There's Chinese proverb that says: He who blames others has long way to go on his journey. He who blames himself is halfway there, He who blames no one has arrived.

No matter what people did to you, try to no longer put the blame them. Take responsibility for your actions and choose to become a better person. It's easier said than done but it's a major step that will help heal you.✨

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Dhruva Das Munshi

Ex Commando, Served in the S S, Journalist and Inspirational Author. On a spiritual journey to know myself and help people realise their highest potential.