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We aren’t a monolith. Some will and some won’t.
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Yes, they are just like any other women and same with some AFs. Some girls you just want to have fun and you let back out on the streets. Some girls you want to take home to meet your mom.
I was almost married to a European WF, both family liked us. Now I'm dating XFs with potential to marry.
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Yes. At one point I almost married my ex, who was a white British.
I think the main problem though is the whole “pleasing the family” and cultural difference.
In my opinion (without stats evidence), XF will have a much better chance of dating an Asian man that is culturally mixed (such as lived in the west for quite a long time), than an Asian man who spent a lot of his live in Asia.
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OP you are a sex worker. Nothing against your profession but unfortunately that’s a hard no for most guys, Asian or not. I am curious why you prefer Asian men though?
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I'm an Asian man who's dated a few white girls, and I don't see myself being in long term relationships with them anymore. At least the white girls from America/the West. In my experience, their moral compasses are all fucked up compared to women from other cultures, and I'd even say compared to white women from Eastern Europe/Central Asia/Russia. What I mean by this is that I wouldn't see myself trusting in them if I were in a relationship with them.
Maybe I'm meeting the wrong type of white girls. But from experience, they're more likely to cheat on their men compared to other women from different cultures (including non-western white girls). I recently got in contact with one of my exes, who's like you; blonde, blue eyes, pale skin, attractive to a lot of white guys. I got in contact with her because I heard from the grapevines that she got married, bought a house, started the whole "keeping up with the Jones" life, etc.
I just wanted to know what she was up to, as we stayed pretty good friends even after we broke up. We just drifted apart and lost contact for a few years. We get to talking and she says she wants me to spend the weekend at her place...when her white guy husband is on deployment...lol. Now I don't know about you, but that's a pretty big red flag right there lol. I'm not gonna do that to the dude, especially because he's serving in the military...I got family who are and have served in the military too (Korean military), so I know that life.
I also know that another ex of mine would be super down to hook up if I really went hard on her lol. She's one of those white girls that did the whole work-transfer out to Asia thing. She was one of those weeb chicks that wore Korean fashion when we dated, which is a super turn on to me lol. She ends up marrying some short pudgy white guy out there, which really shocked me lol. And just looking at her social media, I know she wants that attention lol.
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I definitely would be interested in that. I'm surprised you have a hard time as a blonde girl with blue eyes. Those are pretty in demand and I find it extremely rare for me to find blondes interested in me.
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I think how Asian men and especially western Asian men are less likely to approach white women based on rejection as an adult and childhood experiences born and raised in the west.
I think height is the other big factor. I see mostly non-western Asian couples have a 1-3 inch height diff, but Asian-White couples have a 3+ height diff and white women are taller. Personally I don’t like dating tall girls +5’7
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100% me and my partner are 6yrs in and not married (yet due to my nasasistic parents - I don't want them to meet my beautiful partners parents Honestly).
I found when dating Asian guys you have to initiate it/show interest/chase than if they like you back then dating can start and be upfront with what you both want in the relationship.
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A 5’7 sex worker with blonde hair and blue eyes is not your average white girl. Given your resume, I doubt it’s Asian men who are the “problem”. Let’s not make assumptions or draw conclusions now.
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There are plenty of Asian men, especially in western countries that would love a committed relationship with someone like you, be careful what you wish for as you may get a thousand messages lol hit me up if you want to chat sometime ;)
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Down to compatability really , race isnt the problem. Have been on a number of dates with white women , but it was always down to compatibility that made a relationship go forward. Unfortunately , it was easier to be with asian women in that respect , but its not for lack of trying with white women.
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I prefer white girls, but what really matters is if she's for the streets or not.
Hoes are for recreational usage only.
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It is more like most white women and asian women see asian men as a step down or downgrade in their dating life. You are probably the exception.
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That’s sad.
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My almost married times and current were all to White women.
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