She Doesn’t Want To F*CK you Because…..

Gene Gerrienne

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When I was with this girl, let’s call her Marie our s*xlife went from good to…almost non-existent…

All in the span of a few months only…

Now, based “feedback” from the women I’ve been with, I’d say I know what I’m doing in the bedroom ;)

And Marie got to enjoy those benefits too. But, nevertheless, she stopped sleeping with me. And when I banged her harder when it happened, and she came even harder, to then only not want to do it for another few weeks, I was confused as fck.

“How can she not want something that makes her feel so good?”

Back in the days, I hadn’t figured it out. And no, she wasn’t cheating. She didn’t have time for that. She worked 100–120 hours in Investment Banking and the little time she had free, she spent with me.

Now, a few years later, the penny dropped.

“What happens IN the bedroom is a reflection of what happens OUTSIDE the bedroom”

It’s one of the most beautiful statements I’ve ever read. Simple. To the point. And fckng TRUE.

I focused so much on techniques, concepts and skills that I forgot the basics….I was stuck in the bedroom, while life also happens outside the bedroom.

Let me explain.

A Woman’s s3x drive is a function of two things: Her accelerators and brakes.

“What the hell are accelerators and brakes man?”

Let me put you on game.

Accelerators = her desires and her state of arousal

“Brakes” = her nervous system and amygdala. Sounds complicated, I know. Quite simply, it’s how safe and secure she feels with you….

Arouse her while she doesn’t feel safe and she won’t drop her panties….Make her feel safe without arousing her. She won’t drop her panties either….

You have to Push accelerator + let go of brakes = CRAZY desire

When I was with Marie, I ONLY focused on pushing her accelerators. But when was stressed as hell because of work, her brakes were still on. On top, I started to act like a…