INTERVIEW

I spent a year having casual sex — this is what I’ve learnt

When the writer Kitty Ruskin set out on a mission to have no-strings sex, she learnt a lot about herself and even more about the state of modern dating

The author Kitty Ruskin
The author Kitty Ruskin
VICTORIA ADAMSON
The Sunday Times

There are few things that make me feel like a prude, but reading Kitty Ruskin’s memoir, Ten Men: A Year of Casual Sex, on my busy train commute is one of them. Perhaps it’s the bold title, or maybe the fear of someone reading the graphic descriptions of Ruskin’s sexual escapades over my shoulder, but I find myself trying to conceal the cover.

“I’m nervous about the reaction,” Ruskin admits when we meet. “I work in social media, so I can predict the hate that’s going to come my way.”

The book documents the now 30-year-old’s dating life during 2019, when she set out on a year of no-strings-attached casual sex. “I had one goal,” Ruskin writes in it, “to stop being so precious

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