.

Gary and Marcia, may God bless and comfort you and your family during this time of indescribable grief.